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Discomfort is a small price to pay for growth.�
Many women find it difficult to say No.
So they keep saying Yes.
Some women hurt when they hear praise.
They shake their heads and deny their worth.
Many women resist love.
They are the caregivers, but they are afraid to be taken care of.
Sometimes a woman wants to get intimate, but she is held back by shame.
Fear, shame and doubt eat away at your self-esteem.
Today, decide the course YOU want to take.
Dont always feel compelled to flow with the current.
Say No� firmly and loudly when you need to.
When someone praises you, smile gently yet proudly.
Allow yourself to be loved and cared for.
Take control of your intimate moments by deciding and expressing
what YOU want.
Allow discomfort to wash over you and fade away.
Do the things that you REALLY want and throw away the mask
that has been hiding you. You can do it!
~JANE POWELL~
Discomfort is a small price to pay for growth.�
Many women find it difficult to say No.
So they keep saying Yes.
Some women hurt when they hear praise.
They shake their heads and deny their worth.
Many women resist love.
They are the caregivers, but they are afraid to be taken care of.
Sometimes a woman wants to get intimate, but she is held back by shame.
Fear, shame and doubt eat away at your self-esteem.
Today, decide the course YOU want to take.
Dont always feel compelled to flow with the current.
Say No� firmly and loudly when you need to.
When someone praises you, smile gently yet proudly.
Allow yourself to be loved and cared for.
Take control of your intimate moments by deciding and expressing
what YOU want.
Allow discomfort to wash over you and fade away.
Do the things that you REALLY want and throw away the mask
that has been hiding you. You can do it!
~JANE POWELL~
From India, Coimbatore
Motivating message for women......Really gives the courage to be what we are and not what others wants us to be........
From India, Mumbai
From India, Mumbai
Hi Amirtha, As i am new in cite HR, this is your 2nd post i read. And it touched my heart.
From India, Bangalore
From India, Bangalore
dear amirtha,
this really a good one.and i feel most of the times we, women shy away from so many credits we are due to recieve assuming that it is simply a job we r supposed to do. and also ignore a simple fact that, like every one else we also need love, aprreciation and a little pampering too.........:)
as a trainer when i do some spl training programs for women ,i understand the kind of stress ( not simply physical strain) the modern women today endures. may be times we ourselves r cause to it for we try to be supermoms, superwoman, super employee and so on....
so all u girls....some times just kick off ur shoes and relax and enjoy life (without any guilt .......ofcourse)
thanks once again,
prof. pramadha srinivas.
From India, Hyderabad
this really a good one.and i feel most of the times we, women shy away from so many credits we are due to recieve assuming that it is simply a job we r supposed to do. and also ignore a simple fact that, like every one else we also need love, aprreciation and a little pampering too.........:)
as a trainer when i do some spl training programs for women ,i understand the kind of stress ( not simply physical strain) the modern women today endures. may be times we ourselves r cause to it for we try to be supermoms, superwoman, super employee and so on....
so all u girls....some times just kick off ur shoes and relax and enjoy life (without any guilt .......ofcourse)
thanks once again,
prof. pramadha srinivas.
From India, Hyderabad
Thank you Pramadha srinivas, for your valuable inputs. yes we got only one life so enjoy to the fullest..Now a days girls were shining in many fields. So girls be proud to be an women.
From India, Coimbatore
From India, Coimbatore
Very True Friends,
Unlike Men, We being women at work place will be mislead or will be taken advantages of our actions sometimes.
So please do always say 'NO' when you dont want to do something. Donot hesitate. Cause hesitation in a women's life/career costs a lot.
Regards
Srivani
From India, Hyderabad
Unlike Men, We being women at work place will be mislead or will be taken advantages of our actions sometimes.
So please do always say 'NO' when you dont want to do something. Donot hesitate. Cause hesitation in a women's life/career costs a lot.
Regards
Srivani
From India, Hyderabad
Yes of course srivani i completely agree with you.. C’Mon girls it is your world so you also have all rights :) Thank you for your feedback srivani :)
From India, Coimbatore
From India, Coimbatore
Thanks Amritha for this motivational post.
I agree with the comments of Prof Srinivas and would like to add that in the list of the mundane things that seek the attention of a woman, she usually places herself last on the list. Due to time constraints and other pressing demands of the day she barely manages to accomplish half on the list....and so the turn for "self" never really comes. Many a women, especially in the East, have spent decades, or may be, a life time in ignoring their own needs, wishes and desires. Slotting time for herself without the feeling of being selfish or guilty, is equally the prime right of a woman as any other member in the house.
So, women it is okay to pamper your whims and fancies once in a while, within acceptable norms, and treat yourself to something just because no one else but you wanted it for yourself!!
Bevery D'Souza
From Pakistan, Karachi
I agree with the comments of Prof Srinivas and would like to add that in the list of the mundane things that seek the attention of a woman, she usually places herself last on the list. Due to time constraints and other pressing demands of the day she barely manages to accomplish half on the list....and so the turn for "self" never really comes. Many a women, especially in the East, have spent decades, or may be, a life time in ignoring their own needs, wishes and desires. Slotting time for herself without the feeling of being selfish or guilty, is equally the prime right of a woman as any other member in the house.
So, women it is okay to pamper your whims and fancies once in a while, within acceptable norms, and treat yourself to something just because no one else but you wanted it for yourself!!
Bevery D'Souza
From Pakistan, Karachi
Yes of course D'Souza Women's sometimes saying yes to all situation..I will not completely agree that better if you don't like be straight forward by saying NO bravely. Thank you D' souza
and also my sincere thanks to Mini and srivani.............................:)
From India, Coimbatore
and also my sincere thanks to Mini and srivani.............................:)
From India, Coimbatore
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