Hi Friends,
It's really amazing.... If everyone understands this I think all will have very happy married life... Please take a time to read this!
For guys...Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry withthese facts as well.
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements…
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your name and even your ways…
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while yousleep, she tries hard to fit her in new circumstances, environment and that kitchen
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more…and yet never ever expected to complain; to be, a cook, a mother,
a wife… and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her…
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her..
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this...
Regards
VR Kadam
From India, Mumbai
Hello Mr.Kadam,
Thanks a lot for a wonderful post on women, Guys Pls take this seriously and show all your love to the women in your life, respect other women and guys who are doing this already Hats off to you all.
Thanks & Regards,
Santhoshini
From India, Hyderabad
Thanks a lot for a wonderful post on women, Guys Pls take this seriously and show all your love to the women in your life, respect other women and guys who are doing this already Hats off to you all.
Thanks & Regards,
Santhoshini
From India, Hyderabad
Hi Mr. Kadam, Thanks for this wonderful posting!!! I see only ladies appreciating Mr. Kadam’s mail... where have the men gone.????... :D :D :D :D Cheers Roopa
From India, Bangalore
From India, Bangalore
This is seriously very very very .......I should say ITS ABSOLUTEY VERY TRUE!!!!!!!!
Mr. V.R. Kadam........ guys really don't understand girls well..... you are right and thanx for the posting ..... you deserve 5 points to put this post here!!!!!
For guys, this is a MUST READ PIECE OF INFORMATION.......!!!!!!!!
From India, Bangalore
Mr. V.R. Kadam........ guys really don't understand girls well..... you are right and thanx for the posting ..... you deserve 5 points to put this post here!!!!!
For guys, this is a MUST READ PIECE OF INFORMATION.......!!!!!!!!
From India, Bangalore
Dear Paromita, Mostly Welcome...... I really agree with you. I also changed my view in this matter...... Hi Rinki, Thanks for your wishes Regards VR Kadam
From India, Mumbai
From India, Mumbai
Dear Mr. Kadam
It is indeed a wonderful article, regarding marrying a working girl
But, befoe marrying a working girl, one guy(presume he must be matured) must ready to compromise many things and no ego factor, and ready share in every aspect with his counterpart.(I mean sharing of all house hold works on mutually agreed-- )
If he prepares for the above, I don't think, he will have any problem and both can lead a very happy married life and can be idle couple for ever.
With regards
L.Kumar
From India, Madras
It is indeed a wonderful article, regarding marrying a working girl
But, befoe marrying a working girl, one guy(presume he must be matured) must ready to compromise many things and no ego factor, and ready share in every aspect with his counterpart.(I mean sharing of all house hold works on mutually agreed-- )
If he prepares for the above, I don't think, he will have any problem and both can lead a very happy married life and can be idle couple for ever.
With regards
L.Kumar
From India, Madras
Hi Kadam,
Its worth reading and great.....everyone should realise this and support corporate woman who really needs the recognition for the effort she takes to make her family and work life successfull. ....
Regards,
Sharmila
Hi Friends,
It's really amazing.... If everyone understands this I think all will have very happy married life... Please take a time to read this!
For guys...Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry withthese facts as well.
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements…
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your name and even your ways…
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while yousleep, she tries hard to fit her in new circumstances, environment and that kitchen
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more…and yet never ever expected to complain; to be, a cook, a mother,
a wife… and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her…
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her..
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this...
Regards
VR Kadam[/b][/quote]
From India, Bangalore
Its worth reading and great.....everyone should realise this and support corporate woman who really needs the recognition for the effort she takes to make her family and work life successfull. ....
Regards,
Sharmila
Hi Friends,
It's really amazing.... If everyone understands this I think all will have very happy married life... Please take a time to read this!
For guys...Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry withthese facts as well.
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements…
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who love her, to adopt your home, your family, your name and even your ways…
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while yousleep, she tries hard to fit her in new circumstances, environment and that kitchen
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more…and yet never ever expected to complain; to be, a cook, a mother,
a wife… and is learning just like you are as to what you want from her…
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy, unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some and trust her..
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this...
Regards
VR Kadam[/b][/quote]
From India, Bangalore
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