nice one....... I appreciate your work. It hurts when we post something but don’t get any update out of the post ......but its not an negative marketing. Regards Debajyoti
From India
From India
Good One Octavious!!
I do agree that people need to post their comments or show their gratitude when they download some info posted by someone.
I also urge the senior members to respond to the queries posted under "Talk to Seniors" column. Often i see lot of queries left unanswered for months.
Also the new members should be taught how to search for any info before posting such repeated requests in the forum. If they are not taught then they sure cannot be blamed for posting the query which looks repetitive for the others.
I agree completely to this statement of yours Octavious "LOTS OF YOUNG BUDDING HR PROFESSIONAL JOIN THIS GROUP EVERY DAY IN THE HOPE THAT THEY WILL RECEIVE GUIDANCE OR ANSWERS TO THEIR QUERY OR APPRECIATION FOR THEIR WORK." If we are not able to meet their expectation then the very purpose of CiteHR gets defeated.
As members of this community we should never let that happen. We should help each other. Thank each other. No excuses made. We should pledge ourselves that if we come across a query for which we have the resources to answer we should answer immediately no mater how small the query is. This atitude of us will create a healthy culture in CiteHR. We sweat our days in office trying to grow a good culture in the place we work. Why cant we try to maintain the same in this forum?
Hope other members do agree to it. :) If any of my words have hurted anyone plz note it was purely unintentional.
Regards,
~Raghav V
From India, Kochi
I do agree that people need to post their comments or show their gratitude when they download some info posted by someone.
I also urge the senior members to respond to the queries posted under "Talk to Seniors" column. Often i see lot of queries left unanswered for months.
Also the new members should be taught how to search for any info before posting such repeated requests in the forum. If they are not taught then they sure cannot be blamed for posting the query which looks repetitive for the others.
I agree completely to this statement of yours Octavious "LOTS OF YOUNG BUDDING HR PROFESSIONAL JOIN THIS GROUP EVERY DAY IN THE HOPE THAT THEY WILL RECEIVE GUIDANCE OR ANSWERS TO THEIR QUERY OR APPRECIATION FOR THEIR WORK." If we are not able to meet their expectation then the very purpose of CiteHR gets defeated.
As members of this community we should never let that happen. We should help each other. Thank each other. No excuses made. We should pledge ourselves that if we come across a query for which we have the resources to answer we should answer immediately no mater how small the query is. This atitude of us will create a healthy culture in CiteHR. We sweat our days in office trying to grow a good culture in the place we work. Why cant we try to maintain the same in this forum?
Hope other members do agree to it. :) If any of my words have hurted anyone plz note it was purely unintentional.
Regards,
~Raghav V
From India, Kochi
My god you are damn irritated..... in this ocean of people there are many who must have silently prayed for you and thanked you million times when they must have received what they were looking for , from the many posts and material that you have uploaded. Not everybody comments Mr.Octavious, but then that does not mean that they are rude or shameless.....you have unknowingly disregarded their feelings entirely....
manasi
From India, Pune
manasi
From India, Pune
HELLO,
I DONT KNOW WHO AND WHAT GAVE THE IDEA THAT I AM ARGUING FOR MYSELF. I HAVE TIME IN AND OUT TOTAL ALL THAT, I SEEK NO APPRECIATIONS BUT, I AM PUTING A STAND FOR PEOPLE, WHO ARE NOT APPRECIATED FOR THIER EFFORTS, AND I HAVE ALREADY CLEARED MY STAND ALREADY, IN THE COMMENTS HERE IN,PLEASE READ
NEXT TIME DO NOT COMMENT ON ANY THING WITH OUT UNDERSTANDING ANYTHING IN COMPLETE ESSENCE
THANK YOU
OCTAVIOUS
From India, Mumbai
I DONT KNOW WHO AND WHAT GAVE THE IDEA THAT I AM ARGUING FOR MYSELF. I HAVE TIME IN AND OUT TOTAL ALL THAT, I SEEK NO APPRECIATIONS BUT, I AM PUTING A STAND FOR PEOPLE, WHO ARE NOT APPRECIATED FOR THIER EFFORTS, AND I HAVE ALREADY CLEARED MY STAND ALREADY, IN THE COMMENTS HERE IN,PLEASE READ
NEXT TIME DO NOT COMMENT ON ANY THING WITH OUT UNDERSTANDING ANYTHING IN COMPLETE ESSENCE
THANK YOU
OCTAVIOUS
From India, Mumbai
HELLO,
THANK YOU TO ALL THE MEMBERS HEREIN , FOR UNDERSTANDING MY CAUSE SUPPORTING THE SAME.
