Dear All,
I would like to get your opinion regarding one of our female staff members who was illegally pregnant (while single) and had an induced abortion. I would like to know what legal grounds would allow us to terminate her employment as the management has decided to end her relationship with our company. Please note that we are based in the UAE, where strict rules are in place stating that a woman cannot be pregnant in Dubai without a legitimate marriage contract. However, I am unable to find the exact article that would serve as the basis for her termination.
From United Arab Emirates, Dubai
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1I would like to get your opinion regarding one of our female staff members who was illegally pregnant (while single) and had an induced abortion. I would like to know what legal grounds would allow us to terminate her employment as the management has decided to end her relationship with our company. Please note that we are based in the UAE, where strict rules are in place stating that a woman cannot be pregnant in Dubai without a legitimate marriage contract. However, I am unable to find the exact article that would serve as the basis for her termination.
From United Arab Emirates, Dubai
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Dear Pinky,
You may proceed with the termination policy, allowing you to terminate employees without providing a reason. However, it is essential to pay the notice period. Please handle the termination discreetly without discussing it with anyone in the office to ensure a smooth process.
Alternatively, you can ask the individual to resign, citing the same reason. I believe she will cooperate with you. Remember to provide her with the Full and Final (FNF) benefits as well.
Thank you.
From India, Hyderabad
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You may proceed with the termination policy, allowing you to terminate employees without providing a reason. However, it is essential to pay the notice period. Please handle the termination discreetly without discussing it with anyone in the office to ensure a smooth process.
Alternatively, you can ask the individual to resign, citing the same reason. I believe she will cooperate with you. Remember to provide her with the Full and Final (FNF) benefits as well.
Thank you.
From India, Hyderabad
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Please don't be harsh on her. She committed a sin. Let her feel and realize her mistake. You can ask her to give it back, stating that she will not repeat the same. If found guilty in the future, she will be liable for prosecution or handed over to the local police.
Do you think Dubai is a city of saints who never commit crimes/sins/mistakes? Why do bachelors love to work in Dubai and consider it as heaven, whereas they hate to work in Saudi Arabia, Kuwait, or Oman?
With profound regards
From India, Chennai
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Do you think Dubai is a city of saints who never commit crimes/sins/mistakes? Why do bachelors love to work in Dubai and consider it as heaven, whereas they hate to work in Saudi Arabia, Kuwait, or Oman?
With profound regards
From India, Chennai
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Dear Pinky,
It is a most unfortunate incident. To terminate her services is something that the "feminist," "women's lib," and people in developed democratic countries would find highly objectionable. Even undergoing abortion is considered evil, as it amounts to killing an unborn baby for none of its fault. Moreover, it is debatable whether unwed mothers should be looked down upon or carry a stigma in a world where divorce has become so common, and live-in relationships have become legal.
Having said that, I understand your predicament. If it is the Law of the Land, then it has to be complied with. Where does this law exist? Find out the relevant references of the Act or statute. Without quoting the exact clause/wordings, you can refer to it in the Termination letter. But the most advisable line of action would be to counsel and convince her to submit her resignation.
Warm regards.
From India, Delhi
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It is a most unfortunate incident. To terminate her services is something that the "feminist," "women's lib," and people in developed democratic countries would find highly objectionable. Even undergoing abortion is considered evil, as it amounts to killing an unborn baby for none of its fault. Moreover, it is debatable whether unwed mothers should be looked down upon or carry a stigma in a world where divorce has become so common, and live-in relationships have become legal.
Having said that, I understand your predicament. If it is the Law of the Land, then it has to be complied with. Where does this law exist? Find out the relevant references of the Act or statute. Without quoting the exact clause/wordings, you can refer to it in the Termination letter. But the most advisable line of action would be to counsel and convince her to submit her resignation.
Warm regards.
From India, Delhi
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Dear Pinky,
What she has done is wrong, but we are no one to punish her. If it is not hampering your company and her work, this should not be exposed, and she should be allowed to work. In this way, she may realize. As a friend, you can help her understand that what she is doing is not correct, and she should not repeat it in the future. Sometimes, people get carried away when no one is there to make them understand.
Regards, Grettapl
From India, Mumbai
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What she has done is wrong, but we are no one to punish her. If it is not hampering your company and her work, this should not be exposed, and she should be allowed to work. In this way, she may realize. As a friend, you can help her understand that what she is doing is not correct, and she should not repeat it in the future. Sometimes, people get carried away when no one is there to make them understand.
