Dear Nithya,
I read situtation given by you. Its same like my real life story. Me n hubby r living seperate due to my job n i m selltled quite well with job. But, I m required to shift to hubbys city to settle with him after compromising with gud company, position, salary, job profile n everything. Under such situtations also v gals do compromise for husbands.
But, had boys would have been in our place and we in thiers, would they compromise with their career and job for us??? No. na?? its as simple as that.
Moreover, when girl decides to marry she emotionally and practically leaves her perents and home and start thinking abt inlaws. Meaning thereby, if gals r given choice between hubby and her parents, she selects habby without giving second thot to it. Isnt it???
Wt others say on this??
Nitu
From India, Vadodara
I read situtation given by you. Its same like my real life story. Me n hubby r living seperate due to my job n i m selltled quite well with job. But, I m required to shift to hubbys city to settle with him after compromising with gud company, position, salary, job profile n everything. Under such situtations also v gals do compromise for husbands.
But, had boys would have been in our place and we in thiers, would they compromise with their career and job for us??? No. na?? its as simple as that.
Moreover, when girl decides to marry she emotionally and practically leaves her perents and home and start thinking abt inlaws. Meaning thereby, if gals r given choice between hubby and her parents, she selects habby without giving second thot to it. Isnt it???
Wt others say on this??
Nitu
From India, Vadodara
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