Dear Anita,
May I ask you what formed the basis of your post? What proof do you have, if any, and what is the source? Kindly allow me to bring out some home truths regarding the matter. I happened to read comments about this wonderful person just now. Everyone has a right to opine, but no one has the right to assume and opine, especially in a bad light about another person. I was married to this selfish, mean, and cunning person until 2002. I kept quiet all these years because I was busy picking up the shreds of my life which he had torn to pieces and make something of it. I was still doing my MBBS when he stood on one leg to get married to me. He was driven to my home by his father; he was sitting in the front seat sandwiched between his parents; and he was not interested in talking to me. He very sweetly offered his help in an official capacity to my father if needed. My father thanked him and politely refused. I was not particularly interested in this marriage for obvious reasons; I wanted a loving and caring husband, period. But then his parents came and literally fell at my parents' feet, and the inevitable happened. After that, he ignored me so much I often used to wonder why he ever married me.
It became clear that he was using me; he wanted to marry a Kottayam girl in Kottayam when he was the sub-collector there, just to get coverage there, and he chose the day too when all the top politicians would be there in town so they could come for this too. On that day, the then-chief minister jokingly warned me about this man, and it came out to be so true...
Within a few days after the marriage, he demolished my father's property wall, which had been previously reconstructed lawfully under police supervision following its unlawful demolition by local goons. Let me ask you all; how many of you would allow a pathway through your property just because some lazy bums want to cut across through it from one road to another rather than walking around it in the normal roundabout way? That property has been in the family for the last two generations, and my father has not taken anybody's property, forget the government's. We have sufficient proof, including the survey dated 60 years back. This moron supposedly took the drastic step based upon a mass petition and his inquiry report on it. I had to attend college, face everyone's questions, and not to mention the hellish life with in-laws. I was not allowed to talk to my parents or go to my home.
After this episode, I encouraged my mentally broken father to go to court. My father was not down because the wall was demolished but because the new son-in-law did that cunningly and 'unlawfully' behind our back just to get publicity. The 'martyr' got transferred in the meantime, and my father had to get copies of documents from the sub-registrar's office for the court case. He was shocked to see that the date on the order for the inquiry report on the mass petition and the report were well after the incident; months after he got transferred from the place! He had forged this document; done it at a time when he had no authority to do so, i.e., unlawfully! My father lodged a criminal case too upon my insistence. I was with my father not because he brought me up but because he deserved justice and needed my support. Anyways, the cunning fellow sent his parents for a compromise to save his face and his job. As per the elders' advice, I too agreed; no one in the right frame of mind gets married just to divorce. I wanted to give it a try for what it was worth. But after the cases were withdrawn, he never came home. I was with his parents hoping for him to come. One fine day, he gave an interview saying that he had divorced me, and my father broke the marriage when I was still legally married to him. That was enough for me, and I finally went for a divorce. A lot of people tried for a compromise, including the family court judge, but he was not willing. I pulled myself together, did my post-graduation and fellowship through merit. I had wasted precious years of my life hoping that this poor example of a man would improve. I only know how difficult that period of my life was; I had to face the gossip, I had no strength to open up against people like you who support this cunning fellow blindly. I came out of it by God's grace, and I was practicing my profession till my childbirth after my second marriage to a very loving and caring person. God is there, so I got a loving husband to compensate for all I went through. At least now my parents are able to sleep peacefully without tears in their eyes caused by thoughts about my future. They aged fast and became weak before my eyes burdened with untold sorrow. Some of you may have sisters and daughters; how will you feel and react if this happens to them? Would you still applaud the moron's academic brilliance? What is the use of any education if it fails to have an impact and improve one's character?
Let me ask you, how long can anyone live in the past? 1st rank in 10th and pre-degree and IAS agreed, but 1st rank in IIT entrance and final... bullshit. His parents, by their own proud admission to me, used to go and stay with him in IIT to help with studies. He has attended school only to write exams and he cheated in the practicals. His parents used to help with files and his 'literary works' when I was there. And by the way, what does academic brilliance have to do with character? Let me answer that... nothing at all, and that man is a big, big zero in character.
