Dear All
I read this book - Who will Cry when you die. This book is on “Spirituality”. While I was reading this book, certain questions flashed on my mind. Actually speaking, who will cry when you die?
Parents,
Spouse,
Kids,
Relatives,
Friends
Throughout our life, we work for “people around us” but then when we are, no more...who will cry? Will any? I do not think so.
I was watching one serial. One character dies in it. It is shown that his family members (wife, children, relatives, siblings etc ) are more interested in his wealth, his saving etc.
I agree that...none of us (No one in the world) is big enough to create any vacuum by their demise (absence)...but yet...
So, what do you think...who will miss you more...who will cry...when you bid adieu to this world?
Do share your views.
Regards
Sanjeev
From India, Mumbai
94I read this book - Who will Cry when you die. This book is on “Spirituality”. While I was reading this book, certain questions flashed on my mind. Actually speaking, who will cry when you die?
Parents,
Spouse,
Kids,
Relatives,
Friends
Throughout our life, we work for “people around us” but then when we are, no more...who will cry? Will any? I do not think so.
I was watching one serial. One character dies in it. It is shown that his family members (wife, children, relatives, siblings etc ) are more interested in his wealth, his saving etc.
I agree that...none of us (No one in the world) is big enough to create any vacuum by their demise (absence)...but yet...
So, what do you think...who will miss you more...who will cry...when you bid adieu to this world?
Do share your views.
Regards
Sanjeev
From India, Mumbai
Hi Sanjeev,
Ofcourse...no one in this world will cry for lifelong if one dies bcz as it is always says...Life goes one....but that place becomes empty when someone dies....and no matter what ..no other person can fulfill the emptiness of the person who hold a close and a dear place in ones life.......
Any please dont talk of serials it all useless as they do not increase your knowledge but inturn corrupt one person...i personaaly think they should be ban specially all the serials of Ekta Kappoor ......
Well after my death of course my spouse will CRY aloud? not for long i guess but he will.....Sure he will....
So who will cry after you die...?
do reply me....
Cheers
Nidhi (Hr Executive)
From India, New Delhi
Ofcourse...no one in this world will cry for lifelong if one dies bcz as it is always says...Life goes one....but that place becomes empty when someone dies....and no matter what ..no other person can fulfill the emptiness of the person who hold a close and a dear place in ones life.......
Any please dont talk of serials it all useless as they do not increase your knowledge but inturn corrupt one person...i personaaly think they should be ban specially all the serials of Ekta Kappoor ......
Well after my death of course my spouse will CRY aloud? not for long i guess but he will.....Sure he will....
So who will cry after you die...?
do reply me....
Cheers
Nidhi (Hr Executive)
From India, New Delhi
All fingers are not of same size, all people are not same type.
To cry is a good thing as tear help in putting out pain. When we loose someone it is like a shock and spontaniously tears comes in our eyes and we loose control over our tounge, words, behaviour and everything. But as the times passes the state of shock converts in to pain which we feel inside our heart.
Remember when eyes cry everyone can see and know but when hearts cry only whose heart cry will know rest will be unaware. Sometime we have smile at our lips but at heart we are sinking and crying.
I agree greedy people are very crazy of wealth and materialistic things but everyone in this world is not greedy. There are many who can sacrifice every wealth and kick all treasures by their foot, if it is possible they can get their dear one back.
From Australia, Balwyn
To cry is a good thing as tear help in putting out pain. When we loose someone it is like a shock and spontaniously tears comes in our eyes and we loose control over our tounge, words, behaviour and everything. But as the times passes the state of shock converts in to pain which we feel inside our heart.
Remember when eyes cry everyone can see and know but when hearts cry only whose heart cry will know rest will be unaware. Sometime we have smile at our lips but at heart we are sinking and crying.
I agree greedy people are very crazy of wealth and materialistic things but everyone in this world is not greedy. There are many who can sacrifice every wealth and kick all treasures by their foot, if it is possible they can get their dear one back.
From Australia, Balwyn
Dear Nidhi and Bibhutosh...
Thanks for taking out time and to reply to my question. I agree with your point of view and I also believe that life is about making others happy. It is about laughing together and smiling together. That is actually a way to live your life. It is not an analysis of your life.
Let's take another look. Life, as a whole is a cycle. It starts from birth and ends with death. It is a known phenomenon. As long as, anything is in process, you can judge its impact. As long as a performer is performing on the stage, you cannot judge the show. You cannot judge the success or failure of the show. In the same way, as long as you are living...no one can actually evaluate your life. It is only after the death that one can feel the impact of your life...cry for you, feel proud of you and remember you in a certain way. So, in short...we should do things in our life...in the best possible way that we can. Live our life in a way that no one else would have can lived and then leave the stage.
Life is a stage show. Do your best and move on. (Aur Abhi show khatam nahi hoya hai. Kahaani abhi baaki hai)...the show has not yet ended...