Regards, Grettapl
From India, Mumbai
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Dear All,
I appreciate all your comments. I also believe in LIFE and RESPECT. That was the main reason why I continue to pursue my passion in the field of Human Resources. It is valuable to consider the perspectives of my fellow professionals. Previously, I worked as a Social Worker in my home country, so I have a deep understanding of the challenges faced by women worldwide. I see her as a victim of the circumstances, and given the opportunity, she would not choose to be in the same situation again. I want to assure everyone who has shared their opinions that her case will remain confidential, in line with our ethical responsibilities as HR professionals. Our decisions may vary based on the norms of different countries, and it is essential for us to respect and appreciate cultural diversity.
Regardless of the environment, cultural differences, and beliefs, the guiding factor in our decisions should always be the principles of life.
Regarding her case, after considering the laws of the country and the company's perspective, I have recommended to management that we have a transparent discussion with her about the situation. Termination is not an option; instead, we will assist her in leaving the company with dignity and support her in finding another job. I have also proposed to management that my co-HOD, who was involved in the situation, be terminated instead.
I extend my gratitude to all for your comments and advice.
More power to Cite.HR and sincere appreciation for all your contributions.
From United Arab Emirates, Dubai
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I appreciate all your comments. I also believe in LIFE and RESPECT. That was the main reason why I continue to pursue my passion in the field of Human Resources. It is valuable to consider the perspectives of my fellow professionals. Previously, I worked as a Social Worker in my home country, so I have a deep understanding of the challenges faced by women worldwide. I see her as a victim of the circumstances, and given the opportunity, she would not choose to be in the same situation again. I want to assure everyone who has shared their opinions that her case will remain confidential, in line with our ethical responsibilities as HR professionals. Our decisions may vary based on the norms of different countries, and it is essential for us to respect and appreciate cultural diversity.
Regardless of the environment, cultural differences, and beliefs, the guiding factor in our decisions should always be the principles of life.
Regarding her case, after considering the laws of the country and the company's perspective, I have recommended to management that we have a transparent discussion with her about the situation. Termination is not an option; instead, we will assist her in leaving the company with dignity and support her in finding another job. I have also proposed to management that my co-HOD, who was involved in the situation, be terminated instead.
I extend my gratitude to all for your comments and advice.
More power to Cite.HR and sincere appreciation for all your contributions.
From United Arab Emirates, Dubai
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Can anyone explain why she needs to be terminated? She had a relationship with someone which resulted in her getting pregnant due to unprotected sex or maybe due to coercion. Rape law can be applicable in this case if it is someone from within your office. Instead of terminating her and making a big hue and cry as an HR manager, you should be sensitive to this issue to avoid illegal termination of someone's job. Where in your company's rule book is it written that an employee can be terminated for having sex and getting pregnant? The Constitution of India has no clear guidelines on the same either, and if that has nothing to tell you what to do, you better not apply your brains on this.
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Dear Pinky, Though I can suggest some ways, ethically, consciously I am not inclined to offer any as this may be inhuman, a gender bias. Sorry. kumar.s.
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My Dear Anonymous,
First of all, there is no such term as "Illegally Pregnant" - if you try to define it, you will see what I mean.
If a child was born due to rape, the act of rape was illegal, and the child's status is illegitimate. But being pregnant itself is not illegal.
The law actually states that you cannot bear a child out of wedlock, but even if we accept your interpretation, then you must accept that this is a moral law and not a criminal law.
Secondly, a woman will never have the intention of getting pregnant, knowing that the law will be broken; clearly, a mistake has occurred. The mistake has been corrected by way of abortion. Now the question arises, was the abortion illegal?
Third, there is no law - civil or criminal - that states that a woman should lose her job in this situation. Therefore, where does the company's or management's morality lie? Is this woman in breach of company rules and regulations? I suspect not.
I offer no opinion as to the action you should take. I do ask you, however, to question yourself and the motives of management...
Regards,
Harsh
From United Kingdom, Barrow
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First of all, there is no such term as "Illegally Pregnant" - if you try to define it, you will see what I mean.
If a child was born due to rape, the act of rape was illegal, and the child's status is illegitimate. But being pregnant itself is not illegal.
The law actually states that you cannot bear a child out of wedlock, but even if we accept your interpretation, then you must accept that this is a moral law and not a criminal law.
Secondly, a woman will never have the intention of getting pregnant, knowing that the law will be broken; clearly, a mistake has occurred. The mistake has been corrected by way of abortion. Now the question arises, was the abortion illegal?
Third, there is no law - civil or criminal - that states that a woman should lose her job in this situation. Therefore, where does the company's or management's morality lie? Is this woman in breach of company rules and regulations? I suspect not.
I offer no opinion as to the action you should take. I do ask you, however, to question yourself and the motives of management...
