Yes Taz I agree with you....Every creature is unique as created by GOD and one must never compare with other. But what Ash meant please don't take literally. Am sure you have understood the essence of the story...human relations.....cheers buddy
regard, ukmitra
From Saudi Arabia, Riyadh
296regard, ukmitra
From Saudi Arabia, Riyadh
Hi Asha,
Sharing real life experience by realizing ur mistake is really an appreciable one... This learning is worthless... Humanity is erasing in this fast-paced world & let us all resume it back with our kind acts. Thank u for this post.
Hope ur experience have reached many/will be reaching many through me... Happy onam...
From India, Bangalore
Sharing real life experience by realizing ur mistake is really an appreciable one... This learning is worthless... Humanity is erasing in this fast-paced world & let us all resume it back with our kind acts. Thank u for this post.
Hope ur experience have reached many/will be reaching many through me... Happy onam...
From India, Bangalore
I'm impressed!!! (By your boldness in fighting for your right).
It’s truly a very hard position to be in. That how life will always unfolds. Even with your best intentions you feel that you had done something wrong!!!
I really don’t think so …
If you had the boldness required to ask (or) fight for what you had a right-to, you should also have the courage to ask polite sorry when you find out that you made a mistake … And then just stop thinking about it.
So stop worrying!!
Not only for your future travelling pursuits … But life as well … Good Luck … Bye
From India, Coimbatore
It’s truly a very hard position to be in. That how life will always unfolds. Even with your best intentions you feel that you had done something wrong!!!
I really don’t think so …
If you had the boldness required to ask (or) fight for what you had a right-to, you should also have the courage to ask polite sorry when you find out that you made a mistake … And then just stop thinking about it.
So stop worrying!!
Not only for your future travelling pursuits … But life as well … Good Luck … Bye
From India, Coimbatore
I really liked the way you expressed your regrets towards them. It reflects your humanistic attitude. Please do not feel bad that you didn't behave well with them in the beginning. I justify you, as you were not known about the whole scene and you were just concerned about the seat for your parents.
Really you've touched our hearts with this story.
Good Luck:icon1:
Visu
From India, Hyderabad
Really you've touched our hearts with this story.
Good Luck:icon1:
Visu
From India, Hyderabad
first of all i would lik u wish u a happy onam 2 u & ur family....
the thing tat u posted was nice experience....hats off to her husband....:icon12:
i can surely say tat "realising the mistake is the best punishment"...
so,hats off 2 u too...:)
one thing i would lik to quote....
"WE ARE THE SLAVES OF WHAT WE LEAD OUT...
WE ARE THE MASTERS OF WHAT WE NOT....":confused:
once again , " WISH U A HAPPY & PROSPEROUS ONAM ":)
From India, Madras
the thing tat u posted was nice experience....hats off to her husband....:icon12:
i can surely say tat "realising the mistake is the best punishment"...
so,hats off 2 u too...:)
one thing i would lik to quote....
"WE ARE THE SLAVES OF WHAT WE LEAD OUT...
WE ARE THE MASTERS OF WHAT WE NOT....":confused:
once again , " WISH U A HAPPY & PROSPEROUS ONAM ":)
From India, Madras
That was indeed very touching friends. However, to follow what is already shared by all the members in this thread we need to remind ourselves every single day every single moment of instances like these. There will be times when the anger or the situation might get the better of us. So our effort should be to remain true to ourselves and follow the adage, "treat other like you'd like to be treated by them".
I guess I am being too philosophical here so will probable end it for now :-)
Take care!
From India, Delhi
I guess I am being too philosophical here so will probable end it for now :-)
Take care!
From India, Delhi
Hi Ash Mathew
Happy Onam,
Now a day's respecting elders and other humanitarian attitudes are very rare in the public places, only the selfishness is seen among most of the peoples.
I appreciate you on posting your experience, because most of us not realising our mistakes, even realised dont want to express to others, but you post in the HR site just like appology and share your experience as a lesson to others, hats of to you, really i appreciate you whole heartedly.
I prey the almighty lord Maveli bless all of those family and the speedy recovery of that lady on this special day HAPPY ONAM.
Subiah.G
Chennai
9790948301
From India, Madras
Happy Onam,
Now a day's respecting elders and other humanitarian attitudes are very rare in the public places, only the selfishness is seen among most of the peoples.
I appreciate you on posting your experience, because most of us not realising our mistakes, even realised dont want to express to others, but you post in the HR site just like appology and share your experience as a lesson to others, hats of to you, really i appreciate you whole heartedly.
I prey the almighty lord Maveli bless all of those family and the speedy recovery of that lady on this special day HAPPY ONAM.
Subiah.G
Chennai
9790948301
From India, Madras
Actually need not worry what has happened. To be judgmental is human behavior. This is a scientific behavioral process known as selective perception. 80% of time we exhibit this process in our life unaware.
Don't feel perturbed.