Are there no other honest officers other than him? Why does nothing come out about them? He is arrogant to all except politicians (he licks their feet, I was a witness) and so-called journalists who publish what he pukes.
I have often asked my father why he keeps quiet to all these lies, and his reply was he would not reply to the barks of a stray dog; he had better things to do. But now the barking has started to be bothersome; hence this post. If it does not quieten, I will go legally with proof to make sure the mouth stays closed. In 2006, this moron gave an interview, and his mother had approached my parents for a reunion saying that he was willing to 'talk' to me and he would commit suicide without me. My mother replied that if a reunion happens, then her daughter (I) would commit suicide :).
And for the record, my father is not that moron's father-in-law. So to all the people out there, if something sounds too good to be true, it might not be true after all. If any of you has doubts and needs proof for this, I am ready to oblige.
From Australia, Brisbane
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May I ask you what formed the basis of your post? What proof do you have, if any, and what is the source? Kindly allow me to bring out some home truths regarding the matter. I happened to read comments about this wonderful person just now. Everyone has a right to opine, but no one has the right to assume and opine, especially in a bad light about another person. I was married to this selfish, mean, and cunning person until 2002. I kept quiet all these years because I was busy picking up the shreds of my life which he had torn to pieces and make something of it. I was still doing my MBBS when he stood on one leg to get married to me. He was driven to my home by his father; he was sitting in the front seat sandwiched between his parents; and he was not interested in talking to me. He very sweetly offered his help in an official capacity to my father if needed. My father thanked him and politely refused. I was not particularly interested in this marriage for obvious reasons; I wanted a loving and caring husband, period. But then his parents came and literally fell at my parents' feet, and the inevitable happened. After that, he ignored me so much I often used to wonder why he ever married me.
It became clear that he was using me; he wanted to marry a Kottayam girl in Kottayam when he was the sub-collector there, just to get coverage there, and he chose the day too when all the top politicians would be there in town so they could come for this too. On that day, the then-chief minister jokingly warned me about this man, and it came out to be so true...
Within a few days after the marriage, he demolished my father's property wall, which had been previously reconstructed lawfully under police supervision following its unlawful demolition by local goons. Let me ask you all; how many of you would allow a pathway through your property just because some lazy bums want to cut across through it from one road to another rather than walking around it in the normal roundabout way? That property has been in the family for the last two generations, and my father has not taken anybody's property, forget the government's. We have sufficient proof, including the survey dated 60 years back. This moron supposedly took the drastic step based upon a mass petition and his inquiry report on it. I had to attend college, face everyone's questions, and not to mention the hellish life with in-laws. I was not allowed to talk to my parents or go to my home.
After this episode, I encouraged my mentally broken father to go to court. My father was not down because the wall was demolished but because the new son-in-law did that cunningly and 'unlawfully' behind our back just to get publicity. The 'martyr' got transferred in the meantime, and my father had to get copies of documents from the sub-registrar's office for the court case. He was shocked to see that the date on the order for the inquiry report on the mass petition and the report were well after the incident; months after he got transferred from the place! He had forged this document; done it at a time when he had no authority to do so, i.e., unlawfully! My father lodged a criminal case too upon my insistence. I was with my father not because he brought me up but because he deserved justice and needed my support. Anyways, the cunning fellow sent his parents for a compromise to save his face and his job. As per the elders' advice, I too agreed; no one in the right frame of mind gets married just to divorce. I wanted to give it a try for what it was worth. But after the cases were withdrawn, he never came home. I was with his parents hoping for him to come. One fine day, he gave an interview saying that he had divorced me, and my father broke the marriage when I was still legally married to him. That was enough for me, and I finally went for a divorce. A lot of people tried for a compromise, including the family court judge, but he was not willing. I pulled myself together, did my post-graduation and fellowship through merit. I had wasted precious years of my life hoping that this poor example of a man would improve. I only know how difficult that period of my life was; I had to face the gossip, I had no strength to open up against people like you who support this cunning fellow blindly. I came out of it by God's grace, and I was practicing my profession till my childbirth after my second marriage to a very loving and caring person. God is there, so I got a loving husband to compensate for all I went through. At least now my parents are able to sleep peacefully without tears in their eyes caused by thoughts about my future. They aged fast and became weak before my eyes burdened with untold sorrow. Some of you may have sisters and daughters; how will you feel and react if this happens to them? Would you still applaud the moron's academic brilliance? What is the use of any education if it fails to have an impact and improve one's character?