Regards,
Harsh
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I am surprised to see all the comments. It's her personal life, and we have no right to interfere in the personal life of an individual. If you need to terminate the services of an individual, you do not need any reasons as such. Issue a simple letter of termination as per the rules and policies of the company.
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Dear All,
I agree with Mr. Dharmesh's comments. If a woman has an illegal pregnancy and the father does not work in the same organization, please do not terminate her. If the news spreads within the organization, kindly seek her permission to initiate exit formalities. However, if she is pregnant with a co-employee or someone within the organization, please terminate both individuals.
Thank you.
From India, Hyderabad
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I agree with Mr. Dharmesh's comments. If a woman has an illegal pregnancy and the father does not work in the same organization, please do not terminate her. If the news spreads within the organization, kindly seek her permission to initiate exit formalities. However, if she is pregnant with a co-employee or someone within the organization, please terminate both individuals.
Thank you.
From India, Hyderabad
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Hello Pinky,
Your lines "Termination shall be out of the question, and will let her leave the company with dignity and will let her find another job and consider her case closed. I also proposed to the management to terminate instead my co-HOD who had caused the same" are indeed VERY profound and apply to this situation quite well. It's not an issue of 'whether it's a consensual act or not'--the issue is one of equal liability and responsibility for the consequences thereof. And more so when the male in question happens to be in the same organization and at a higher position/level.
Regards,
TS
From India, Hyderabad
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Your lines "Termination shall be out of the question, and will let her leave the company with dignity and will let her find another job and consider her case closed. I also proposed to the management to terminate instead my co-HOD who had caused the same" are indeed VERY profound and apply to this situation quite well. It's not an issue of 'whether it's a consensual act or not'--the issue is one of equal liability and responsibility for the consequences thereof. And more so when the male in question happens to be in the same organization and at a higher position/level.
Regards,
TS
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It is sad that we take a saintly position only in the case of a woman. I wish to know, did she get pregnant on her own or did she have a male partner? What action is the organization contemplating against that individual?
The second aspect of the whole episode is, was it consensual sex or coerced? To punish a woman without going through the facts is preposterous.
Munshi
From India, Delhi
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The second aspect of the whole episode is, was it consensual sex or coerced? To punish a woman without going through the facts is preposterous.
Munshi
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Past is past now, and please let her continue to offer her services. It was a mistake committed under the influence of the devil, which is most common in youngsters. Let her start a new life, and I am sure she will never repeat such a mistake in the future. She will realize what it takes for a woman to become a mother. I feel she still has an immature personality.
The ruler of Dubai had set up both a bar and a mosque. It's up to the individuals to choose. Humans are born to make mistakes, but she alone cannot be taken for a long ride as one needs two hands to clap. What about her companion? Why is his company not taking similar action against him because he is equally involved in that incident? Why one law for females and another law for males?
We must learn to forgive and support others to rectify their own mistakes.
With profound regards
From India, Chennai
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The ruler of Dubai had set up both a bar and a mosque. It's up to the individuals to choose. Humans are born to make mistakes, but she alone cannot be taken for a long ride as one needs two hands to clap. What about her companion? Why is his company not taking similar action against him because he is equally involved in that incident? Why one law for females and another law for males?
We must learn to forgive and support others to rectify their own mistakes.
With profound regards
From India, Chennai
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Law of the land applies. Each country has different laws. Thank God it happened in Saudi. Just imagine if it had happened in Saudi, she would have been stoned to death. The HR person who brought this up has responded with a lot of sensitivity towards the dignity of the lady in question. Really appreciate that.
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Actually, there is no provision for termination on such pregnancy, an abortion. She has punished herself by having an abortion and is now continuing with her job. A lady must be protected from such coercive steps of the management. It is her decision to leave the job based on her moral convictions. If we know the person who has coerced her, they should be prosecuted.
Satish Verma, Nashik
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Hi, I was in Doha as Manager - HR. You should be careful when you make such a comment. It is not India to talk about anything and get away with it. Don't unnecessarily put your nose into it. There is a law of the land of which your owner is aware. It is highly sensitive. It's better to bury it rather than go public. Women are always victims of circumstances, so don't be harsh with your decisions. In Dubai, these things may be happening without much exposure. As HR head, ask your owner to deal with utmost care and sensitivity.
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I don't know the term "illegal pregnancy." As per UAE law, abortion is not permitted. Police will take action, and the lady will definitely get a permanent entry restriction in the UAE, especially if she is unmarried and found pregnant.
