Hi all,
I am working in soft. Company from past 3 years .. I joined as the 2.5 years exp resource... Now ma total exp is 5.5 years...
I don't know what happen to me while joining I have given 6 month of fake exp...
Now I am regret for that ... I will be always feel guilty for this .. Can u please suggest what I should I do for this ... I have following question..
Weather I should inform to hr.. But I am need of job vary badly my family is dependent on me.. Please help me on this..
From India, Mumbai
1I am working in soft. Company from past 3 years .. I joined as the 2.5 years exp resource... Now ma total exp is 5.5 years...
I don't know what happen to me while joining I have given 6 month of fake exp...
Now I am regret for that ... I will be always feel guilty for this .. Can u please suggest what I should I do for this ... I have following question..
Weather I should inform to hr.. But I am need of job vary badly my family is dependent on me.. Please help me on this..
From India, Mumbai
It depends on how much you want redemption from the wrong you did. Are you willing to loose your job for the fake experience you showed. You possibly wouldn't have got the job had it not been for the lie.
So decide this on your own - and always remember that things get tough for everyone at some point or the other, the ones who survive, become successful and remain at peace are the ones who choose to build their character. The others just keep juggling the lies they've thrown up in the air through their life.
Regards,
Sid
From India, Gurgaon
So decide this on your own - and always remember that things get tough for everyone at some point or the other, the ones who survive, become successful and remain at peace are the ones who choose to build their character. The others just keep juggling the lies they've thrown up in the air through their life.
Regards,
Sid
From India, Gurgaon
What you are experiencing has been precipitated by an event or the likely occurrence of an event. Else, why would it bother you this late into the piece? What that event is and its significance are best known to you.
However, I totally agree with Sid's comments above. Whilst on the face of it they may sound philosophical and may not seem to directly answer your question, nothing can be further from the truth.
Please read and re-read SId's reply a million times if you have to and then ask yourself whether you really seek redemption (from yourself) or want to 'right' a 'wrong'.
Whichever way you decide, you are right.
But, make sure that your decision this time around is totally in sync with your value system and what your heart is telling you.
You won't go wrong in determining your appropriate choice!
Good Luck and All the Best!
From India, Gurgaon
However, I totally agree with Sid's comments above. Whilst on the face of it they may sound philosophical and may not seem to directly answer your question, nothing can be further from the truth.
Please read and re-read SId's reply a million times if you have to and then ask yourself whether you really seek redemption (from yourself) or want to 'right' a 'wrong'.
Whichever way you decide, you are right.
But, make sure that your decision this time around is totally in sync with your value system and what your heart is telling you.
You won't go wrong in determining your appropriate choice!
Good Luck and All the Best!
From India, Gurgaon
I liked your query; which is different from the usual. It is not a question of career, as you have chosen to state it in the title; but a question of one's personal ethics and one's growth and maturity in one's spiritual journey of life; which guide our thoughts leading to decisions which translates into actions having far reaching consequences - consequences, which are more than what had been anticipated.
I agree with the opinion expressed earlier and how you can help yourself.
Examine the reasons why this thought arose in you and why it is making you feel uncomfortable now, when you have willingly and proactively committed something years back. In my opinion, these are good signs which indicate your emerging spiritual growth. You wish to correct a wrong, redeem yourself from the guilt.
There are several ways to correct a mistake. Certain kinds of mistakes can never be corrected; and some mistakes become life enduring lessons. You shall find and choose your own way to deal with this. Consider this realization and re-awakening as a blessing from the Divine.
Warm regards.
From India, Delhi
I agree with the opinion expressed earlier and how you can help yourself.
Examine the reasons why this thought arose in you and why it is making you feel uncomfortable now, when you have willingly and proactively committed something years back. In my opinion, these are good signs which indicate your emerging spiritual growth. You wish to correct a wrong, redeem yourself from the guilt.
There are several ways to correct a mistake. Certain kinds of mistakes can never be corrected; and some mistakes become life enduring lessons. You shall find and choose your own way to deal with this. Consider this realization and re-awakening as a blessing from the Divine.
Warm regards.
From India, Delhi
Dear Vishnu, Just pray the Almighty especially for the wrong you did; And request to forgive you for the deeds committed.. Come out from the GUILT.. Make a vow not to repeat.. And forget all things….
From India, Delhi
From India, Delhi
Dear Vishu,
Your past decision is clashing with your personal values. Living with values is not that easy. There are temptations around to give short shrift to the values and this is what you did when you faltered at that moment. Your repentance shows your parents have imbibed values on you.
But then why are you digging out your past now? Has your company started verification of any kind?
At this stage, concentrate on your performance. Give your best, learn new things in the area of your activity. Take up training on soft skills on your own and groom yourself to be a better manager.
If you brood over your past decision, it may hit your performance. The second risk is that in a slip of tongue you may end up in revealing this black dot of your career or character.
In Marathi there is a proverb "Zakali Muth Savva Lakhachi". Loose meaning of this proverb is never reveal unnecessarily what is in your closed fist.
Thanks,
Dinesh V Divekar
From India, Bangalore
Your past decision is clashing with your personal values. Living with values is not that easy. There are temptations around to give short shrift to the values and this is what you did when you faltered at that moment. Your repentance shows your parents have imbibed values on you.
But then why are you digging out your past now? Has your company started verification of any kind?
At this stage, concentrate on your performance. Give your best, learn new things in the area of your activity. Take up training on soft skills on your own and groom yourself to be a better manager.
If you brood over your past decision, it may hit your performance. The second risk is that in a slip of tongue you may end up in revealing this black dot of your career or character.
In Marathi there is a proverb "Zakali Muth Savva Lakhachi". Loose meaning of this proverb is never reveal unnecessarily what is in your closed fist.
Thanks,
Dinesh V Divekar
From India, Bangalore
hey ill jus say
DUDE its fyn now as you needed it badly for survival of your family and urs too.. nw to make up for this guilt wht you can do is, GIVE UR 1000% to this company whr u r working, with full loyality, faith and dedicationand come out with best.
and yeah dont do it ever again
good luck :)
thr are more better n worth things u can do to make it up i am sure :)
From India, New Delhi
DUDE its fyn now as you needed it badly for survival of your family and urs too.. nw to make up for this guilt wht you can do is, GIVE UR 1000% to this company whr u r working, with full loyality, faith and dedicationand come out with best.
and yeah dont do it ever again
good luck :)
thr are more better n worth things u can do to make it up i am sure :)
From India, New Delhi
Hi all,
Thanks a lot for ur suggestions ...
One more problem I got to know today my company is merging with another ..
So if they ask my document what should I do..
Or can I tell the hr I lost my original exp certificate so don't consider that 6 months exp ..
might be the company Which I am merging they might have the background verification policy I don't know yet
From India, Mumbai
Thanks a lot for ur suggestions ...
One more problem I got to know today my company is merging with another ..
So if they ask my document what should I do..
Or can I tell the hr I lost my original exp certificate so don't consider that 6 months exp ..
might be the company Which I am merging they might have the background verification policy I don't know yet
From India, Mumbai
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