I AM ALSO THANKFUL TO MY CRITICS, FOR THEY ARE MY STEPPING STONES OF SUCCESS. IT IS MY CRITICS WHO CHALLENGE ME TO PROVE MY SELF BETTER THAN THE LAST EFFORT I MADE. IF IT WAS NOT FOR MY CRITICS, I WOULD HAVE NEVER BEEN ABLE TO PERFORM BETTER BY EACH PASSING DAY, BECAUSE IN THE ZEAL TO PROVE MY CRITICS WRONG, I HAVE DELIVERED BETTER RESULTS THAN I USUALLY WOULD HAVE IN AN UNCHALLENGED SITUATION
I HAVE CERTAIN POINTS TO HIGHLIGHT HERE IN, AND THEY ARE AS FOLLOWS
1.I HAVE MADE A STRONG STATEMENT ON MY POST AND I HAVE CLEARLY STATED AS TO WHAT IS THE OUTCOME I WISH, NO WHERE I HAVE REQUESTED FOR EMPATHY/SYMPATHY OR FOR ANY ADVISE.
2.INSTEAD OF UNDERSTANDING MY REQUIREMENT, I HAVE BEEN PROVIDED WITH UNSOLICITED ADVISE, THUS CREATING A UNNECESSARY ARGUMENT OVER A SIMPLE MATTER
3.I HAD GIVEN TWO OPEN CHOICE EITHER TO DOWNLOAD SHAMELESSLY OR DOWN LOAD WITH YOUR VIEWS /RATING, BUT STILL SOME MEMBERS HEREIN TOOK THE THIRD OPTION WHICH I NEVER PROVIDED THAT IS OF GIVING A UNSOLICITED ADVICE AND GUIDANCE
4.SOME OF THE MEMBERS HERE IN HAVE ADVISED ON THE TOPIC, EVEN WITHOUT READING UNDERSTANDING THE PRINCIPLE OR THE SUBLIME MESSAGE BEHIND THE POST AND COMMANDS THERE TO.
FOR THE ABOVE POST, I FEEL THAT AS HR PERSON WE HAVE NOT DONE JUSTICE TO OUR PROFESSION BECAUSE AS A HR WE ARE SUPPOSED TO
1.NOT COMPLICATE THINGS
2.BE A PATIENT LISTENER
3.HAVE EYES FOR DETAILS
4.OBSERVE RULE AND GUIDELINES
5.DO NOT RUSH TO PROVIDE OPTION/SOLUTIONS/ADVICE, WHEN JUST WAITING FOR THE MATTER TO SETTLE WILL BE MORE THAN ENOUGH
I WOULD APOLOGIZE, TO ALL MEMBERS HERE IN WHO WOULD HAVE BEEN HURT BY MY STRONG/SHREWD REMARKS. BUT THE SAME WAS REQUIRED TO GET MY CAUSE THE PEOPLE OF THE FORUM
I WOULD REQUEST ALL THE MEMBERS, TO UNDERSTAND THAT NEXT TIME IF YOU LIKE A POST OR ARTICLE KINDLY RATE IT OR DROP A COMMENT.