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Dear Mr. Pinky,
It all depends on your internal rules, standing orders, and applicable laws to employees in Saudi Arabia. In India, at least for such conduct, we cannot punish an employee since it has nothing to do with her employment. However, if it is considered a crime in Saudi Arabia, and if indulging in any crime is covered in the service rules or appointment letter applicable to her, then you can follow the course of action laid down as per those rules. If it warrants an inquiry, then the same should be done. If it calls for immediate dismissal, then it can be resorted to, not otherwise.
From India, Pune
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It all depends on your internal rules, standing orders, and applicable laws to employees in Saudi Arabia. In India, at least for such conduct, we cannot punish an employee since it has nothing to do with her employment. However, if it is considered a crime in Saudi Arabia, and if indulging in any crime is covered in the service rules or appointment letter applicable to her, then you can follow the course of action laid down as per those rules. If it warrants an inquiry, then the same should be done. If it calls for immediate dismissal, then it can be resorted to, not otherwise.
From India, Pune
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Though this should be encouraged, it will weaken the discipline of our companies. This is a stigma on our working culture as well as on the society. No religion allows this. However, the work of the company has not suffered, but concerned staff members should be counseled, and strict warnings should be issued to avoid such cases in the future.
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Which country does she belong to? The first thing is that she should come out of the Middle East safely. Her safety is the priority. A person cannot be terminated in India just because of pregnancy; therefore, if yours is an Indian company and she has been deputed there, then you cannot terminate her. What she has done may be morally incorrect but might have happened in a weak moment or whatever - only she can explain the circumstances. It's better not to judge.
If there is a risk to her life or if she is likely to be arrested if you legally terminate her due to pregnancy, then please speak to her, inform her about the risks involved, and request her to resign and leave the Middle East before any controversies arise.
Gayatri
From India, Chandigarh
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If there is a risk to her life or if she is likely to be arrested if you legally terminate her due to pregnancy, then please speak to her, inform her about the risks involved, and request her to resign and leave the Middle East before any controversies arise.
Gayatri
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Dear Pinky,
If it comes to the worst, "it is better that she should be allowed to resign, get her dues settled calmly, and ensure that she lands in India safely with clear documents." The poor girl deserves all sympathy and support in this unfortunate, precarious situation she is in. Just for my information - wouldn't the hospital where the abortion was done face legal obligations? If so, how can she escape from this danger?
Kumar S.
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If it comes to the worst, "it is better that she should be allowed to resign, get her dues settled calmly, and ensure that she lands in India safely with clear documents." The poor girl deserves all sympathy and support in this unfortunate, precarious situation she is in. Just for my information - wouldn't the hospital where the abortion was done face legal obligations? If so, how can she escape from this danger?
Kumar S.
From India, Bangalore
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Dear Pinky,
Though the issue appears to be closed, the question you raised remains.
Thanks for posting and creating an awareness of such a situation.
As far as Indian Labour Laws and Govt Rules for maternity benefits and childcare, etc., are concerned, it is all about whether the female employee requires rest, leave, and support for confinement and delivery, and care for the child. The conception, whether it is legal or illegal, is beyond the question. It is the individual's right. She might have become pregnant by fertility treatment, by consensual sex without marriage, or rape. The fact of carrying a child entitles her to the maternity benefits.
As for ethics, country-specific rules, and company's policies,
(i) It should be ensured whether the country's rules regarding moral behavior/crimes interfere with an individual's contract of employment.
(ii) Whether the employer should take cognizance of such happenings. When it is not so, the employer is acting beyond his powers.
(iii) Unless the facts are brought on record by recording evidence, such facts are difficult to take action on.
(iv) In these days of single mothers, having a child without wedlock, if your company continues with old morals, the company will end up winding up.
We don't recommend immorality, but changes in the workplace should be noted by the company. — Priyan
From India, Mumbai
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Though the issue appears to be closed, the question you raised remains.
Thanks for posting and creating an awareness of such a situation.
As far as Indian Labour Laws and Govt Rules for maternity benefits and childcare, etc., are concerned, it is all about whether the female employee requires rest, leave, and support for confinement and delivery, and care for the child. The conception, whether it is legal or illegal, is beyond the question. It is the individual's right. She might have become pregnant by fertility treatment, by consensual sex without marriage, or rape. The fact of carrying a child entitles her to the maternity benefits.
As for ethics, country-specific rules, and company's policies,
(i) It should be ensured whether the country's rules regarding moral behavior/crimes interfere with an individual's contract of employment.
(ii) Whether the employer should take cognizance of such happenings. When it is not so, the employer is acting beyond his powers.
(iii) Unless the facts are brought on record by recording evidence, such facts are difficult to take action on.
