He should speak to the manager about the incident and apologize and see how he feels about it. Many times quarrels are a start of a great friendship - in this case it could be a great working relationship.
But it would be best to gauge that after talking to the manager.
Regards,
Sid
From India, Gurgaon
660But it would be best to gauge that after talking to the manager.
Regards,
Sid
From India, Gurgaon
Kindly consider my suggestions
Please turn off "AUTO PILOT MODE",
LEARN TO FOCUS AND CONCENTRATE TO THE CORE
BE POSITIVE AND THINK POSITIVE ALL THE TIME
ERASE THE WORD "PHOBIA" FROM YOUR VOCABULARY(MIND) BECAUSE "FEAR" CAN KILL US
LIVE IN PRESENT,
DARE / LEARN TO ACCEPT AND FACE CHALLENGES
BE PRACTICAL & APPLY LOGIC/COMMON SENSE,
KEEP LEARNING AND UPDATE YOUR SKILLS / KNOWLEDGE
MAKE USE OF YOUR TALENT IN RIGHT WAY
DEVELOP HIGH PATIENCE(PERSEVERANCE) LEVELS
LIVE A DISCIPLINED LIFE STYLE
NEVER COMPLAIN, COMPARE & CRITICIZE
BE HAPPY ALL THE TIME AND KEEP THANKING ALMIGHTY WHATSOEVER MAY BE THE SITUATION
There are many point i can list down. Its upto the individuals "how good are they in practicing and implementing the same"
With profound regards
From India, Chennai
Please turn off "AUTO PILOT MODE",
LEARN TO FOCUS AND CONCENTRATE TO THE CORE
BE POSITIVE AND THINK POSITIVE ALL THE TIME
ERASE THE WORD "PHOBIA" FROM YOUR VOCABULARY(MIND) BECAUSE "FEAR" CAN KILL US
LIVE IN PRESENT,
DARE / LEARN TO ACCEPT AND FACE CHALLENGES
BE PRACTICAL & APPLY LOGIC/COMMON SENSE,
KEEP LEARNING AND UPDATE YOUR SKILLS / KNOWLEDGE
MAKE USE OF YOUR TALENT IN RIGHT WAY
DEVELOP HIGH PATIENCE(PERSEVERANCE) LEVELS
LIVE A DISCIPLINED LIFE STYLE
NEVER COMPLAIN, COMPARE & CRITICIZE
BE HAPPY ALL THE TIME AND KEEP THANKING ALMIGHTY WHATSOEVER MAY BE THE SITUATION
There are many point i can list down. Its upto the individuals "how good are they in practicing and implementing the same"
With profound regards
From India, Chennai
No one remembers bad for long .Its human..time heals
Understand from his other team members - his style of functioning
This boy shall personally meet him before joining- apologize, if necessary for that day based on how the events take shape and just join ..Thats all
Understand from his other team members - his style of functioning
This boy shall personally meet him before joining- apologize, if necessary for that day based on how the events take shape and just join ..Thats all
Dear Fraternity,
Please introspect and you will find most of our true friendship starts with a quarrel or arguments with a stranger. In this case I see a point that despite him ( Operation Manager ) being on the interview panel he did not object to his selection ( may be he is so shrewd to take an bigger revenge than blocking his selection ! ), so genuinely he wants him to be part of his team.Now, from candidates point of view if he is desperate for the job then he has nothing to loose, so let him join and prove the point that most of the true friendship starts with argument / quarrel.
Regards,
Shivrayan
From India, Jaipur
Please introspect and you will find most of our true friendship starts with a quarrel or arguments with a stranger. In this case I see a point that despite him ( Operation Manager ) being on the interview panel he did not object to his selection ( may be he is so shrewd to take an bigger revenge than blocking his selection ! ), so genuinely he wants him to be part of his team.Now, from candidates point of view if he is desperate for the job then he has nothing to loose, so let him join and prove the point that most of the true friendship starts with argument / quarrel.
Regards,
Shivrayan
From India, Jaipur
I fully agree with Mr. Hiral Mehta and suggest the selected person to join immediately without having negative feeling against his new Boss. B. Sreenivas
From India, Visakhapatnam
From India, Visakhapatnam
Hi,
Foremost reason to join this company is, the BOSS who had hit him by car, interviewed him and also selected him!!
