Hello friends,

My life is just like a robot... always doing the same things, always. No change, bored with it. Can't go for vacation as no holidays are coming up, and I can't take myself also. What to do to make life interesting? Morning till evening stuck in work, then home, and then night, and morning, and then back to work.

From United Arab Emirates, Dubai
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we made our life like that..........just try to be happy urself and makes others happy you will have bit change in living.... we all are human being a small smile can make us happy easily :)
From India, Madras
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boss2966
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Dear Flasher,

Please do not work. Whatever you do, do it with passion. Create a sense of belonging in your job, whatever it may be, and take ownership of your work. Then you can achieve perfection in your work. Feel the importance of what you do. You will undoubtedly take pride in knowing that you are as important to the organization where you work as the work itself.

I hope you are working in a position that aligns with your studies. If not, consider seeking a job that matches your qualifications and experience. Build relationships with your colleagues and offer assistance to as many people as possible from your position. This way, you can gain support from your coworkers.

Cheer up and never let your morale falter. All the best.

From India, Kumbakonam
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Dear Flasher,

I want to tell you one thing, change your ROUTINE. "We make our routine not routine make us". When routine is trying to make you, you will be stuck. Give some time for your hobbies and interests. Take a small break for a change. Change your lifestyle. And most importantly, whatever you do, just like it.

Keep Smiling.

Karuna
HR Executive

From India, Pune
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Dear all,

Thank you for your reply. For me, my work doesn't even feel interesting, so making work a passion is far ahead to think of. My colleagues and co-workers are always busy in their own world. They all seem fine with the work, at least that's what I have felt. They come together and make fun of me or say that I am nothing. One of them even told me to leave the job so that they may benefit. I don't know if it was a joke or not, but it hurts.

I have tried to change my robotic life, but it's not working. I always end up going back to normal.

From United Arab Emirates, Dubai
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There is really very well comment posted by respected Seniors Bhaskar Sir, Ms. Bharathi & Ms. Karuna

Dear Flasher, First I beg for forgiveness for my aggressive comment, and hope you sure forget me as a Friend/Bro. J

Point wise

1, My life is just like a robot -: Let me tell you, everyone is working like a Robot, either it Celebrity, Minister, Businessmen, or a Millionaire. Everyone wants some changes in their present life. As Economic quote says Human wants are unlimited (It’s never fulfilled) . Thanks to God you are in office work under Aircondition, kindly look out and see labours who working outside in 40-43 degree heat. What should they expect of???... Every day they also think same, but again in morning they will be seen in field.

2, Always doing the same things always. no change bored with it -: I believe you are in UAE, so I request you to visit some nearby buildings and check the status of unemployment. As in a single room around 6-8 person stay in which approximately 2 people as unemployed and ask them what type of work they wants.. I m sure they will answer just a work anything. So please first thanks what you have and look for better in future. (I m not saying just sit ideal and carry one same, but look for better job).

3, Can’t go for vacation as no holidays coming up and I can’t take myself also -: In every agreement in Gulf there is rules in which every year 30 days pay leave approved. If you can’t go then that is your mistake. You need to be crystal Clear on your offered letter and vacation method.

4, What to do to make life interesting -: This is my favorite question. Dear what is life nothing until we have a Mission or Ambition. Did you have any family responsibility, if not then adopt one, search one person in relatives or cousins and take up the responsibility of his education or take responsibility of any poor family or take up any poor girl marriage responsibility and last not the least keep Pray to God. Which give us more and more strength.
(I m capable to advise this because I applied this method on myself and believe me it’s really make happy, self satisfaction)

5, Morning till evening stuck in work. then home and then night and morning and then back to work -: Enjoyment not come at our door step, we need to bring it, it’s in our hand and mentality, how it needs to be made. Either you believe or not, Myself work continuously for 12 hour for 5 years after my duty hour I used to play soccer and in which make stress buster and feel energetic. So bottom line is indulge yourself in some activities in which you have interest.

Kindly don’t be dishearten or disappointed, life is precious, so live it the way you never had.

Again apologized if any word hurts you.

Thanks

From Kuwait, Hawalli
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Ha ha ha ha... You first need to take your negative thoughts out of your mind and be surrounded by positive thoughts. Then, you will automatically be happy. Try to avoid negative thoughts and instead, add a bit of positivity to your situation. :)


From India, Madras
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boss2966
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Dear Flasher,

You must always stay away from those spreading negative vibrations around you. You must be mentally strong enough so that no one can conquer you and succeed. Whatever positive things others say about you belong to you, and whatever negative things others say about you do not belong to you. Do not accept or allow negative thoughts to enter your mind. Be in your own world filled with positive vibrations.

Remember, if someone criticizes you, it means you are growing and doing well, not that you have done something wrong and are deteriorating in life. Keep in mind that no one can hurt you unless you allow yourself to be hurt.

Thank you.

From India, Kumbakonam
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Dear Sayeed

Good replay, you are great, i agree with you, i think most of the persons working in abroad have the same feelings, every suggestions in your replay will be helpful to all .................



Thanks
Jabeer
your's friend


From Qatar
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Dear Sayeed,

Good reply. You are great. I agree with you. I think most of the persons working abroad have the same feelings. Every suggestion in your reply will be helpful to all.

Thanks,
Jabeer
Your friend

From Qatar
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