Sound advices. Its good to pick-up such signals early and thwart any unwanted forced-proximity tactfully. All the best.
From India, Delhi
1426From India, Delhi
good reply by Hussain I appreciate you hussain really if you were not engaged would you have told yes to your beautiful bachelor boss :shock: :shock::shock::shock::shock::shock::shock::shock:
From India, Madras
From India, Madras
Greetings,
I fully support Hussain. Please dont hide behind any excuse. You are there in office for professional reasons and nothing can take your focus away.
Please learn to stay firm irrespective of any non-verbal cues. When you have your vision clear, the message of 'not-interested' will percolate.
If your boss doesn't get that, its his fault. Please remember, its not just your boss but everyone in the office who is watching you. Your behavior will earn respect for you, as you grow firm in your intentions.
Nothing shakes you up ! Stay at that.
Wish you all the best !
From India, Mumbai
I fully support Hussain. Please dont hide behind any excuse. You are there in office for professional reasons and nothing can take your focus away.
Please learn to stay firm irrespective of any non-verbal cues. When you have your vision clear, the message of 'not-interested' will percolate.
If your boss doesn't get that, its his fault. Please remember, its not just your boss but everyone in the office who is watching you. Your behavior will earn respect for you, as you grow firm in your intentions.
Nothing shakes you up ! Stay at that.
Wish you all the best !
From India, Mumbai
thanks hussain for ur advice......... i really wanted one like this only........ i want to keep my personal and professional life seperate...... ya my fiancee knows everything regarding this and is really supportive, but at certain times he get worried about me b'coz of such stupid things going on around.......
From India, Chandigarh
From India, Chandigarh
Hi Sonia,
Even i have faced the same thing, even my MD used to ask me for the same, i had refused him many times but he didn't improve so lately i had to leave the job.And i got married and shifted to Delhi.
Again again after my marriage that MD had open a branch office in Delhi, So my GM approached me to join it i agreed because that MD used to sit in Mumbai branch.
So before joining the company he came to Delhi and asked me to meet to discuss the salary, i went with my husband that time he didn't discuss, next day again he called me and asked me to come alone to discuss about the salary and would not be comfortable in front of my husband.
Due to this reason i had to leave a very nice company and very cooperative staff and colleagues.
So you cant help it you just need to go a step further. If you are really not comfortable search for new opportunities.
From India, New Delhi
Even i have faced the same thing, even my MD used to ask me for the same, i had refused him many times but he didn't improve so lately i had to leave the job.And i got married and shifted to Delhi.
Again again after my marriage that MD had open a branch office in Delhi, So my GM approached me to join it i agreed because that MD used to sit in Mumbai branch.
So before joining the company he came to Delhi and asked me to meet to discuss the salary, i went with my husband that time he didn't discuss, next day again he called me and asked me to come alone to discuss about the salary and would not be comfortable in front of my husband.
Due to this reason i had to leave a very nice company and very cooperative staff and colleagues.
So you cant help it you just need to go a step further. If you are really not comfortable search for new opportunities.
From India, New Delhi
Dear Sonia
i also advice you to follow the advice of Mr. Hussain Zulfikar the Most.
I appreciate the Thinking and decision Level of Hussain Zulfikar
It is enough Mature and Stable decision 4 you , your carrier and your Life.
i also advice you to follow the advice of Mr. Hussain Zulfikar the Most.
I appreciate the Thinking and decision Level of Hussain Zulfikar
It is enough Mature and Stable decision 4 you , your carrier and your Life.
thanks jyoti mam and mahavir sir, your advices are really making me more srtong to face my situation in the way i want them. please remain in contact so that if ever in future i'll need all your people assistance, you all will be there to guide me....... thankyou all for your advices.
From India, Chandigarh
From India, Chandigarh
Hardly any Issue If every thing remain Fine then we will be sure in Touch with CiteHR And Hows Jam mu And Kashmir weather?
well its rainy there for being the time of monsoons.... but i’m working in chandigarh.
From India, Chandigarh
From India, Chandigarh
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