THE PERSON WHO UPLOAD THE POST, FOR YOU TO ENJOY ,WOULD HAVE HAD TO SPEND TIME AND EFFORTS TO ENTERTAIN YOU, SO BE HUMANE AND SPARE A MOMENT TO GIVE A WORD OF APPRECIATION TO THE PERSON FOR HIS/HER EFFORTS
I WOULD REPEAT THAT I DONT REQUIRE ANY APPRECIATION, BUT THERE ARE OTHERS WHO DESIRE & DESERVE THE APPRECIATION SO PLEASE MAKE IT A POINT TO APPRECIATE OTHERS
THE ENTIRE PURPOSE OF THE POST WAS,TO HIGHLIGHT THAT WE ARE FORGETTING TO APPRECIATE OTHERS FOR THEIR EFFORTS, AND I WAS NO WAY TRYING TO GET PEOPLE COMMENT ON MY POST OR GATHER APPRECIATIONS
I APOLOGIZE ONE'S AGAIN FOR THE HARD WORDS SPOKEN AND DIGNITY HURT, BY ME IN THE PROCESS OF PROVING A RIGHTFULL CAUSE
COMMENTS ON THE POST HEREIN ARE REQUESTED TO BE AVOIDED, AS THE POST HAS SERVED THE PURPOSE(i.e. HIGHLIGHTING THE NEED TO APPRECIATE EFFORTS OF OTHERS)
THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME PATIENCE AND COOPERATION
MUCH OBLIGED
OCTAVIOUS
THE BAD THINGS IN LIFE OPEN YOUR EYES, TO THE GOOD THINGS YOU WEREN'T PAYING ATTENTION TO
From India, Mumbai
THANK YOU TO ALL THE MEMBERS HEREIN , FOR UNDERSTANDING MY CAUSE SUPPORTING THE SAME.
I AM ALSO THANKFUL TO MY CRITICS, FOR THEY ARE MY STEPPING STONES OF SUCCESS. IT IS MY CRITICS WHO CHALLENGE ME TO PROVE MY SELF BETTER THAN THE LAST EFFORT I MADE. IF IT WAS NOT FOR MY CRITICS, I WOULD HAVE NEVER BEEN ABLE TO PERFORM BETTER BY EACH PASSING DAY, BECAUSE IN THE ZEAL TO PROVE MY CRITICS WRONG, I HAVE DELIVERED BETTER RESULTS THAN I USUALLY WOULD HAVE IN AN UNCHALLENGED SITUATION
I HAVE CERTAIN POINTS TO HIGHLIGHT HERE IN, AND THEY ARE AS FOLLOWS
1.I HAVE MADE A STRONG STATEMENT ON MY POST AND I HAVE CLEARLY STATED AS TO WHAT IS THE OUTCOME I WISH, NO WHERE I HAVE REQUESTED FOR EMPATHY/SYMPATHY OR FOR ANY ADVISE.
2.INSTEAD OF UNDERSTANDING MY REQUIREMENT, I HAVE BEEN PROVIDED WITH UNSOLICITED ADVISE, THUS CREATING A UNNECESSARY ARGUMENT OVER A SIMPLE MATTER
3.I HAD GIVEN TWO OPEN CHOICE EITHER TO DOWNLOAD SHAMELESSLY OR DOWN LOAD WITH YOUR VIEWS /RATING, BUT STILL SOME MEMBERS HEREIN TOOK THE THIRD OPTION WHICH I NEVER PROVIDED THAT IS OF GIVING A UNSOLICITED ADVICE AND GUIDANCE
4.SOME OF THE MEMBERS HERE IN HAVE ADVISED ON THE TOPIC, EVEN WITHOUT READING UNDERSTANDING THE PRINCIPLE OR THE SUBLIME MESSAGE BEHIND THE POST AND COMMANDS THERE TO.
FOR THE ABOVE POST, I FEEL THAT AS HR PERSON WE HAVE NOT DONE JUSTICE TO OUR PROFESSION BECAUSE AS A HR WE ARE SUPPOSED TO
1.NOT COMPLICATE THINGS
2.BE A PATIENT LISTENER
3.HAVE EYES FOR DETAILS
4.OBSERVE RULE AND GUIDELINES
5.DO NOT RUSH TO PROVIDE OPTION/SOLUTIONS/ADVICE, WHEN JUST WAITING FOR THE MATTER TO SETTLE WILL BE MORE THAN ENOUGH
I WOULD APOLOGIZE, TO ALL MEMBERS HERE IN WHO WOULD HAVE BEEN HURT BY MY STRONG/SHREWD REMARKS. BUT THE SAME WAS REQUIRED TO GET MY CAUSE THE PEOPLE OF THE FORUM
I WOULD REQUEST ALL THE MEMBERS, TO UNDERSTAND THAT NEXT TIME IF YOU LIKE A POST OR ARTICLE KINDLY RATE IT OR DROP A COMMENT.
