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Dear friend,
Dont keep on thinking that not satisfied in the present employment. It leads you to do mistakes again and again and makes you to loose your present job by the management's action. Instead try for a better job suitable to your qualification and temperamant. But keep it in your mind that it in your hand only to adjust as every job has its own likes and dislikes.
DO SOME MEDITATION DAILY IN THE MORNING WHICH GIVES YOU ENERGY TO MEET ANYTHING.
Wish u all the best.
From India, Madras
Dont keep on thinking that not satisfied in the present employment. It leads you to do mistakes again and again and makes you to loose your present job by the management's action. Instead try for a better job suitable to your qualification and temperamant. But keep it in your mind that it in your hand only to adjust as every job has its own likes and dislikes.
DO SOME MEDITATION DAILY IN THE MORNING WHICH GIVES YOU ENERGY TO MEET ANYTHING.
Wish u all the best.
From India, Madras
Dear Suri Babu
Thanks for your reply but then I believe you have not gone thru my previous messages. The company already has a Admin Mgr who doesn't seem to have any powers.As I mentioned before, I know my job provided I have been given the free hand to do so. Many times I went to my M.D/E.D with the ideas and suggestions on my observations of 2 months but everytime I have been discouraged by saying that they are following all this. Also they have too many senior people in the admin dept, so for gathering any information I need to depend on them which makes it all the more difficult for me act upon because of their internal politics.
Moreover this industry is new to me as I have experience of working in Event Management, Construction, Imports and software development company.Also I don't want to quit the job till the time I get one. Infact I tried to think in the way as adviced by one of the member to remain silent and enjoy my salary without doing anything but then don't you think I'm freezing my capabilities by doing that..........???
Expecting your valuable comments.
regards
P(Ms.)
From India, Kochi
Thanks for your reply but then I believe you have not gone thru my previous messages. The company already has a Admin Mgr who doesn't seem to have any powers.As I mentioned before, I know my job provided I have been given the free hand to do so. Many times I went to my M.D/E.D with the ideas and suggestions on my observations of 2 months but everytime I have been discouraged by saying that they are following all this. Also they have too many senior people in the admin dept, so for gathering any information I need to depend on them which makes it all the more difficult for me act upon because of their internal politics.
Moreover this industry is new to me as I have experience of working in Event Management, Construction, Imports and software development company.Also I don't want to quit the job till the time I get one. Infact I tried to think in the way as adviced by one of the member to remain silent and enjoy my salary without doing anything but then don't you think I'm freezing my capabilities by doing that..........???
Expecting your valuable comments.
regards
P(Ms.)
From India, Kochi
Hello (Ms) P,
I do think you have a real problem.
There can't be a worst punishment [willfully or otherwise] to someone used to hard & regular work than to keep him/her idle for days/weeks.
Your fear about freezing your capabilities is right--whether you [or those near to you] notice or not, that stage is bound to come sooner or later. I have seen it happen--the best example of this being the typical Govt employees who get used to full salary with no work. In your case, there's a danger that as time passes, you could become more & more redundant--workwise.
Coming to the possibilities, did you consider this? Maybe the MD/ED are waiting for YOU to leave--rather than they asking you to leave--since you have come thru a reference & they don't want to hurt that person? The fact that they aren't giving you any work, not accepting any of your ideas should give you an indication. Also your past experience doesn't seem to jell with the needs of any role in this company--if that's clear to you, don't you think it would be to them too? Then why would they have taken you--maybe NOT TO OFFEND your common friend [for whatever reasons]?
Coming to the options open to you at this point of time; there seems to be ONLY ONE. Look out for a suitable job ASAP & put in your Papers--I am sure they would feign sadness when you say you want to leave. There is a strong possibility that your common friend too may not be realizing what's happening, since you mentioned you did tell him.
ALL THE BEST.
Rgds,
TS
From India, Hyderabad
I do think you have a real problem.
There can't be a worst punishment [willfully or otherwise] to someone used to hard & regular work than to keep him/her idle for days/weeks.
Your fear about freezing your capabilities is right--whether you [or those near to you] notice or not, that stage is bound to come sooner or later. I have seen it happen--the best example of this being the typical Govt employees who get used to full salary with no work. In your case, there's a danger that as time passes, you could become more & more redundant--workwise.
Coming to the possibilities, did you consider this? Maybe the MD/ED are waiting for YOU to leave--rather than they asking you to leave--since you have come thru a reference & they don't want to hurt that person? The fact that they aren't giving you any work, not accepting any of your ideas should give you an indication. Also your past experience doesn't seem to jell with the needs of any role in this company--if that's clear to you, don't you think it would be to them too? Then why would they have taken you--maybe NOT TO OFFEND your common friend [for whatever reasons]?
Coming to the options open to you at this point of time; there seems to be ONLY ONE. Look out for a suitable job ASAP & put in your Papers--I am sure they would feign sadness when you say you want to leave. There is a strong possibility that your common friend too may not be realizing what's happening, since you mentioned you did tell him.
ALL THE BEST.
Rgds,
TS
From India, Hyderabad
Hi
@nitchmarketing: I think Tajsateesh might be correct . In this situation I would advise you to actively look for a change but pls do not leave this job without getting another job in hand.
@Vikram: Can empathize with your situation Had faced something very similar early in my career. This kind of behaviour is typical of family managed units...it is characterized by a genuine lack of respect & trust for each other. Pls immediately look for a job. The more time you spend in that company the worse it will be for your psyche.
