Dear Frn,
This thread is gonna b a place, whr you are goin to share your ways and means of Transformation. Transforming your weakness (which you had) to Strength.
So, share your weakness, you had and what are the means/ ways you handled to overcome ur weakness / transformed it as ur strength.
I am sure, this vl help all of us and especially for budding professionals...
To start with,
My Weakness : I was an introvert.
Consequence : People tend to dominate me.
Means of transformation : Voice exercise (Shouting), made up my mindset to start the first word in any conversation with confident voice. Movin with stragers, getting myself involved in social events. Initiating new events...
Now, people say I am talkative and an extrovert.....
Frz, share n learn....:icon1:
From India, Mangaluru
18This thread is gonna b a place, whr you are goin to share your ways and means of Transformation. Transforming your weakness (which you had) to Strength.
So, share your weakness, you had and what are the means/ ways you handled to overcome ur weakness / transformed it as ur strength.
I am sure, this vl help all of us and especially for budding professionals...
To start with,
My Weakness : I was an introvert.
Consequence : People tend to dominate me.
Means of transformation : Voice exercise (Shouting), made up my mindset to start the first word in any conversation with confident voice. Movin with stragers, getting myself involved in social events. Initiating new events...
Now, people say I am talkative and an extrovert.....
Frz, share n learn....:icon1:
From India, Mangaluru
Hi Chum.,
Thanks for starting nice thread.
In continuation, My Weakness: inferiority complex.
Consequence: I was not expressing my self properly and it gave a wrong picture about me.
Means of transformation: started mingling with many friends and started going to new places frequently, made new friends and started expressing myself as what I’m. Realized that everybody will overcome this kind of situation at least ones in their life time.
Now, my friends will tell me that, I’m efficient and more interesting,
From India, Bangalore
Thanks for starting nice thread.
In continuation, My Weakness: inferiority complex.
Consequence: I was not expressing my self properly and it gave a wrong picture about me.
Means of transformation: started mingling with many friends and started going to new places frequently, made new friends and started expressing myself as what I’m. Realized that everybody will overcome this kind of situation at least ones in their life time.
Now, my friends will tell me that, I’m efficient and more interesting,
From India, Bangalore
Hi, My weakness is that i am not comfortable of meeting new people? But i don’t know how to overcome it. Plz suggest
From India, Jalandhar
From India, Jalandhar
Dear,
Converting Weakness into Strength is a Longterm process with conscious practice.I believe it is easier to further strengthen your own Strengths.It is easier, motivating and thus quickly done.Strengths become so widespread that one's weakness is overshadowed.
As far Pari's inhibition(I'll not put this as weakness),I feel you start communicating with friend's friend,passenger sitting beside you etc.Let them know that you are noy comfortable meeting and communicating with a stranger,they will co-operate surelY!
All the Best !
=Lahiri,Kolkata.
From India, Calcutta
Converting Weakness into Strength is a Longterm process with conscious practice.I believe it is easier to further strengthen your own Strengths.It is easier, motivating and thus quickly done.Strengths become so widespread that one's weakness is overshadowed.
As far Pari's inhibition(I'll not put this as weakness),I feel you start communicating with friend's friend,passenger sitting beside you etc.Let them know that you are noy comfortable meeting and communicating with a stranger,they will co-operate surelY!
All the Best !
=Lahiri,Kolkata.
From India, Calcutta
Hi Lahari,
Yes, u r rgt. I am not comparing the level (duration) of transformation of Weakness to Strength with Strength to further strengthen, but to share the transformation means, which we carried out to overcome the weakness....
Pari,
Juz answer the following questions...
Why is tat u r not comfortable in meeting new people?
Is ur voice sounds feeble?
Hav any language problem??
Do Introspect......vl aid u to come out for sure....
Frns, share ur points.....
From India, Mangaluru
Yes, u r rgt. I am not comparing the level (duration) of transformation of Weakness to Strength with Strength to further strengthen, but to share the transformation means, which we carried out to overcome the weakness....
Pari,
Juz answer the following questions...