(iv) In these days of single mothers, having a child without wedlock, if your company continues with old morals, the company will end up winding up.
We don't recommend immorality, but changes in the workplace should be noted by the company. — Priyan
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I agree with Mr. Dharmesh Doshi. If you want to terminate someone, there is no need to provide any reasons. However, you should not mention the reason in the termination letter. Everyone has their personal life. Please check your company's rules and policy; you will most likely not find any such rules or policies in your company's management framework. If you still decide to take termination action, call her and discuss the matter with her in person. Try to persuade her to submit her resignation and resolve the issue.
Dushyant Shah
From India, Pune
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Dear All,
I have noticed some typographical mistakes in my previous post and would like to make some additions. Please read it as follows: The issue has raised awareness of a situation that requires a sympathetic approach. "Country-specific rules" should be read where it appears. If your company operates in multiple countries, it cannot act as a moral police for each country. With changes occurring in every field and shifts in cultures and morals across various countries, an individual's contribution to the company should be the main factor in deciding the continuation or dismissal of an employee.
Thank you.
Priyan
From India, Mumbai
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I have noticed some typographical mistakes in my previous post and would like to make some additions. Please read it as follows: The issue has raised awareness of a situation that requires a sympathetic approach. "Country-specific rules" should be read where it appears. If your company operates in multiple countries, it cannot act as a moral police for each country. With changes occurring in every field and shifts in cultures and morals across various countries, an individual's contribution to the company should be the main factor in deciding the continuation or dismissal of an employee.
Thank you.
Priyan
From India, Mumbai
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Dear All,
Some typographical mistakes in my post and some additions.
Pls read as: The issue has created awareness of such a situation which calls for a sympathetic approach.
Read as 'Country specific rules' - where it appears.
If your company operates in many countries, the company cannot function as moral police for the country. With changes happening in every field, and changes in cultures/morals of every country, an individual's contribution to the company should be the priority in deciding the continuance/dismissal of an employee.
Thanks.
Priyan
Issue is not about acting as the moral police of the country. But the law of the land has to be complied with. In the UAE, getting pregnant out of wedlock is a crime and a punishable offense. Once a person has committed a crime as per the law of the land, the company has to act immediately. If not, the company could be in danger of losing its license to function. Appreciate the management that they are only removing the lady concerned and not intimating the law enforcers. If they do, she will be in jail, and then after serving the sentence, she will be deported with a permanent bar to enter the UAE. This literally means she cannot get a visa for most countries and may not get a job abroad. They are not ruining her career. They are, in fact, getting her to leave, so that she could build her life elsewhere. Neither are they informing the law enforcing agencies. We need to appreciate that. And also, the way Pinky is handling by being very sensitive to the human side of the lady concerned also needs to be appreciated.
Most of us come from democratic countries like India, the USA, and European countries. But one thing we have to realize is that major parts of the world are not democratic. Hence, they will not have such broad democratic principles of governance.
Comparing the laws of democratic countries and asking that it be applied in a non-democratic country is impractical and not realistic.
From Nigeria
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Some typographical mistakes in my post and some additions.
Pls read as: The issue has created awareness of such a situation which calls for a sympathetic approach.
Read as 'Country specific rules' - where it appears.
If your company operates in many countries, the company cannot function as moral police for the country. With changes happening in every field, and changes in cultures/morals of every country, an individual's contribution to the company should be the priority in deciding the continuance/dismissal of an employee.
Thanks.
Priyan
Issue is not about acting as the moral police of the country. But the law of the land has to be complied with. In the UAE, getting pregnant out of wedlock is a crime and a punishable offense. Once a person has committed a crime as per the law of the land, the company has to act immediately. If not, the company could be in danger of losing its license to function. Appreciate the management that they are only removing the lady concerned and not intimating the law enforcers. If they do, she will be in jail, and then after serving the sentence, she will be deported with a permanent bar to enter the UAE. This literally means she cannot get a visa for most countries and may not get a job abroad. They are not ruining her career. They are, in fact, getting her to leave, so that she could build her life elsewhere. Neither are they informing the law enforcing agencies. We need to appreciate that. And also, the way Pinky is handling by being very sensitive to the human side of the lady concerned also needs to be appreciated.
Most of us come from democratic countries like India, the USA, and European countries. But one thing we have to realize is that major parts of the world are not democratic. Hence, they will not have such broad democratic principles of governance.
Comparing the laws of democratic countries and asking that it be applied in a non-democratic country is impractical and not realistic.
From Nigeria
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I appreciate the contents of the post by Anonymous. I agree with how difficult it would be to escape from the clutches of local laws, especially in Muslim (Gulf) countries where it's different from that of India. I also appreciate their management in helping her avert imminent ignominy. God save her and the employer.