THE PERSON WHO UPLOAD THE POST, FOR YOU TO ENJOY ,WOULD HAVE HAD TO SPEND TIME AND EFFORTS TO ENTERTAIN YOU, SO BE HUMANE AND SPARE A MOMENT TO GIVE A WORD OF APPRECIATION TO THE PERSON FOR HIS/HER EFFORTS
I WOULD REPEAT THAT I DONT REQUIRE ANY APPRECIATION, BUT THERE ARE OTHERS WHO DESIRE & DESERVE THE APPRECIATION SO PLEASE MAKE IT A POINT TO APPRECIATE OTHERS
THE ENTIRE PURPOSE OF THE POST WAS,TO HIGHLIGHT THAT WE ARE FORGETTING TO APPRECIATE OTHERS FOR THEIR EFFORTS, AND I WAS NO WAY TRYING TO GET PEOPLE COMMENT ON MY POST OR GATHER APPRECIATIONS
I APOLOGIZE ONE'S AGAIN FOR THE HARD WORDS SPOKEN AND DIGNITY HURT, BY ME IN THE PROCESS OF PROVING A RIGHTFULL CAUSE
COMMENTS ON THE POST HEREIN ARE REQUESTED TO BE AVOIDED, AS THE POST HAS SERVED THE PURPOSE(i.e. HIGHLIGHTING THE NEED TO APPRECIATE EFFORTS OF OTHERS)
THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME PATIENCE AND COOPERATION
MUCH OBLIGED
OCTAVIOUS
THE BAD THINGS IN LIFE OPEN YOUR EYES, TO THE GOOD THINGS YOU WEREN'T PAYING ATTENTION TO
From India, Mumbai
that was rude octavious.....extremely rude! no one has asked you to post stuff out here. you have done so with your own volition...you are not the only one who indulges in knowledge sharing....we all do or are in the process of doing. if i could i would give you the lowest rating for lack of courtesy.
HELLO
THE WAY OF LEAST RESISTANCE RARELY LEADS TO SUCCESS.
I STOOD UP FOR WHAT I BELIEVED WAS RIGHT, AND AFTER CONSTANT RESISTANCE, I HAVE ACHIEVED WHAT I WISHED TO HIGHLIGHT
I WOULD ONE'S AGAIN APOLOGIZE TO ALL WHO HAVE BEEN HURT, IN MY ZEALOUS EFFORTS TO HIGHLIGHT CERTAIN ISSUE, BUT LET ME ALSO THANK ALL, FOR YOU HAVE ALL DIRECTLY OR DIRECTLY HAVE SERVED THE PURPOSE OF HIGHLIGHTING THE ISSUE
KINDLY DO NOT TAKE ANYTHING PERSONAL
SO I WOULD REQUEST TO KINDLY DO NOT POST ANY COMMENTS ON THE TOPIC.
PLEASE FOLLOW THE LINK AND GIVE YOUR VIEWS
THANK YOU
OCTAVIOUS
<link no longer exists - removed>
From India, Mumbai
THE WAY OF LEAST RESISTANCE RARELY LEADS TO SUCCESS.
I STOOD UP FOR WHAT I BELIEVED WAS RIGHT, AND AFTER CONSTANT RESISTANCE, I HAVE ACHIEVED WHAT I WISHED TO HIGHLIGHT
I WOULD ONE'S AGAIN APOLOGIZE TO ALL WHO HAVE BEEN HURT, IN MY ZEALOUS EFFORTS TO HIGHLIGHT CERTAIN ISSUE, BUT LET ME ALSO THANK ALL, FOR YOU HAVE ALL DIRECTLY OR DIRECTLY HAVE SERVED THE PURPOSE OF HIGHLIGHTING THE ISSUE
KINDLY DO NOT TAKE ANYTHING PERSONAL
SO I WOULD REQUEST TO KINDLY DO NOT POST ANY COMMENTS ON THE TOPIC.