Stay in touch and take care.
Regards
Sanjeev
From India, Mumbai
Thanks for taking out time and to reply to my question. I agree with your point of view and I also believe that life is about making others happy. It is about laughing together and smiling together. That is actually a way to live your life. It is not an analysis of your life.
Let's take another look. Life, as a whole is a cycle. It starts from birth and ends with death. It is a known phenomenon. As long as, anything is in process, you can judge its impact. As long as a performer is performing on the stage, you cannot judge the show. You cannot judge the success or failure of the show. In the same way, as long as you are living...no one can actually evaluate your life. It is only after the death that one can feel the impact of your life...cry for you, feel proud of you and remember you in a certain way. So, in short...we should do things in our life...in the best possible way that we can. Live our life in a way that no one else would have can lived and then leave the stage.
Life is a stage show. Do your best and move on. (Aur Abhi show khatam nahi hoya hai. Kahaani abhi baaki hai)...the show has not yet ended...
Stay in touch and take care.
Regards
Sanjeev
From India, Mumbai
Hey sanjeev That was really a good one... but you did not reply back to my question who will cry when you die? Cheers... Nidhi (Hr Executive)
From India, New Delhi
From India, New Delhi
Hi
I would like to modify this statement to "who will cry because of you?" and "who will cry for you?"
I don't think its necessary to wait for a physical death. We die on our own - failed examinations, uncertain relationships, financial losses, including loss of loved ones... at these occasions and other similar ones, "we die inside".
The more important thing for those who cry is "what next".
I think the need for crying would be far less, if we were to get out of "judgement" mode which has been ingrained in us since our childhood.
Other opinions please.
Regards
Ryan
From India, Mumbai
I would like to modify this statement to "who will cry because of you?" and "who will cry for you?"
I don't think its necessary to wait for a physical death. We die on our own - failed examinations, uncertain relationships, financial losses, including loss of loved ones... at these occasions and other similar ones, "we die inside".
The more important thing for those who cry is "what next".
I think the need for crying would be far less, if we were to get out of "judgement" mode which has been ingrained in us since our childhood.
Other opinions please.
Regards
Ryan
From India, Mumbai
If we say no one will remember or cry for us or just feel the absence.....I think, we didnt basically live our life.
My grandfather died 15 years ago....& I still remember him and sometime I would long for him to be there to share his knowledge & love for us.
So, my point is.....If we spend our life to show our real care & love on people (the way we love ourselves) and continue to have an attitude towards being good to people around....those whose lifes are impacted....will certainly atleast shed a drop of tear (not of grief, but of gratefulness)
From India, Bangalore
My grandfather died 15 years ago....& I still remember him and sometime I would long for him to be there to share his knowledge & love for us.
So, my point is.....If we spend our life to show our real care & love on people (the way we love ourselves) and continue to have an attitude towards being good to people around....those whose lifes are impacted....will certainly atleast shed a drop of tear (not of grief, but of gratefulness)
From India, Bangalore
People will forget what you said...
People will forget what you did...
but people will never forget how you made them feel.
So,
What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but is woven into the lives of others.
Always
Hitesh
From India, New Delhi
People will forget what you did...
but people will never forget how you made them feel.
So,
What you leave behind is not what is engraved in stone monuments, but is woven into the lives of others.
Always
Hitesh
From India, New Delhi
Well...one drop of tear in the eyes of one crore people
...not bcoz they will miss me...but becoz they love me...because they are special to me and vice-versa...that should be something...very interesting.... :oops:
Sanjeev
From India, Mumbai
...not bcoz they will miss me...but becoz they love me...because they are special to me and vice-versa...that should be something...very interesting.... :oops:
Sanjeev
From India, Mumbai
Hi Sanjeev,
I just want to ask you one question, i.e does it neccessary to cry? I don't think so. bcoz there are people who cried with loud voice just to get the attention of others and show how sad they are. but actually they have nothing to do with the incident or death.
At the same time there are people who devastated from within but people hardly see any tears in their eyes. Few people are able to show their emotion by crying, laughing, dancing but few there are few who fails to do so unlike others.
The most important thing is feeling. how you feel about others or how others feel about you after the dissociation. And the rest are matter of expressing one'ss feeling.
Surya
From India, Pune
I just want to ask you one question, i.e does it neccessary to cry? I don't think so. bcoz there are people who cried with loud voice just to get the attention of others and show how sad they are. but actually they have nothing to do with the incident or death.
At the same time there are people who devastated from within but people hardly see any tears in their eyes. Few people are able to show their emotion by crying, laughing, dancing but few there are few who fails to do so unlike others.
The most important thing is feeling. how you feel about others or how others feel about you after the dissociation. And the rest are matter of expressing one'ss feeling.
Surya
From India, Pune
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