Kumar.S.
From India, Bangalore
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From India, Bangalore
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Dear all,
You all have separate comments on this issue, and that reflects each one's perspective on this issue. I appreciate all. Whether it's India or Dubai, here HR cannot show its rules, regulations, and laws. It should be handled with tender care. Whenever she undergoes an abortion, it means she has some fear regarding losing her job or facing societal judgment, so please take care of her during this critical time. Being an HR person, deal with her softly. Advise her not to repeat this action and be aware of societal expectations. Don't ask for resignation unless the female employee's nature or character is significantly different, abnormal, or indifferent even with your support.
From India, Kolkata
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You all have separate comments on this issue, and that reflects each one's perspective on this issue. I appreciate all. Whether it's India or Dubai, here HR cannot show its rules, regulations, and laws. It should be handled with tender care. Whenever she undergoes an abortion, it means she has some fear regarding losing her job or facing societal judgment, so please take care of her during this critical time. Being an HR person, deal with her softly. Advise her not to repeat this action and be aware of societal expectations. Don't ask for resignation unless the female employee's nature or character is significantly different, abnormal, or indifferent even with your support.
From India, Kolkata
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If you believe that your hotel and this staff member will face problems, which may be right, then you should not have escalated this issue. Instead, you should have simply discussed this matter one-on-one with the staff member and asked her to resign. Please do not terminate her; rather, ask her to resign so that she can seek another job, leaving her past behind.
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Dear whoever you are,
Congratulations on posing the most innovative question thus far for the year 2013.
What gave you the idea that being pregnant means she ain't single? Have you heard about surrogacy?
How did you come to the conclusion that she became pregnant in the UAE?
She might have been pregnant when out of the UAE and then came back to the UAE. There is also a possibility that she was drugged and raped by some pervert, hence she took such steps.
In strict terms, being single means being not married, but being single nowhere states anything about being a mother or not being a mother (there is a difference between the two). If we go in reverse style, everybody who is married and not having a child should be single, right? Well, it isn't so...
I have been seeing a lot of members herein speaking about religion and morals, etc. I would like to ask such members, who made them caretakers of society and watchdogs of morals.
CiteHR was started with the intention of creating a strong and common platform for professionals, where professional, educated, wise, and learned HR professionals could come and share experiences and knowledge.
However, some members have decided to self-appoint themselves as messiahs of religion, morals, and conduct, and I believe they will turn this CiteHR into some Khap panchayat.
Moderators are hereby requested to please take notice of the same and act accordingly.
People who want to talk about religion or discuss religion under the cloak of some professional issues, please do so in some other forum and not in CiteHR.
Members of CiteHR are interested in getting influenced by knowledge and nothing else.
Regards,
Octavious
From India, Mumbai
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Congratulations on posing the most innovative question thus far for the year 2013.
What gave you the idea that being pregnant means she ain't single? Have you heard about surrogacy?
How did you come to the conclusion that she became pregnant in the UAE?
She might have been pregnant when out of the UAE and then came back to the UAE. There is also a possibility that she was drugged and raped by some pervert, hence she took such steps.
In strict terms, being single means being not married, but being single nowhere states anything about being a mother or not being a mother (there is a difference between the two). If we go in reverse style, everybody who is married and not having a child should be single, right? Well, it isn't so...
I have been seeing a lot of members herein speaking about religion and morals, etc. I would like to ask such members, who made them caretakers of society and watchdogs of morals.
CiteHR was started with the intention of creating a strong and common platform for professionals, where professional, educated, wise, and learned HR professionals could come and share experiences and knowledge.
However, some members have decided to self-appoint themselves as messiahs of religion, morals, and conduct, and I believe they will turn this CiteHR into some Khap panchayat.
Moderators are hereby requested to please take notice of the same and act accordingly.
People who want to talk about religion or discuss religion under the cloak of some professional issues, please do so in some other forum and not in CiteHR.
Members of CiteHR are interested in getting influenced by knowledge and nothing else.
Regards,
Octavious
From India, Mumbai
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Dear friends,
I feel it's high time that we all should restrict our posts to giving suggestions relevant to the query. Let us not trouble the questioners by delving into controversial topics such as morality, religion, etc., which are purely personal and unrelated to HR profiles.
kumar.s.
From India, Bangalore
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I feel it's high time that we all should restrict our posts to giving suggestions relevant to the query. Let us not trouble the questioners by delving into controversial topics such as morality, religion, etc., which are purely personal and unrelated to HR profiles.
kumar.s.