PLEASE FOLLOW THE LINK AND GIVE YOUR VIEWS
THANK YOU
OCTAVIOUS
<link no longer exists - removed>
From India, Mumbai
hi octavius...oh my my my my....i neither have the time nor inclination to fight for a futile cause....do us all a favour....join yoga classes! it will surely relax you..learn to live life simply....as an HR person one shudn't complicate matters...i agree...SO PRACTICE WHAT YOU PREACH!
If you dont like unsolicited 'advise' (advice actually) from people then also dont give it....learn to take feedback then force your 'cause' on others....or atleast learn to use professional language...how on earth were you able to cook up such a mail? i dont want to compete with you on this....you win hands down...happy?
i completely agree with Ms.Ipsita when she says that you have used foul language in the forum so you should get a taste of your own medicine.
If you dont like unsolicited 'advise' (advice actually) from people then also dont give it....learn to take feedback then force your 'cause' on others....or atleast learn to use professional language...how on earth were you able to cook up such a mail? i dont want to compete with you on this....you win hands down...happy?
i completely agree with Ms.Ipsita when she says that you have used foul language in the forum so you should get a taste of your own medicine.
HELLO,
THERE IS A CHINESE PROVERB
"NEVER WRESTLE WITH PIGS, THEY TAKE YOU DOWN TO DIRT"
I DECLINE TO COMMAND ON ANY AND ALL FURTHER COMMENTS BY YOU ON MY POST
I DON'T KNOW WHICH SCHOOL YOU WENT, THAT TAUGHT YOU THAT THE WORD "SHAMELESS" IS A SLANG, AS PER THE OXFORD DICTIONARY THE WORD SHAMELESS MEANS IMPUDENT OR HAVING OR KNOWING NO SHAME, NO WHERE IT HAS BEEN MENTIONED THAT IT IS A SLANG
HOW CAN A PERSON, WHO IS LEAST BOTHERED ABOUT OTHER MEMBERS AND THEIR PROBLEM, TALK ABOUT PROFESSIONALISM.
WHY YOU SO AGITATED FOR IPSITA, WHEN SHE HER SELF HAS MAINTAINED HER CALM AND COOL. ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU SAY THAT YOU ARE LEAST BOTHERED ABOUT THE PROBLEMS OF THE MEMBERS OF THE FORUM, STRANGE !!!!!!!
AND ABOUT BE JOINING THE YOGA, GOOD SUGGESTION, BUT I WOULD LIKE TO TELL YOU, THAT I DON'T TAKE DIRECTIONS FROM SOME ONE WHO THEMSELVES CANT UNDERSTAND DIRECTIONS, I HAVE REQUESTED NOT TO POST FURTHER COMMENTS , BUT YOU STILL CONTINUED,
AND ABOUT, I WINING, I AM SORRY TO SAY, I NEVER CONSIDERED YOU A COMPETITION, BUT I WOULD BACK OUT NOW SO AS NOT TO LEAD COMMENTS IN THE PUBLIC FORUM, GO BEYOND THE REALMS OF SANITY.
YOU MAY COMMENT AS MANY AS YOU WISH,I WILL NOT REPLY ANY MORE TO ANY OF YOUR REMARKS OR COMMENTS, AS THERE IS LIMITATION TO INTELLIGENCE AND THERE AIN'T ANY TO IDIOCY, AND I HAVE REACHED MY LIMITS
YOU IN YOUR RAGE, HAVE STOOPED SO LOW THAT, YOUR COMMENTS ITSELF STATE THEIR CALIBER, AND ON CLOSE SCRUTINY ANY PERSON OF COMMON PRUDENCE WOULD UNDERSTAND THAT WHO LACKS, MATURITY AND CULTURE AND PROFESSIONALISM
I CONSIDER YOU AS A INTELLIGENT AND MATURE PERSON, SO I ONE'S AGAIN REQUEST YOU TO STOP POSTING COMMENTS FURTHER AND ACT SENSIBLY AND MATURELY , AND KINDLY STOP THIS USELESS ARGUMENT, YOU HAVE CONVEYED YOUR VIEWS AND I HAVE NOTED THE SAME
THE POST HAS ALREADY SERVED THE PURPOSE AND ALSO, I HAVE APOLOGIZED TO ALL WHO I HAD HURT, IN THE PROCESS OF TRYING TO PUT MY POINT ACROSS, AND I FEEL NO FURTHER NEED TO CLARIFY ANYTHING TO ANY ONE.
