This article is really informative. You have done a very good job by writing this article. It is only because of an extramarital affair that we are now seeing the Arushi Murder Case. It is an eye-opener for parents that their affairs can end in this way as well.
Hats off, Pradeepa, for this article. Each and every point is true. I am a victim of this. I got married 6 years ago to a guy who convinced me that he would love me to death.
I am working in a top MNC. After 1 year of marriage, he started the same thing you discussed above, point to point, the same way. I was shocked when I read this article, realizing there are so many victims like me.
It took 3 years for me to realize what had happened to me, by which time I had a 3-month-old baby in my hands.
He flirted without any pity, respect, or love for me and my baby. Since he is on the interview panel, he would recruit the girl he likes. It is devastating to think how he could sleep with so many of them and spoil my life.
It has been 3 years since I got separated. I walked out because I was becoming vulnerable, crying for his love and honesty. I chose to lead a single life with my son with dignity rather than living with him in humility.
I left the decision to God. I attempted suicide but failed. Otherwise, I would also have been in the news as a victim of this trend of infidelity among software industry couples.
I have one question for those girls. Why do you play with others' marriages? It is a divine affair and a once-in-a-lifetime event. People like me may be blessed with the courage to stand up and live a single, dignified life. But do you know what we miss every second? The other half of us and the biological parent of our children.
From India, Mumbai
I am working in a top MNC. After 1 year of marriage, he started the same thing you discussed above, point to point, the same way. I was shocked when I read this article, realizing there are so many victims like me.
It took 3 years for me to realize what had happened to me, by which time I had a 3-month-old baby in my hands.
He flirted without any pity, respect, or love for me and my baby. Since he is on the interview panel, he would recruit the girl he likes. It is devastating to think how he could sleep with so many of them and spoil my life.
It has been 3 years since I got separated. I walked out because I was becoming vulnerable, crying for his love and honesty. I chose to lead a single life with my son with dignity rather than living with him in humility.
I left the decision to God. I attempted suicide but failed. Otherwise, I would also have been in the news as a victim of this trend of infidelity among software industry couples.
I have one question for those girls. Why do you play with others' marriages? It is a divine affair and a once-in-a-lifetime event. People like me may be blessed with the courage to stand up and live a single, dignified life. But do you know what we miss every second? The other half of us and the biological parent of our children.
From India, Mumbai
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