Let me ask you, how long can anyone live in the past? 1st rank in 10th and pre-degree and IAS agreed, but 1st rank in IIT entrance and final... bullshit. His parents, by their own proud admission to me, used to go and stay with him in IIT to help with studies. He has attended school only to write exams and he cheated in the practicals. His parents used to help with files and his 'literary works' when I was there. And by the way, what does academic brilliance have to do with character? Let me answer that... nothing at all, and that man is a big, big zero in character.
Are there no other honest officers other than him? Why does nothing come out about them? He is arrogant to all except politicians (he licks their feet, I was a witness) and so-called journalists who publish what he pukes.
I have often asked my father why he keeps quiet to all these lies, and his reply was he would not reply to the barks of a stray dog; he had better things to do. But now the barking has started to be bothersome; hence this post. If it does not quieten, I will go legally with proof to make sure the mouth stays closed. In 2006, this moron gave an interview, and his mother had approached my parents for a reunion saying that he was willing to 'talk' to me and he would commit suicide without me. My mother replied that if a reunion happens, then her daughter (I) would commit suicide :).
And for the record, my father is not that moron's father-in-law. So to all the people out there, if something sounds too good to be true, it might not be true after all. If any of you has doubts and needs proof for this, I am ready to oblige.
From Australia, Brisbane
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As a continuation to the above post...
And finally, for the record, Mr. Swami is a mean, selfish, cunning person with no moral scruples whatsoever in using people as stepping stones and discarding them with no compunction once their purpose in his agenda is served. He is a downright liar and cheat who deceives himself and others. However, he cannot deceive God, who is watching everyone. Just because he tells lies to 1000 people and fools them, his lies do not become the truth.
He has to face God for his sins and various misdeeds. He is doing it so he has not come up in life and never will because he can never be happy or contented without God's grace. He lives in his past; I feel pity for his present and future if he still has any. And lastly, I am not hurling baseless accusations at him. I have actually lived in hell, and I have proof to present before all who want it. I won't keep quiet until I try my best to bring the actual story before everyone. No one can pull the wool over everybody's eyes all the time; there is an end to bad things too.
Dear fellow bloggers, Mr. Swami is no different than the so-called politicians whom he portrays as his tormentors and the cinematic-style villains. In fact, he is even worse because he uses them for publicity while licking their feet in private and sometimes in public for coveted posts.
From Australia, Brisbane
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And finally, for the record, Mr. Swami is a mean, selfish, cunning person with no moral scruples whatsoever in using people as stepping stones and discarding them with no compunction once their purpose in his agenda is served. He is a downright liar and cheat who deceives himself and others. However, he cannot deceive God, who is watching everyone. Just because he tells lies to 1000 people and fools them, his lies do not become the truth.
He has to face God for his sins and various misdeeds. He is doing it so he has not come up in life and never will because he can never be happy or contented without God's grace. He lives in his past; I feel pity for his present and future if he still has any. And lastly, I am not hurling baseless accusations at him. I have actually lived in hell, and I have proof to present before all who want it. I won't keep quiet until I try my best to bring the actual story before everyone. No one can pull the wool over everybody's eyes all the time; there is an end to bad things too.
Dear fellow bloggers, Mr. Swami is no different than the so-called politicians whom he portrays as his tormentors and the cinematic-style villains. In fact, he is even worse because he uses them for publicity while licking their feet in private and sometimes in public for coveted posts.
From Australia, Brisbane
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