Regards,
Rainbow
From India, Calcutta
@nitchmarketing: I think Tajsateesh might be correct . In this situation I would advise you to actively look for a change but pls do not leave this job without getting another job in hand.
@Vikram: Can empathize with your situation Had faced something very similar early in my career. This kind of behaviour is typical of family managed units...it is characterized by a genuine lack of respect & trust for each other. Pls immediately look for a job. The more time you spend in that company the worse it will be for your psyche.
Regards,
Rainbow
From India, Calcutta
Dear,
I can say one thing for sure with the chain of coversations which you had in this forum is that you are frastrated with the situationsaround. In this scenerio i would strongly suggest you not to go for others openions. Rather i would recommend starting thinking on
1) What made you frastrated ?
2) Who is responsible for this ?
3) Why did this situation came ?
4) How can this be handled ?
If you could spend your valuable time in answering these questions to yourself with out the involvement of others ......you would certainly find answer and will start acting on it immediately.
If you could read the above phrase where i mentioned valuable time ......yes, you have got a valuable time which you are not realizing on it. I wish it should not be too late by the time you realize.....buddy. Try and identify what you are ....... Go ahead now...... you found the answer. All the best...!!! You can answer to many things but answering for yourself is more important. I might be sounding not supportive but this the fact :-)
Yours
Asif
From India, Hyderabad
I can say one thing for sure with the chain of coversations which you had in this forum is that you are frastrated with the situationsaround. In this scenerio i would strongly suggest you not to go for others openions. Rather i would recommend starting thinking on
1) What made you frastrated ?
2) Who is responsible for this ?
3) Why did this situation came ?
4) How can this be handled ?
If you could spend your valuable time in answering these questions to yourself with out the involvement of others ......you would certainly find answer and will start acting on it immediately.
If you could read the above phrase where i mentioned valuable time ......yes, you have got a valuable time which you are not realizing on it. I wish it should not be too late by the time you realize.....buddy. Try and identify what you are ....... Go ahead now...... you found the answer. All the best...!!! You can answer to many things but answering for yourself is more important. I might be sounding not supportive but this the fact :-)
Yours
Asif
From India, Hyderabad
Hi P,
I am from Nepal. What I suggest is please ask for the job description or TOR from you current job. You spent your two months time without performing as per your ability. That may affect your further career. You should ask for TOR which will definitely show why you are hired. Then only you can decide to quit or not.
DS
From Nepal, Kathmandu
I am from Nepal. What I suggest is please ask for the job description or TOR from you current job. You spent your two months time without performing as per your ability. That may affect your further career. You should ask for TOR which will definitely show why you are hired. Then only you can decide to quit or not.
DS
From Nepal, Kathmandu
Please ask for job description or TOR of your position. This will guide you to decide whether you are needed to this company or not. If your TOR is not matching to you then you can quit. Staying two months without performing and frustrating is not so good for your futher career.
DS
From Nepal, Kathmandu
DS
From Nepal, Kathmandu
Dear All,
My case is also little bit same but with a little bit difference, I was on studednt visa and i was in UK, i spend five years there i was engagned in odd jobs in industry like production, security etc etc but with a good money as the Great Britian Pound (GBP) Rate compare to pakistan currency, now i came back becuase my elder brother enganged me in marriage with her sister in law, he said me come back i am alon here and i am really in stress as our father also died when i was there, now i have a daughter as well, he (my brother) arranged for me a job in a shoe factory as "Data Coordinator" and currently i am learning Oracle Applications as i have completed my Master of Computer Science as well but the pay is very low (Rs. 12000/- p.m.) and i was earning there like (Rs. 1,00,000) 9, times more than this which i am now. i am upset. Please suggest me what i need to do . Will i try some other country like canada or stay here , or whatever, 2ndly here work burden is almost zero, all the day almost free, net surfing and thats it ? My brother refer me for this job and my manager is my brother's friend. Please suggest me what i need to do ?
My brother also start his career from this place, and now he is earning more than 60,000/- p.m. with a car, blackberry facility as well. but his company now on very good place and my company is very far away almost 60 km + 60 km daily travel on company bus.
Good ideas are appreciated. Thanks in advance.
Regards
From Pakistan, Lahore
My case is also little bit same but with a little bit difference, I was on studednt visa and i was in UK, i spend five years there i was engagned in odd jobs in industry like production, security etc etc but with a good money as the Great Britian Pound (GBP) Rate compare to pakistan currency, now i came back becuase my elder brother enganged me in marriage with her sister in law, he said me come back i am alon here and i am really in stress as our father also died when i was there, now i have a daughter as well, he (my brother) arranged for me a job in a shoe factory as "Data Coordinator" and currently i am learning Oracle Applications as i have completed my Master of Computer Science as well but the pay is very low (Rs. 12000/- p.m.) and i was earning there like (Rs. 1,00,000) 9, times more than this which i am now. i am upset. Please suggest me what i need to do . Will i try some other country like canada or stay here , or whatever, 2ndly here work burden is almost zero, all the day almost free, net surfing and thats it ? My brother refer me for this job and my manager is my brother's friend. Please suggest me what i need to do ?
My brother also start his career from this place, and now he is earning more than 60,000/- p.m. with a car, blackberry facility as well. but his company now on very good place and my company is very far away almost 60 km + 60 km daily travel on company bus.
Good ideas are appreciated. Thanks in advance.
Regards
From Pakistan, Lahore
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