Why does Love hurt so much?



Love hurts so much because we allow it to hurt. It's human nature. Getting hurt is a part of life. Its how you handle the hurt or how you allow it to affect you. When two people are in a relationship there are good times and bad times being in a relationship is a great feeling.

Knowing that you have a person that loves you is such a wonderful thing. But sometimes people put to much faith in other people and then when that person doesn't live up to the other persons expectations then there are a huge amount of disappointment and hurt. Why do we allow other people to control our emotions?

A broken heart really is one of the worst feelings in the world. When you find out somebody that you love, somebody that you gave such a huge part of yourself to betrayed you, is indescribable. You feel this pain in the middle of your chest and it literally just aches. It hurts oh so bad! And then the tears and crying set in. opinion you do need to allow yourself to grieve. You need to accept everything that has happened and then you just need to look inside yourself to find the courage and strength needed to move on. This is so much easier said than done. It is a part of life. One thing we have to learn is when one door closes three more usually open.



Everything happens for a reason. You must be strong and simply commit to yourself.

[/CENTER][/CENTER]





<image no longer exists>











A few of the following quotes bring out the heartaches caused by love in the most striking manner.







If you have it [love], you don't need to have anything else, and if you don't have it, it doesn't matter much what else you have.

All things we go threw; the happiness, sadness, pain and heartbreak make us who we are!

"I don't miss him; I miss who I thought he was."

"Ever has it been that love knows not its own depth until the hour of separation."

"It is better to have loved and lost than never to have lost at all.

"What man's mind can create, man's character can control."

One does not love a place the less for having suffered in it unless it has all been suffering, nothing but suffering.

If love is so important to have that one doesn't want to lose it, why is it when we find true love we often don't notice it?

When one is in love, one always begins by deceiving oneself, and one always ends by deceiving others. That is what the world calls a romance.

It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.

Love is like the truth, sometimes it prevails, sometimes it hurts.

Where there is love, there is pain.

There is only one kind of love, but there are a thousand imitations.





<image no longer exists>


From India, Madras
My love is like an ocean
It goes down so deep
My love is like a rose
Whose beauty you want to keep.
My love is like a river
That will never end
My love is like a dove
With a beautiful message to send.
My love is like a song
That goes on and on forever
My love is like a prisoner
It's to you that I surrender.

From India, Hyderabad
Aks-e-Khushbu hu bikharne se na roke koi, aur agar bikhar jau to mujhko na samete koi, kaanp oothti hu mai ye soch k tanhai me, ki mere chehre pe tera naam na padh le koi. :):icon1::)
From India, Hyderabad
i m not angry dear.. i m not getting m mr. rite..???? one is dre but i m bit confused abut him????
From India, Amritsar




Give all to love;

Obey thy heart;

Friends, kindred, days,

Estate, good-fame,

Plans, credit, and the Muse,-

Nothing refuse.

'Tis a brave master;

Let it have scope:

Follow it utterly,

Hope beyond hope:

High and more high

It dives into noon,

With wing unspent,

Untold intent;

But it is a god,

Knows its own path,

And the outlets of the sky.

It was not for the mean;

It requireth courage stout,

Souls above doubt,

Valor unbending;

It will reward,-

They shall return

More than they were,

And ever ascending.

Leave all for love;

Yet, hear me, yet,

One word more thy heart behoved,

One pulse more of firm endeavor,-

Keep thee today,

To-morrow, forever,

Free as an Arab

Of thy beloved.

Cling with life to the maid;

But when the surprise,

First vague shadow of surmise

Flits across her bosom young

Of a joy apart from thee,

Free be she, fancy-free;

Nor thou detain her vesture's hem,

Nor the palest rose she flung

From her summer diadem.

Though thou loved her as thyself,

As a self of purer clay,

Tho' her parting dims the day,

Stealing grace from all alive,

Heartily know,

When half-gods go,

The gods arrive.

From India, Amritsar
Tell Me You Love Me
Where do I start?
How do I begin?
To tell you how much
I never want this to end
Why you burn in my mind
And fill up my soul
How you live in my heart
And keep living from taking its toll
I need you more today
Than I ever have before
Every time I touch you
Ilove you all the more
No one can ever take your place
Or do the things you do
Nothing pleases me more
Than loving the essence of you
Tell me you love me
By looking into my eyes
Say that you want me
By whispering your sighs
Ask me to love you
By the gentleness of your kiss
Tell me you love me
Your love I truly miss.

From India, Amritsar
This is dedicated to My Hubby

I love the way you look at me,
Your eyes so bright and blue.

I love the way you kiss me,
Your lips so soft and smooth.

I love the way you make me so happy,
And the ways you show you care.

I love the way you say, "I Love You,"

And the way you're always there.
I love the way you touch me,

Always sending chills down my spine.
I love that you are with me,
And glad that you are mine.

From India, Madras
Love is the greatest feeling,
Love is like a play,
Love is what I feel for you,
Each and every day,
Love is like a smile,
Love is like a song,
Love is a great emotion,
That keeps us going strong,
I love you with my heart,
My body and my soul,
I love the way I keep loving,
Like a love I can't control,
So remember when your eyes meet mine,
I love you with all my heart,
And I have poured my entire soul into you,
Right from the very start.

From India, Amritsar

You were my eyes when I couldn't see
You were my air when I couldn't breathe
I think you always knew what you meant to me

And you were my strength when I was down
And you made me humble when I wouldn't bow
I held on to your promise that you'd be around

Where were you when I was alright
Tell me, did you know I was alright
You left me thinking I'd be alright
Won't you come back to me

It's crazy but I'm falling apart
It's crazy how you're leaving me scarred
It's crazy girl wherever you are
You stole my heart

It's crazy but I'm going insane
Feeling lost, confused and ashamed
It's crazy hope you're feeling my pain
You stole my heart
Stolen

Just like a moment
Stolen
You never owned it
Stolen
You took away my heart

I was mainly lost in my own world
Neglecting your needs and your wants girl
If only we could try again once more

Now it's the same sad story that we all know
How lovers make mistakes watch it all blow
I don't wanna be the one to let it all go, no

Where were you when I was alright
Tell me, did you know I was alright
You left me thinking I'd be alright
Won't you come back to me

It's crazy but I'm falling apart
It's crazy how you're leaving me scarred
It's crazy girl wherever you are
You stole my heart

It's crazy but I'm going insane
Feeling lost, confused and ashamed
It's crazy hope you're feeling my pain
You stole my heart

Stolen
Just like a moment
Stolen
You never owned it
Stolen
You took away my heart

And no man can live without blood running through his veins
And it's hard to remember the summer now here is rain
I don't know how much longer that I can wait
It's a thin line between love and hate

It's crazy but I'm falling apart (girl it's crazy)
It's crazy how you're leaving me scarred (leaving me scarred)
It's crazy girl wherever you are (tell me where are you, where are you)
You stole my heart

Its crazy but I'm going insane (going insane)
Feeling lost, confused and ashamed
It's crazy hope you're feeling my pain (are you feeling my, feeling my pain)
You stole my heart

Stolen
Just like a moment
Stolen
You never owned it
Stolen
Girl you took away my heart

From India, Calicut
Dard...................
From India, Madras
Attached Files (Download Requires Membership)
File Type: jpg dil_dard.jpg (46.7 KB, 96 views)

Community Support and Knowledge-base on business, career and organisational prospects and issues - Register and Log In to CiteHR and post your query, download formats and be part of a fostered community of professionals.






Contact Us Privacy Policy Disclaimer Terms Of Service

All rights reserved @ 2024 CiteHR ®

All Copyright And Trademarks in Posts Held By Respective Owners.