Why is tat u r not comfortable in meeting new people?
Is ur voice sounds feeble?
Hav any language problem??
Do Introspect......vl aid u to come out for sure....
Frns, share ur points.....
From India, Mangaluru
Hi..
Thanks for creating a platform to discuss and share one's weakness and and convert it into strength..
My biggest weakness is I say YES when I have to say NO I am extremely sensitive and gets choked easily. I need to overcome this and need to be more assertive.
I look forward to my friends & seniors in this forum to give their advice & suggestions for transforming my weakness into strength. Please comment more on assertive part.
I do look forward to your suggestions.
Best wishes
Gayathri
From India, Madras
Thanks for creating a platform to discuss and share one's weakness and and convert it into strength..
My biggest weakness is I say YES when I have to say NO I am extremely sensitive and gets choked easily. I need to overcome this and need to be more assertive.
I look forward to my friends & seniors in this forum to give their advice & suggestions for transforming my weakness into strength. Please comment more on assertive part.
I do look forward to your suggestions.
Best wishes
Gayathri
From India, Madras
Hi Gayathri,
Niz, u hav come out wit ur weakness. Let us transform it to strength. Let me break dnw ur problem in to pieces, answer the following questions.
Do you have the weakness "saying yes" only with ur superiors?
Do you feel empathy of others' problems?
Do people use you for their work?
Lemme know, vl disucss further...
From India, Mangaluru
Niz, u hav come out wit ur weakness. Let us transform it to strength. Let me break dnw ur problem in to pieces, answer the following questions.
Do you have the weakness "saying yes" only with ur superiors?
Do you feel empathy of others' problems?
Do people use you for their work?
Lemme know, vl disucss further...
From India, Mangaluru
Hi..
1. I say Yes not only to my superiors but to my peers as well
2. Yes I always have empathy to other's problem
3. Yes people use me for their work and in the end leave appreciation it does not get acknowledged too.....!!!
I am looking forward for your suggestion.
Best wishes
Gayathri
From India, Madras
1. I say Yes not only to my superiors but to my peers as well
2. Yes I always have empathy to other's problem
3. Yes people use me for their work and in the end leave appreciation it does not get acknowledged too.....!!!
I am looking forward for your suggestion.
Best wishes
Gayathri
From India, Madras
Hi Gayathri,
I expected these answers from you. First of all, you have to do Mind exercise, which is not an easy task, but, it is easy, whn u think it as easy. You have to think YOURSELF in first place in any situation. Think abt you, abt your desires and love yourself, don't do the job that stikes ur personality, if u feel u r cheated, never ever do the task again, have self-efficacy. Don't allow others' words to pierce ur mind.
Learn ur Mind, If u learn, u cud easily learn others' mind. Help only the needy, otherswise people see you as nut. So, practice ur mind to think abt yourself, and this is the first step.....lemme know if u hav any queries.....Keep rockin...
From India, Mangaluru
I expected these answers from you. First of all, you have to do Mind exercise, which is not an easy task, but, it is easy, whn u think it as easy. You have to think YOURSELF in first place in any situation. Think abt you, abt your desires and love yourself, don't do the job that stikes ur personality, if u feel u r cheated, never ever do the task again, have self-efficacy. Don't allow others' words to pierce ur mind.
Learn ur Mind, If u learn, u cud easily learn others' mind. Help only the needy, otherswise people see you as nut. So, practice ur mind to think abt yourself, and this is the first step.....lemme know if u hav any queries.....Keep rockin...
From India, Mangaluru
Hi Chum, nice to see that you have started an interesting thread on transformation of weakness to strength. As you have mentioned in the post earlier, we need to help only the needy. I also used to help many , like Gayathri, and went unsung in the end! Others reap the benefit of your contributions/your help without even acknowledging it, leaving you high and dry! Sensitive people can't digest that. In indian situations ( I can't comment about experience in other countries) , it would be a pragmatic approach for sensitive people not to have qualities like sympathy, empathy etc which are exploited by many around them. Choose the fellow citizens carefully before you help!
From India, Madras
From India, Madras
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