Since you have regretted the incident and realized your folly - get up and get ready to face the next challenge of life.
I will narrate a similar incident that happened in my life.
It was the first week of July 2008. I went to a school to collect the Teacher's Registratrion form for my neighbourer as the school is on my way to office. I reached the reception desk in the morning and many people including parents were sitting there to get the form. The school has already started in the last week after the summer vacations.
A man came there and he sat next to me. When the receptionist was somewhat free, he told her to call the class teacher of Class V and Class II. Then he sat next to him on my left side. Since I was feeling bored sitting for the last 15 minutes, I initiated a talk to pass the time. I asked him about his children, in which class they were studying. He remained speechless. Then I asked him whether he is an office goer or has his own business. He again remained mute. I was surprised on his moves. The man sitting on my rigth side was also watching the happening. I initiated a talk with this person on my right side. After formal greeting, immediately we started making judgements about this person who was not responding. I said that he seems to be asocial, mannerless person, thinking himself to be a celebrity, though he seems to be belonging to a mediocre family. The other person commented, that he does not have etiquettes. and probably he has never been to a good school in his life. Gradually we became very sarcastic about him.
In another 10 minutes, both the class teachers of Class II and V came. They asked for the parent who has called them. On telling that he is the father of Neha and Udit, they started shouting at him. They said that the school has opened for the last week and he has not sent his children to the school. They will not be able to cover up the syllabus.
SUDDENLY THIS PERSON STARTED WEEPING. IN A LOW TONE HE SAID THAT HE HAS COME TO INFORM THEM, THAT DURING THE SUMMER VACATIONS, HIS CHILDREN HAVE GONE TO HARIDWAR FOR GANGA ISHNAN AND BOTH OF THEM HAVE DROWNED IN THE STRONG CURRENT OF WATER. THEY ARE NO MORE AS THEIR BODIES HAVE BEEN RECOVERED.
Suddenly there was a pin drop silence in the Reception area. The teachers started crying and so all the parents present in the room. I utterly felt bad about the incident and cursed my snap judgment and selective perception behavior.
WHAT TO SAY MORE.
From India, Delhi
Don't feel perturbed.
Since you have regretted the incident and realized your folly - get up and get ready to face the next challenge of life.
I will narrate a similar incident that happened in my life.
It was the first week of July 2008. I went to a school to collect the Teacher's Registratrion form for my neighbourer as the school is on my way to office. I reached the reception desk in the morning and many people including parents were sitting there to get the form. The school has already started in the last week after the summer vacations.
A man came there and he sat next to me. When the receptionist was somewhat free, he told her to call the class teacher of Class V and Class II. Then he sat next to him on my left side. Since I was feeling bored sitting for the last 15 minutes, I initiated a talk to pass the time. I asked him about his children, in which class they were studying. He remained speechless. Then I asked him whether he is an office goer or has his own business. He again remained mute. I was surprised on his moves. The man sitting on my rigth side was also watching the happening. I initiated a talk with this person on my right side. After formal greeting, immediately we started making judgements about this person who was not responding. I said that he seems to be asocial, mannerless person, thinking himself to be a celebrity, though he seems to be belonging to a mediocre family. The other person commented, that he does not have etiquettes. and probably he has never been to a good school in his life. Gradually we became very sarcastic about him.
In another 10 minutes, both the class teachers of Class II and V came. They asked for the parent who has called them. On telling that he is the father of Neha and Udit, they started shouting at him. They said that the school has opened for the last week and he has not sent his children to the school. They will not be able to cover up the syllabus.
SUDDENLY THIS PERSON STARTED WEEPING. IN A LOW TONE HE SAID THAT HE HAS COME TO INFORM THEM, THAT DURING THE SUMMER VACATIONS, HIS CHILDREN HAVE GONE TO HARIDWAR FOR GANGA ISHNAN AND BOTH OF THEM HAVE DROWNED IN THE STRONG CURRENT OF WATER. THEY ARE NO MORE AS THEIR BODIES HAVE BEEN RECOVERED.
Suddenly there was a pin drop silence in the Reception area. The teachers started crying and so all the parents present in the room. I utterly felt bad about the incident and cursed my snap judgment and selective perception behavior.
WHAT TO SAY MORE.
From India, Delhi
Dear Ash,
You are perfectly justified in putting this true incident on HR site. HR community has to deal with humans and their emotions.
In one of my posts earlier also, I had commended your emotionally charged postings. Keep up your efforts. God bless you and Happy Onam.
Regards,
Y. K. Kalia, Advocate (Sr. Ctzn.)
From India, Delhi
You are perfectly justified in putting this true incident on HR site. HR community has to deal with humans and their emotions.
In one of my posts earlier also, I had commended your emotionally charged postings. Keep up your efforts. God bless you and Happy Onam.
Regards,
Y. K. Kalia, Advocate (Sr. Ctzn.)
From India, Delhi
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