From India, Bangalore
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If you have documentary evidence of Induced abortion then you can serve notice to her asking her why she will not be terminate from employment ?
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Dear Mr. Octavious,
I am not sure what made you post such statements just because you are a SUPER MODERATOR. Your role is to LISTEN AS MUCH AS YOU CAN and share your views with a POSITIVE ATTITUDE. This is an OPEN FORUM, and everyone has the right to post their queries, share views/opinions, as long as it doesn't hurt any individual or their living style. Henceforth, you have "NO RIGHT" to post such a statement.
Please be informed that, as far as MUSLIMS are concerned, "RELIGION PLAYS AN IMPORTANT ROLE IN OUR PROFESSIONAL AND PERSONAL LIVES." Without RELIGION, we MUSLIMS ARE NOTHING. Besides Muslims, there are also Professionals for whom "RELIGION IS EVERYTHING" as they don't care about this TEMPORARY WORLD.
All those with A DON'T CARE ATTITUDE nor associated their lives with their RELIGION are TRULY MISGUIDED and HAVE LANDED THEMSELVES INTO TROUBLES.
RELIGION has a lot more to do with our lives. RELIGION has guided us to FOLLOW RULES & REGULATIONS for a BETTER LIFE on EARTH AND AFTER DEATH (AAQIRATH). GULF COUNTRIES are very strict about RULES ASSOCIATED WITH RELIGIOUS LIFESTYLE. I have tons of examples to give you as to how "RELIGION CAN HELP US LIVE A BETTER LIFE". For example, as per SHARIAH LAW, a RAPIST must either be stoned to death or Hanged till death. If this law were enforced in INDIA, Women would have been safer to an extent, and CRIME could have been controlled.
You must understand why "ILLEGAL SEX is PROHIBITED IN ISLAM & GCC". Even others prohibit the same, but who is exploiting it. I don't want to write more about WESTERN CULTURE. For selfish reasons, for centuries women have been exploited by MEN. The way WOMEN are used for PRODUCT PROMOTION/MARKETING ACTIVITIES is really pathetic. Is this the way we treat a WOMAN who is also supposed to be our MOTHER, SISTER, WIFE, AUNTS...
We need to change our thinking pattern and support the TRUTH.
With profound regards.
From India, Chennai
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I am not sure what made you post such statements just because you are a SUPER MODERATOR. Your role is to LISTEN AS MUCH AS YOU CAN and share your views with a POSITIVE ATTITUDE. This is an OPEN FORUM, and everyone has the right to post their queries, share views/opinions, as long as it doesn't hurt any individual or their living style. Henceforth, you have "NO RIGHT" to post such a statement.
Please be informed that, as far as MUSLIMS are concerned, "RELIGION PLAYS AN IMPORTANT ROLE IN OUR PROFESSIONAL AND PERSONAL LIVES." Without RELIGION, we MUSLIMS ARE NOTHING. Besides Muslims, there are also Professionals for whom "RELIGION IS EVERYTHING" as they don't care about this TEMPORARY WORLD.
All those with A DON'T CARE ATTITUDE nor associated their lives with their RELIGION are TRULY MISGUIDED and HAVE LANDED THEMSELVES INTO TROUBLES.
RELIGION has a lot more to do with our lives. RELIGION has guided us to FOLLOW RULES & REGULATIONS for a BETTER LIFE on EARTH AND AFTER DEATH (AAQIRATH). GULF COUNTRIES are very strict about RULES ASSOCIATED WITH RELIGIOUS LIFESTYLE. I have tons of examples to give you as to how "RELIGION CAN HELP US LIVE A BETTER LIFE". For example, as per SHARIAH LAW, a RAPIST must either be stoned to death or Hanged till death. If this law were enforced in INDIA, Women would have been safer to an extent, and CRIME could have been controlled.
You must understand why "ILLEGAL SEX is PROHIBITED IN ISLAM & GCC". Even others prohibit the same, but who is exploiting it. I don't want to write more about WESTERN CULTURE. For selfish reasons, for centuries women have been exploited by MEN. The way WOMEN are used for PRODUCT PROMOTION/MARKETING ACTIVITIES is really pathetic. Is this the way we treat a WOMAN who is also supposed to be our MOTHER, SISTER, WIFE, AUNTS...
We need to change our thinking pattern and support the TRUTH.
With profound regards.
From India, Chennai
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Dear Skhadir.
Thanks a lot, after a very long time I had a great laugh and this is all because of your hilarious unwarranted reactive and illogical post above.
I bet your brain feels as good as new, seeing that you've never used it, never the less, keep talking someday you'll say something intelligent.
