Dear HR Gurus,
We have one male HR executive in our office who always uses abusive language. He even uses the same abusive language in front of the girls.
Gurus, I need your help in this regard. Please provide me with a solution for this problem. I don't wish to lodge a complaint against him.
Regards,
Nandita
From India, Delhi
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1We have one male HR executive in our office who always uses abusive language. He even uses the same abusive language in front of the girls.
Gurus, I need your help in this regard. Please provide me with a solution for this problem. I don't wish to lodge a complaint against him.
Regards,
Nandita
From India, Delhi
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Hi!
I suggest you talk about this with your department head or director. People with this mentality are not to be permitted to work in the office. Ask your team members to tell him not to use that kind of filthy language. Avoid speaking with those kinds of people; then, he will realize why people are not speaking with him.
Have a nice day.
Ramu
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I suggest you talk about this with your department head or director. People with this mentality are not to be permitted to work in the office. Ask your team members to tell him not to use that kind of filthy language. Avoid speaking with those kinds of people; then, he will realize why people are not speaking with him.
Have a nice day.
Ramu
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I too have the same problem, but the abuse words are used by the management representative.... now pls tell us how to solve this issue
From India, Madras
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From India, Madras
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The input provided contains violent and threatening language, which is inappropriate and unacceptable. It is crucial to communicate respectfully and professionally at all times, even when expressing dissatisfaction or disagreement. If you are facing challenges or issues at work, it is advisable to address them through proper channels and seek assistance from HR or management in a constructive manner.
Please refrain from using threatening language or suggesting harm towards others. If you are experiencing difficulties in the workplace, consider discussing your concerns with HR or seeking external support to address the issues effectively. Violence and threats have no place in professional communication and can have serious consequences.
If you need guidance on how to address workplace issues or communicate effectively with HR and management, feel free to ask for assistance. It is essential to approach conflicts and challenges in a professional and respectful manner to find positive and constructive solutions.
From India, Pune
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Please refrain from using threatening language or suggesting harm towards others. If you are experiencing difficulties in the workplace, consider discussing your concerns with HR or seeking external support to address the issues effectively. Violence and threats have no place in professional communication and can have serious consequences.
If you need guidance on how to address workplace issues or communicate effectively with HR and management, feel free to ask for assistance. It is essential to approach conflicts and challenges in a professional and respectful manner to find positive and constructive solutions.
From India, Pune
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Nandita,
It's very unreal to hear that an HR person is using such abusive language in the office, whereas he should be the one who needs to set a healthy working culture in and around the office. Anyways, coming to your query, here are some solutions to solve this problem.
1) Write an email requesting to introduce a policy regarding the use of abusive language/teasing and other acts that can hamper the work culture - send it to HR with a CC to a higher authority.
2) In an informal chat session, you can talk on this topic.
3) Start sending some good HR practice articles (can use citehr) to him. The idea behind this is self-realization. I'm sure even he wants to grow in his career and will realize it after going through some good HR practice articles.
Hope your problem will be solved soon. Take initiative and help yourself as well as others (including Mr. HR).
Regards,
Varun Yadav
Sr HR
From India
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It's very unreal to hear that an HR person is using such abusive language in the office, whereas he should be the one who needs to set a healthy working culture in and around the office. Anyways, coming to your query, here are some solutions to solve this problem.
1) Write an email requesting to introduce a policy regarding the use of abusive language/teasing and other acts that can hamper the work culture - send it to HR with a CC to a higher authority.
2) In an informal chat session, you can talk on this topic.
3) Start sending some good HR practice articles (can use citehr) to him. The idea behind this is self-realization. I'm sure even he wants to grow in his career and will realize it after going through some good HR practice articles.
Hope your problem will be solved soon. Take initiative and help yourself as well as others (including Mr. HR).
Regards,
Varun Yadav
Sr HR
From India
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I am also facing the same problem as Nandita but i want know what are the rules made against foul language! there might be some act or some ammendment made against this. please help me out in this.
From India, Hyderabad
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From India, Hyderabad
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Dear all,
I am an HR Manager in a company recently appointed, and I have observed that there are people who have been working for a long time. One of them is using foul language with his subordinates. How should I address this issue?
Thank you.
From India, Bangalore
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I am an HR Manager in a company recently appointed, and I have observed that there are people who have been working for a long time. One of them is using foul language with his subordinates. How should I address this issue?
Thank you.
From India, Bangalore
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Dear HR Gurus,
We have one male HR executive in our office who always uses abusive language everywhere, even in front of female colleagues.
Gurus, I need your help in this regard. Please provide me with a solution for this problem. I don't wish to log a complaint against him.
Regards,
Nandita
Dear Nandita,
Yes, I can understand this situation. Some people are very illiterate and are not aware of office etiquette. You must report this behavior to your HOD (Head of Department) or Higher Management to stop this kind of behavior. I want to tell you that you should take strong action against him because you are right. I am saying this because I have also faced this drastic situation in my workplace.
Best regards,
Meenu
From India, New Delhi
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We have one male HR executive in our office who always uses abusive language everywhere, even in front of female colleagues.
Gurus, I need your help in this regard. Please provide me with a solution for this problem. I don't wish to log a complaint against him.
Regards,
Nandita
Dear Nandita,
Yes, I can understand this situation. Some people are very illiterate and are not aware of office etiquette. You must report this behavior to your HOD (Head of Department) or Higher Management to stop this kind of behavior. I want to tell you that you should take strong action against him because you are right. I am saying this because I have also faced this drastic situation in my workplace.
Best regards,
Meenu
From India, New Delhi
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In my opinion, it is best to convey a person's message about him using abusive language, either directly or through a co-worker. People in a professional environment understand this quickly. If nothing seems to be aligned, then it can be reported to the proper channel.
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The most effective way to deal with is to usually discuss it with a level of management senior to the person using abusive language and let them communicate the message. However, if the management layer above that is not responsive, or if they are also participating in similar behaviors, then it could lead to a difficult situation. Even more difficult would be if the senior-level management does not have the maturity to communicate the feedback in a manner that exposes the complainant. This could result in a backlash.
Complaining to the police can alleviate the situation. But let's face it, we live in a world that does not accept whistleblowers. Our society is such that the one who takes action then needs to brave the world and their ostracization. This is the sad truth.
On the other hand, one could take the high road (call it the spiritual path) and learn to ignore these words. The words themselves are neither good nor bad; it is how we feel about them that makes them good or bad. Difficult as it may sound, one could definitely learn to NOT feel bad at the use of these words and treat it as the unfortunate lack of articulation and managerial capabilities on the part of the person who has to use these words.
Best regards,
- Anil
From India, Pune
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Complaining to the police can alleviate the situation. But let's face it, we live in a world that does not accept whistleblowers. Our society is such that the one who takes action then needs to brave the world and their ostracization. This is the sad truth.
On the other hand, one could take the high road (call it the spiritual path) and learn to ignore these words. The words themselves are neither good nor bad; it is how we feel about them that makes them good or bad. Difficult as it may sound, one could definitely learn to NOT feel bad at the use of these words and treat it as the unfortunate lack of articulation and managerial capabilities on the part of the person who has to use these words.
Best regards,
- Anil
From India, Pune
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