Hi people,
I am just wondering how you people finding working with a HR lady boss ? We sure know every one is not same and behaviors of an individual that makes them different. In my hr career , I had 4 male bosses and 2 lady bosses (current superior is a lady).
I had the most enjoyable moments working with my male bosses . Not only that they can handle themself very well but the guidance and coaching that they provide is superb. One male boss was a womaniser but he did not make it apparent at work.
I encountered 2 worst experience in my whole career. Lady bosses :
1. They lose their head to frequently
2. They change their mind every now and then
3. They hav got head and mood swings
4. They show their anger to you
5. Less appreciation shown
6. Egoistic
7. Fussy
8. Clumsy at times
Along the way in my career, I look up into many managers and bosses and hope one day i could be there to achieve their positions. That is a determination but i continuously remind myself that I will never behave like them. Behaviour and your attitude that you mirror to the rest is very important, as each manager fail to realise one of their associates are looking at them for inspiration and motivation. It is very dissapointing , as we are speaking of human resources development but the essence of it is not well absorbed even by the person who is initiating it .
Again, I would like to stress that not everyone is same but mostly that i have encountered with my lady bosses is unquestionable. They are complete freak and fail to behave like a professional working adult.
Kindly share your experience with lady boss if you have the same opinion with me .
Thank you and have a nice day,
From Malaysia, Kuala Lumpur
2I am just wondering how you people finding working with a HR lady boss ? We sure know every one is not same and behaviors of an individual that makes them different. In my hr career , I had 4 male bosses and 2 lady bosses (current superior is a lady).
I had the most enjoyable moments working with my male bosses . Not only that they can handle themself very well but the guidance and coaching that they provide is superb. One male boss was a womaniser but he did not make it apparent at work.
I encountered 2 worst experience in my whole career. Lady bosses :
1. They lose their head to frequently
2. They change their mind every now and then
3. They hav got head and mood swings
4. They show their anger to you
5. Less appreciation shown
6. Egoistic
7. Fussy
8. Clumsy at times
Along the way in my career, I look up into many managers and bosses and hope one day i could be there to achieve their positions. That is a determination but i continuously remind myself that I will never behave like them. Behaviour and your attitude that you mirror to the rest is very important, as each manager fail to realise one of their associates are looking at them for inspiration and motivation. It is very dissapointing , as we are speaking of human resources development but the essence of it is not well absorbed even by the person who is initiating it .
Again, I would like to stress that not everyone is same but mostly that i have encountered with my lady bosses is unquestionable. They are complete freak and fail to behave like a professional working adult.
Kindly share your experience with lady boss if you have the same opinion with me .
Thank you and have a nice day,
From Malaysia, Kuala Lumpur
well Sir
I don't think that's its genuine on your side to give such a general statement about lady bosses only on working with two ladies being your superiors. You can't judge millions on account of two examples alone. Even you didn't disclosed your own behavior
while working with these ladies and many other such facts were still disclosed.
From India, Chandigarh
I don't think that's its genuine on your side to give such a general statement about lady bosses only on working with two ladies being your superiors. You can't judge millions on account of two examples alone. Even you didn't disclosed your own behavior
while working with these ladies and many other such facts were still disclosed.
From India, Chandigarh
I actually want to disagree with you somehow on the thing you said that people are all the same. In this world, the main reason why HRM was invented was the fact that people are so different and vary with time. Its because of this that also, there exists psychologists too. I would advise to learn your woman HR boss because at one moment, she cannot be anywhere close to how the past bosses were. I however feel that its good that she brings out her feelings and that i guess should be your strongest point to learn her situations. Anyways, i pray that you find the best in your boss because when you do, you will find it so easy to deal with women bosses although i would want to know your sex also. CIAO
From Uganda
From Uganda
Dear Sonia Bason,
As i have again and again mentioned , this post is not to pin down anyone in specific. I hope its not a close offence to you . But your opinion again counts and thanks a lot.
Dear Saint,
Please read my lines closely. I never said people are same. If i have so said then i should probably throwing meat in a zoo. Im a female. That does not make me least capable in understanding another woman if you want to hold that point of mine.
Thanks ,
From Malaysia, Kuala Lumpur
As i have again and again mentioned , this post is not to pin down anyone in specific. I hope its not a close offence to you . But your opinion again counts and thanks a lot.
Dear Saint,
Please read my lines closely. I never said people are same. If i have so said then i should probably throwing meat in a zoo. Im a female. That does not make me least capable in understanding another woman if you want to hold that point of mine.
Thanks ,
From Malaysia, Kuala Lumpur
Well.........I have to disagree!! Because in fact I have come across to my male bosses with the negative traits that you mentioned.
I give my full credit to my first boss who is Lady! Whatever I am today or people know me in my industry is just because she groomed me well!
Please I would request you not to make a general statement!
I can understand your pain of not being appreciated and also the pain of dealing with the tough boss but its not the gender but it depends on lot of things like upbringing, situations, past experiences, some bitter incidents etc!
I hope you will get a good boss soon!!
From India, Ahmadabad
I give my full credit to my first boss who is Lady! Whatever I am today or people know me in my industry is just because she groomed me well!
Please I would request you not to make a general statement!
I can understand your pain of not being appreciated and also the pain of dealing with the tough boss but its not the gender but it depends on lot of things like upbringing, situations, past experiences, some bitter incidents etc!
I hope you will get a good boss soon!!
From India, Ahmadabad
I had one lady boss who was a real pain, she was a very strict person not much knowledge and just become HR manager by HOOK CROOK, knew nothing had a tough time dealing with her, that was only for 14 days, many females have this complex, that they fear that they might be dominated by men and hence they themselves start dominating men, and harassing them, very hard to deal with such ladies..
From India, Madras
From India, Madras
Even i do not agree with you. I think if we understand the way of working of our boss than be it female or male .... Things would be easier....
And I would like to tell you just keep in mind " People are different and not difficult"... Life will become easy everywhere...
Just learn to deal with different kinds of behaviour of people...:)
From India, Mumbai
And I would like to tell you just keep in mind " People are different and not difficult"... Life will become easy everywhere...
Just learn to deal with different kinds of behaviour of people...:)
From India, Mumbai
HI Pooja glad to see u in this section hope many people too take part in serious discussions...........................
From India, Madras
From India, Madras
I normally read the threads here......But as m not that expereinced I cant participate....Try to comment where ever I feel I can.... :)
From India, Mumbai
From India, Mumbai
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