Dear All,
Thanks for your valuable time and your views.
After long thinking from each and every possible angle and with the help of your advice, I further advised him to join the company because of the professional approach of the company and panel.
I also make him read all the suggestions from you experts for better understanding.
He is convinced and looking forward to accept the adventurous challenge of the job and will be the great experience for him.
Once again thanks for your valuable and timely responses.
Chill HR
From India, Gurgaon
94Thanks for your valuable time and your views.
After long thinking from each and every possible angle and with the help of your advice, I further advised him to join the company because of the professional approach of the company and panel.
I also make him read all the suggestions from you experts for better understanding.
He is convinced and looking forward to accept the adventurous challenge of the job and will be the great experience for him.
Once again thanks for your valuable and timely responses.
Chill HR
From India, Gurgaon
Dear Member,
You have narrated a very peculiar situation of your friend.He should not put himself into dilemma unnecessary and he should opt to join the company without putting so much pressure on his mind. It's the greatness of the person, who has in spite of knowing the past incident has selected you for the post.Think that this was an accident and nothing deliberate act on his and your part.One possibility may be that he has not recognized you or has forgotten the incident.If during interview or thereafter he has not mentioned anything about the accident, which clearly shows that he doesn't want to recall the incident being a professional of high ranking.
You advise your friend to join the company and remove away with all kinds of fear of being victimization later on. As a professional, we disagree on certain matters and argue violently to keep one's own point of notion but that does not mean that one should keep grudge against the person opposing one's point of view.This is all part of life one come across almost everyday in day to day working.
BS Kalsi
New Member
From India, Mumbai
You have narrated a very peculiar situation of your friend.He should not put himself into dilemma unnecessary and he should opt to join the company without putting so much pressure on his mind. It's the greatness of the person, who has in spite of knowing the past incident has selected you for the post.Think that this was an accident and nothing deliberate act on his and your part.One possibility may be that he has not recognized you or has forgotten the incident.If during interview or thereafter he has not mentioned anything about the accident, which clearly shows that he doesn't want to recall the incident being a professional of high ranking.
You advise your friend to join the company and remove away with all kinds of fear of being victimization later on. As a professional, we disagree on certain matters and argue violently to keep one's own point of notion but that does not mean that one should keep grudge against the person opposing one's point of view.This is all part of life one come across almost everyday in day to day working.
BS Kalsi
New Member
From India, Mumbai
Dear Friend
Your friend does not have any job right now, as per me he should go for this opportunity at such point of time. Also, in case if he finds that person negative in future he can then relook for other job or can go to sr. managemenrt. it's always better to have something than nothing.
From India, Mumbai
Your friend does not have any job right now, as per me he should go for this opportunity at such point of time. Also, in case if he finds that person negative in future he can then relook for other job or can go to sr. managemenrt. it's always better to have something than nothing.
From India, Mumbai
In my opinion he shouldn,t join the company as his boss had made a trap to harm his career. He may be chosen based on his capability but truth is always unexpected.
From India, Kolkata
From India, Kolkata
Dear frnd, I think he must join ASAP... Keep personal & professional life separate... And behave professional while he is on the job... :)
From India, Pune
From India, Pune
Hi,
According to my opinion I think your friend should join this company as he has been selected for his skills & capabilities. And coming to accident it was co-incident ,so need not mind . Guide your friend not to put any doubts and give support and encouragement to join in the organization.
From India, Vijayawada
According to my opinion I think your friend should join this company as he has been selected for his skills & capabilities. And coming to accident it was co-incident ,so need not mind . Guide your friend not to put any doubts and give support and encouragement to join in the organization.
From India, Vijayawada
Dear Piyushraj,
I cannot agree with your opinion. There is saying "Smooth seas donot make skillful sailors". If you are saying, that is a trap, then only he can only learn how to get out of the trap by getting into the trap. How can you gaurenteed that the future bosses will be as good as someone expect.
From India, Calcutta
I cannot agree with your opinion. There is saying "Smooth seas donot make skillful sailors". If you are saying, that is a trap, then only he can only learn how to get out of the trap by getting into the trap. How can you gaurenteed that the future bosses will be as good as someone expect.
From India, Calcutta
Dear Friend,
The case you have mentioned shows two aspects of the human nature, one positive and the other negative, on one side forgetting the mistakes of others and second living with one's own guilt. You see your friend was given another chance by that company means with the consent of Operation Manager, most probably if photograph was pasted on resume, the Op Manager must be aware of the facts that this person is the one who had fought with him. Your friend must be feeling guilty as may be he is aware that the accident was due to his fault, or the fight was due to him. Any way just tell him that these type of incidents occur in rage and one should not maintain the accounts of such type of minor matters.
So I feel your friend should respect that person for his professional attitude due to which he selected your friend and without any second thought he should accept the offer and must learn a lesson of not fighting on road as these type of fights are just meaning less and does not resolve any issue.
Lastly your friend should not worry about the boss and just understand if he give good performance this type of Boss will be the best person to help him in building his career. So tell him to think positively and apologize for his behave on that day and forget everything of the past and look for a great career in this Company. Most important lesson to be learn is never fight with strangers as it can have really dangerous after effects.
From India, Delhi
The case you have mentioned shows two aspects of the human nature, one positive and the other negative, on one side forgetting the mistakes of others and second living with one's own guilt. You see your friend was given another chance by that company means with the consent of Operation Manager, most probably if photograph was pasted on resume, the Op Manager must be aware of the facts that this person is the one who had fought with him. Your friend must be feeling guilty as may be he is aware that the accident was due to his fault, or the fight was due to him. Any way just tell him that these type of incidents occur in rage and one should not maintain the accounts of such type of minor matters.
So I feel your friend should respect that person for his professional attitude due to which he selected your friend and without any second thought he should accept the offer and must learn a lesson of not fighting on road as these type of fights are just meaning less and does not resolve any issue.
Lastly your friend should not worry about the boss and just understand if he give good performance this type of Boss will be the best person to help him in building his career. So tell him to think positively and apologize for his behave on that day and forget everything of the past and look for a great career in this Company. Most important lesson to be learn is never fight with strangers as it can have really dangerous after effects.
From India, Delhi
Dear Chill,
I feel he must weigh the risk vs compensation & career prospects. It seems the Ops. Mgr is a professional looking for competency above personal squabble. It is also possible he found yr friend's negotiating skill useful for the job. Join the Co & on the first day apologise to him and thank him for selecting. Anyhow he can win the situation with his skill and competency.
From India, Mumbai
I feel he must weigh the risk vs compensation & career prospects. It seems the Ops. Mgr is a professional looking for competency above personal squabble. It is also possible he found yr friend's negotiating skill useful for the job. Join the Co & on the first day apologise to him and thank him for selecting. Anyhow he can win the situation with his skill and competency.
From India, Mumbai
Hi,
Let me tell you onething that everything is already prepared by God for everyone. The thing which was happened by the God Permission only and you selected because God wanted to be selected.
Onething which is important in life is always try to do the work in that place where you think is wrong because there only you will learn more which will help you to stand in future.
So take it positive and go ahead.................
Kasim Ansari
From India, Mumbai
Let me tell you onething that everything is already prepared by God for everyone. The thing which was happened by the God Permission only and you selected because God wanted to be selected.
Onething which is important in life is always try to do the work in that place where you think is wrong because there only you will learn more which will help you to stand in future.
So take it positive and go ahead.................
Kasim Ansari
From India, Mumbai
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