A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the everything for them. When the boy was
around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for work so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in
the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter. The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle and
fascinated by its color, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the
mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father
came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words..
QUESTIONS:
1. What were the four words?
2. What is the implication of this story?
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ANSWER:
The husband just said "I Love You Darling" The husband's totally unexpected
reaction is proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought
back to life. There is no point in finding
fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the
bottle away, this would not happen.
No one to be blamed. She had lost her only child. What she needed at that
moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave
her. If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there
would be much fewer problems in the world. Take off all your envies,
jealousies, unforgiving attitude, selfishness, and fears. And you will find
things are actually not as difficult as you think.
"A successful relationship requires falling in love many times with the
same person . . . "
From India, Chandigarh
2around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for work so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in
the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter. The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle and
fascinated by its color, drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the
mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father
came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just four words..
QUESTIONS:
1. What were the four words?
2. What is the implication of this story?
Scroll down to read..
ANSWER:
The husband just said "I Love You Darling" The husband's totally unexpected
reaction is proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought
back to life. There is no point in finding
fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the
bottle away, this would not happen.
No one to be blamed. She had lost her only child. What she needed at that
moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave
her. If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there
would be much fewer problems in the world. Take off all your envies,
jealousies, unforgiving attitude, selfishness, and fears. And you will find
things are actually not as difficult as you think.
"A successful relationship requires falling in love many times with the
same person . . . "
From India, Chandigarh
Beautiful relationship. If every relation moves in such a mature manner thn,than how beautiful every relation can be. Think,its really very beautiful imagination. Thanks Akangi
From India, Calcutta
From India, Calcutta
Very Good. Actually I was thinking what I would have been done faced with the similar situation. Good moral and well said. Keep posting
From India, Kochi
From India, Kochi
Excellent Moral....
Everything remains in few seconds....
doesn't matter how busy you are, when u find something is wrong just take few seconds to rectify it. That few seconds can make sooo many changes...
keep posting....
regards,
Maria Merlin
From India, Madras
Everything remains in few seconds....
doesn't matter how busy you are, when u find something is wrong just take few seconds to rectify it. That few seconds can make sooo many changes...
keep posting....
regards,
Maria Merlin
From India, Madras
Beautiful message, if everyone behaves like this couple, there will not be any quarrel in anybody’s life. Really goodone
Hi The story and msg r awesome. Let his msg pass on to as many as possible. We need such msgs coz everyone want to push the frustration on the opposite person. regards vani
From India, Hyderabad
From India, Hyderabad
Nice :P very good matter and understanding of wife and husband whichever is gone u can’t brought back but forgive is the way of sucess and good relation ship. arun
From India, Delhi
From India, Delhi
Excellent posting. Gives rise to a lot of thought and consideration of relationships. Jeroo
From India, Mumbai
From India, Mumbai
Yes this kind of attitude can really change lifes this is very good, to say the truth this story is for many married people....
This will surely change the way they used to live and try to see life with a much better meaning
Yes a successful life indeed needs to fall in love many more times with the same person....
Lov
Liz
From Australia, Adelaide
This will surely change the way they used to live and try to see life with a much better meaning
Yes a successful life indeed needs to fall in love many more times with the same person....
Lov
Liz
From Australia, Adelaide
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