Ever wondered why in spite of being true and honest we tend to be treated so bad ?.. Inspite of loving someone deeply they newer tend to understand ?... Inspite of being on time for work and dedicating our whole life , still we are criticised ? Insite of sacrificing all the good in life waiting for the best we finally come to a standstill ....Now the question comes , is fate playing ?.... Our is it Gods way of telling us we can find light at the end of the tunnel
From India, Kochi
From India, Kochi
Hi
How we interpret our experiences is largely based on our attitude. Someone with a positive attitude would seek to find the good in the experience whereas someone who has a more negative mind set would possibly seek out limitations and problems in even a very positive experience. E.g. If someone has studied hard and yet fails in an exam he/ she can rationalize that life has been very unfair or the person can re-asses how he/ she answered the paper and possibly conclude that better effort was needed. Similarly at appraisal time, the feedback got from seniors especially the negative feedback must be calmly evaluated and then the truth may be more clearly seen. If the feedback, in your opinion was unjustified, make greater efforts to ensure that the same feedback is not got again rather than merely feeling victimized.
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Regards
From India, Mumbai
How we interpret our experiences is largely based on our attitude. Someone with a positive attitude would seek to find the good in the experience whereas someone who has a more negative mind set would possibly seek out limitations and problems in even a very positive experience. E.g. If someone has studied hard and yet fails in an exam he/ she can rationalize that life has been very unfair or the person can re-asses how he/ she answered the paper and possibly conclude that better effort was needed. Similarly at appraisal time, the feedback got from seniors especially the negative feedback must be calmly evaluated and then the truth may be more clearly seen. If the feedback, in your opinion was unjustified, make greater efforts to ensure that the same feedback is not got again rather than merely feeling victimized.
Those reading this post and seeking inputs to recharge their attitude and become more positive are invited to visit the following blogs
www.actspot.wordpress.com – Over 1,37,900 views and 820 followers
www.poweract.blogspot.com – Over 41,900 views and 210 followers
Regards
From India, Mumbai
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