I WONT REPLY TO ANY OF YOUR REMARKS OR COMMENTS,
THANK YOU
OCTAVIOUS
From India, Mumbai
THERE IS A CHINESE PROVERB
"NEVER WRESTLE WITH PIGS, THEY TAKE YOU DOWN TO DIRT"
I DECLINE TO COMMAND ON ANY AND ALL FURTHER COMMENTS BY YOU ON MY POST
I DON'T KNOW WHICH SCHOOL YOU WENT, THAT TAUGHT YOU THAT THE WORD "SHAMELESS" IS A SLANG, AS PER THE OXFORD DICTIONARY THE WORD SHAMELESS MEANS IMPUDENT OR HAVING OR KNOWING NO SHAME, NO WHERE IT HAS BEEN MENTIONED THAT IT IS A SLANG
HOW CAN A PERSON, WHO IS LEAST BOTHERED ABOUT OTHER MEMBERS AND THEIR PROBLEM, TALK ABOUT PROFESSIONALISM.
WHY YOU SO AGITATED FOR IPSITA, WHEN SHE HER SELF HAS MAINTAINED HER CALM AND COOL. ESPECIALLY WHEN YOU SAY THAT YOU ARE LEAST BOTHERED ABOUT THE PROBLEMS OF THE MEMBERS OF THE FORUM, STRANGE !!!!!!!
AND ABOUT BE JOINING THE YOGA, GOOD SUGGESTION, BUT I WOULD LIKE TO TELL YOU, THAT I DON'T TAKE DIRECTIONS FROM SOME ONE WHO THEMSELVES CANT UNDERSTAND DIRECTIONS, I HAVE REQUESTED NOT TO POST FURTHER COMMENTS , BUT YOU STILL CONTINUED,
AND ABOUT, I WINING, I AM SORRY TO SAY, I NEVER CONSIDERED YOU A COMPETITION, BUT I WOULD BACK OUT NOW SO AS NOT TO LEAD COMMENTS IN THE PUBLIC FORUM, GO BEYOND THE REALMS OF SANITY.
YOU MAY COMMENT AS MANY AS YOU WISH,I WILL NOT REPLY ANY MORE TO ANY OF YOUR REMARKS OR COMMENTS, AS THERE IS LIMITATION TO INTELLIGENCE AND THERE AIN'T ANY TO IDIOCY, AND I HAVE REACHED MY LIMITS
YOU IN YOUR RAGE, HAVE STOOPED SO LOW THAT, YOUR COMMENTS ITSELF STATE THEIR CALIBER, AND ON CLOSE SCRUTINY ANY PERSON OF COMMON PRUDENCE WOULD UNDERSTAND THAT WHO LACKS, MATURITY AND CULTURE AND PROFESSIONALISM
I CONSIDER YOU AS A INTELLIGENT AND MATURE PERSON, SO I ONE'S AGAIN REQUEST YOU TO STOP POSTING COMMENTS FURTHER AND ACT SENSIBLY AND MATURELY , AND KINDLY STOP THIS USELESS ARGUMENT, YOU HAVE CONVEYED YOUR VIEWS AND I HAVE NOTED THE SAME
THE POST HAS ALREADY SERVED THE PURPOSE AND ALSO, I HAVE APOLOGIZED TO ALL WHO I HAD HURT, IN THE PROCESS OF TRYING TO PUT MY POINT ACROSS, AND I FEEL NO FURTHER NEED TO CLARIFY ANYTHING TO ANY ONE.
I WONT REPLY TO ANY OF YOUR REMARKS OR COMMENTS,
THANK YOU
OCTAVIOUS
From India, Mumbai
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