I don't think you are a person with low intelligence, but then what's MY opinion against thousands of others who have seen your unwarranted illogical violent reaction , on a harmless but straight forward opinion of mine, made with no intention to hurt any person/persons/public at large in any manner.
And please pardon me for generating a feeling in you that I am someone who gives a damn about your opinion or suggestion.
I am sorry , I know I'm talking like an idiot. I have to, otherwise you wouldn't understand me.
If you don’t mind can I ignore you again, I am bit busy.
Regards
Octavious
From India, Mumbai
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Thanks a lot, after a very long time I had a great laugh and this is all because of your hilarious unwarranted reactive and illogical post above.
I bet your brain feels as good as new, seeing that you've never used it, never the less, keep talking someday you'll say something intelligent.
I don't think you are a person with low intelligence, but then what's MY opinion against thousands of others who have seen your unwarranted illogical violent reaction , on a harmless but straight forward opinion of mine, made with no intention to hurt any person/persons/public at large in any manner.
And please pardon me for generating a feeling in you that I am someone who gives a damn about your opinion or suggestion.
I am sorry , I know I'm talking like an idiot. I have to, otherwise you wouldn't understand me.
If you don’t mind can I ignore you again, I am bit busy.
Regards
Octavious
From India, Mumbai
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Great you had a good time post reading. I may sound like an IDIOT or FOOL or IMMATURE PERSONALITY but, my policy says, "DON'T UNDERESTIMATE ANYONE IN THIS WORLD NOR YOURSELF".
Through ISLAMIC PRINCIPLES our Prophet (PBUH) thought the entire MANKIND "HOW TO LIVE A PEACEFULLY, DISCIPLINED, HAPPY & SUCCESSFUL LIFE(on earth & post death)". There is lot more to share with you because i strong feel, you need to gather more information about ISLAM. Only then you will understand the importance of RELIGION IN ONCE LIFE.
Aggressively i am promoting my services to all those individuals who wants to learn "HOW TO CONTROL THEIR ANGER". Infact, i had tested on myself whatever i am teaching to individuals. This had helped many to control their ATTITUDE, BEHAVIOUR, RESPOND LOGICALLY INSTEAD OF REACTING OR BURSTING OUT and lot more.
Have a wonderful life and please do spend time to understand :THE ROLE OF RELIGION IN OUR LIFE"
With profound regards
From India, Chennai
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Through ISLAMIC PRINCIPLES our Prophet (PBUH) thought the entire MANKIND "HOW TO LIVE A PEACEFULLY, DISCIPLINED, HAPPY & SUCCESSFUL LIFE(on earth & post death)". There is lot more to share with you because i strong feel, you need to gather more information about ISLAM. Only then you will understand the importance of RELIGION IN ONCE LIFE.
Aggressively i am promoting my services to all those individuals who wants to learn "HOW TO CONTROL THEIR ANGER". Infact, i had tested on myself whatever i am teaching to individuals. This had helped many to control their ATTITUDE, BEHAVIOUR, RESPOND LOGICALLY INSTEAD OF REACTING OR BURSTING OUT and lot more.
Have a wonderful life and please do spend time to understand :THE ROLE OF RELIGION IN OUR LIFE"
With profound regards
From India, Chennai
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I think this is now getting personal - it's best to close the thread and leave it at that.
Octavious, it's best to not get agitated over such threads - while I don't want to encourage political or religious discussions - this particular thread seemed to be relevant from an HR perspective. For many, as Khadir pointed out, religion is a major part of how they live - we need to respect that and let them be if we fail to understand their reasons for faith. However, it would've been better if this discussion had moved more towards the business perspective rather than the religious perspective.
Please also note that Senior Member / Super Moderator / Administrator tags do not mean any kind of superiority in this forum - it simply means the users have volunteered to take up some tasks to maintain the forum or are marked for special contributions. All of us here are equal and have an equal opportunity to voice our opinions.
Regards,
Sid [CHR]
From India, Gurgaon
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Octavious, it's best to not get agitated over such threads - while I don't want to encourage political or religious discussions - this particular thread seemed to be relevant from an HR perspective. For many, as Khadir pointed out, religion is a major part of how they live - we need to respect that and let them be if we fail to understand their reasons for faith. However, it would've been better if this discussion had moved more towards the business perspective rather than the religious perspective.
Please also note that Senior Member / Super Moderator / Administrator tags do not mean any kind of superiority in this forum - it simply means the users have volunteered to take up some tasks to maintain the forum or are marked for special contributions. All of us here are equal and have an equal opportunity to voice our opinions.
Regards,
Sid [CHR]
From India, Gurgaon
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