Time can heal everything......your friend should be optimistic in life......life does not stop here....
Regards,
Chetan.
From India, Kolkata
Foremost reason to join this company is, the BOSS who had hit him by car, interviewed him and also selected him!!
Time can heal everything......your friend should be optimistic in life......life does not stop here....
Regards,
Chetan.
From India, Kolkata
HI,
This is very strange few days back i was also hit by a car when i was returning from my home. I got very angry and abuse the driver. The boss is sitting behind and after looking the situation he came out he looks some big shot guy i also abuse him because I was very angry, but because they made the mistake they apologize and we settle down and headed our ways separately.
After while returning home I thought that guy was looking good and must in good position in an organization so what if in the future in case I go to for an interview and the guy take my interview and may in case I get selected what will I do? Do i join the company or not?
But after a long brain storm session with myself I come to conclusion that if I am mentally strong and have a positive thinking and a focus towards the AIM, I will join the company.
The reason for this decision is that now a days companies whether it is national or MNC they are paying more attention to their employees, towards their motivation. and also companies are paying more and more attention to their ethical standard.
Days were gone when only profit is the only AIM.
So in my own opinion your friend can join the company and a before joining he can have a little dialogue with the boss this might help both of them to clear the unspoken anger inside them.
Again I would like to say that the last decision is upon your friend.
This is very strange few days back i was also hit by a car when i was returning from my home. I got very angry and abuse the driver. The boss is sitting behind and after looking the situation he came out he looks some big shot guy i also abuse him because I was very angry, but because they made the mistake they apologize and we settle down and headed our ways separately.
After while returning home I thought that guy was looking good and must in good position in an organization so what if in the future in case I go to for an interview and the guy take my interview and may in case I get selected what will I do? Do i join the company or not?
But after a long brain storm session with myself I come to conclusion that if I am mentally strong and have a positive thinking and a focus towards the AIM, I will join the company.
The reason for this decision is that now a days companies whether it is national or MNC they are paying more attention to their employees, towards their motivation. and also companies are paying more and more attention to their ethical standard.
Days were gone when only profit is the only AIM.
So in my own opinion your friend can join the company and a before joining he can have a little dialogue with the boss this might help both of them to clear the unspoken anger inside them.
Again I would like to say that the last decision is upon your friend.
Hello chill HR :
I think lot of people have spared their valuable time and given you suggestions/inputs. Atleast respond and let us know if the inputs were useful for you to guide your friend appropriately.
From India, Pune
I think lot of people have spared their valuable time and given you suggestions/inputs. Atleast respond and let us know if the inputs were useful for you to guide your friend appropriately.
From India, Pune
Dear Friend,
Professional life and personal life is different.Take appointment with your new boss and ask him sorry and observe his attitude and action. He may forget everything and support you to your carreer with him if you are capable to that position. Rest is with you.
Best regards,
John
From Saudi Arabia, Riyadh
Professional life and personal life is different.Take appointment with your new boss and ask him sorry and observe his attitude and action. He may forget everything and support you to your carreer with him if you are capable to that position. Rest is with you.
Best regards,
John
From Saudi Arabia, Riyadh
It is not advisable to join,
If we even assume that Manager behaved professionally and selected him and seperated his professional and personal life and all these things.
But after joining, How any one can give the assurance that the Manager will not have hundred percent second thought on your friend?
Even for small mistakes or small argument by your friend in explaining his job related things may put the Manager to the thought that after all he is a person who fought with me earlier.
Even if he would have been selected, we cannot assure the period, how long he can continue there.
Where is the assurance that one more incident your friend will not face with manager again in the office like car incident?
Why to take risk in the carrer?
It is purely my opinion.
From India, Bangalore
If we even assume that Manager behaved professionally and selected him and seperated his professional and personal life and all these things.
But after joining, How any one can give the assurance that the Manager will not have hundred percent second thought on your friend?
Even for small mistakes or small argument by your friend in explaining his job related things may put the Manager to the thought that after all he is a person who fought with me earlier.
Even if he would have been selected, we cannot assure the period, how long he can continue there.
Where is the assurance that one more incident your friend will not face with manager again in the office like car incident?
Why to take risk in the carrer?
It is purely my opinion.
From India, Bangalore
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