I am now 20+ years old. I feel that whatever all people are doing in society and the world, I am not like them. They are more intelligent and can achieve everything quickly, but I cannot understand everything easily. I do not know how to react to all people outside of my home. I never want to go outside of my home. I feel like all people are aliens. What can I do?
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i am doing b.tech 2 nd year.and i have already dropped 1 year after 1 st sem for this hesitation and could not join with all friends.they are more smart than me.tell me.....
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Dear friend,
If you are worried about what people will think of you and have hesitation in interacting with them, it could be a personality disorder. However, hold on, gentleman. This disorder is curable, and that too without taking anyone's help.
Follow the guidelines below:
a) Don't think about the outside world. Live life for yourself.
b) Whatever work you do, whether in personal life or in college, devote your body and soul. Ask yourself if you could have done it better. If yes, then next time you take up the activity, devote yourself with utmost energy.
c) While studying, also devote yourself to the studies. Aim to be the best in the world and see the change in yourself. If you study with utmost concentration, you will retain the knowledge you had grasped for long, and you will have to study less.
d) Please remember success does not come with intelligence alone. To be successful demands concentration in work and dedication. If these two qualities are missing, then success could prove elusive even for an intelligent person.
e) Start mixing with people. Don't bother about what others will talk about you. However, observe others, how they behave, and how they carry themselves. Emulate the good habits or practices.
f) During your summer or other vacations, participate in sports activities.
g) Read lectures on personality or positive thinking by Brian Tracy. Lots of videos are available on YouTube.
h) Read the stories of successful individuals. Read the autobiographies of famous personalities.
Please remember that the world around you is what you make of it. The key to creating a beautiful world is in your hands. Start working right from today and see the change!
All the best!
Dinesh Divekar
From India, Bangalore
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8035If you are worried about what people will think of you and have hesitation in interacting with them, it could be a personality disorder. However, hold on, gentleman. This disorder is curable, and that too without taking anyone's help.
Follow the guidelines below:
a) Don't think about the outside world. Live life for yourself.
b) Whatever work you do, whether in personal life or in college, devote your body and soul. Ask yourself if you could have done it better. If yes, then next time you take up the activity, devote yourself with utmost energy.
c) While studying, also devote yourself to the studies. Aim to be the best in the world and see the change in yourself. If you study with utmost concentration, you will retain the knowledge you had grasped for long, and you will have to study less.
d) Please remember success does not come with intelligence alone. To be successful demands concentration in work and dedication. If these two qualities are missing, then success could prove elusive even for an intelligent person.
e) Start mixing with people. Don't bother about what others will talk about you. However, observe others, how they behave, and how they carry themselves. Emulate the good habits or practices.
f) During your summer or other vacations, participate in sports activities.
g) Read lectures on personality or positive thinking by Brian Tracy. Lots of videos are available on YouTube.
h) Read the stories of successful individuals. Read the autobiographies of famous personalities.
Please remember that the world around you is what you make of it. The key to creating a beautiful world is in your hands. Start working right from today and see the change!
All the best!
Dinesh Divekar
From India, Bangalore
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