Dear All,
This is a beautiful article:
The woman in your life...very well expressed...
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry with these facts
as well.
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as
human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that
gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who
love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family
,name
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you
sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment
and that kitchen
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,
a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that
you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than
you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at
her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing
to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy,
unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply
because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like
yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows
in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most
importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this......
Please appreciate "HER"
I hope you will do....
Regards,
Gururaj.P.
Software Consultant
From India
1This is a beautiful article:
The woman in your life...very well expressed...
Tomorrow you may get a working woman, but you should marry with these facts
as well.
Here is a girl, who is as much educated as you are;
Who is earning almost as much as you do;
One, who has dreams and aspirations just as you have because she is as
human as you are;
One, who has never entered the kitchen in her life just like you or your
Sister haven't, as she was busy in studies and competing in a system that
gives no special concession to girls for their culinary achievements
One, who has lived and loved her parents & brothers & sisters, almost as
much as you do for 20-25 years of her life;
One, who has bravely agreed to leave behind all that, her home, people who
love her, to adopt your home, your family, your ways and even your family
,name
One, who is somehow expected to be a master-chef from day #1, while you
sleep oblivious to her predicament in her new circumstances, environment
and that kitchen
One, who is expected to make the tea, first thing in the morning and cook
food at the end of the day, even if she is as tired as you are, maybe more,
and yet never ever expected to complain; to be a servant, a cook, a mother,
a wife, even if she doesn't want to; and is learning just like you are as
to what you want from her; and is clumsy and sloppy at times and knows that
you won't like it if she is too demanding, or if she learns faster than
you;
One, who has her own set of friends, and that includes boys and even men at
her workplace too, those, who she knows from school days and yet is willing
to put all that on the back-burners to avoid your irrational jealousy,
unnecessary competition and your inherent insecurities;
Yes, she can drink and dance just as well as you can, but won't, simply
because you won't like it, even though you say otherwise
One, who can be late from work once in a while when deadlines, just like
yours, are to be met;
One, who is doing her level best and wants to make this most important
relationship in her entire life a grand success, if you just help her some
and trust her;
One, who just wants one thing from you, as you are the only one she knows
in your entire house - your unstinted support, your sensitivities and most
importantly - your understanding, or love, if you may call it.
But not many guys understand this......
Please appreciate "HER"
I hope you will do....
Regards,
Gururaj.P.
Software Consultant
From India
Gud Posting... Thanx for understanding and made others to realise the practical difficulty of women at office and home... regards, Maria Merlin
From India, Madras
From India, Madras
Very gud! I think, we should realise these facts.... given the same value/ regard to woman & definitely must be implemented. regds- ranjan
From India, Gurgaon
From India, Gurgaon
Dear All,
I respect both Women and Man. As my mother is a woman and my father is a man. But now a days the role of the women has been changing in every sector as a corporate women. But i dont know why peopls (mostly women) always talk about women's contribution in family and outside family. As i like my father as much as i like my mother, i dont think all the Scerrifices are done by only women. Man are also scerrifices for their families.
Most of the time women uses the term servent as they prepare food and always try to keep their home clean and beatiful. Is it a bad things women are doing. I am also a man , but as i cook for my father and mother most of the time , i dont think i am a servent who works for money to cook foods for family.
As a man i also have to work as servent(but i dont think) in office to earn money for my family. If women called themselves servent for their work in kitchen, than all the human should call themselves servent as they are working in corporate , where they have to follow the orders of the bossess it does'nt matter they fell good or bad.
But also want to add that to create a happy family , one should have the power of sacrifice and positive thinking about anything.
Please dont call the kitchen work as servent , because i fell my mother is not a servent , she has lots of love for us as a cairing mother for ever.
I respect both Women and Man. As my mother is a woman and my father is a man. But now a days the role of the women has been changing in every sector as a corporate women. But i dont know why peopls (mostly women) always talk about women's contribution in family and outside family. As i like my father as much as i like my mother, i dont think all the Scerrifices are done by only women. Man are also scerrifices for their families.
Most of the time women uses the term servent as they prepare food and always try to keep their home clean and beatiful. Is it a bad things women are doing. I am also a man , but as i cook for my father and mother most of the time , i dont think i am a servent who works for money to cook foods for family.
As a man i also have to work as servent(but i dont think) in office to earn money for my family. If women called themselves servent for their work in kitchen, than all the human should call themselves servent as they are working in corporate , where they have to follow the orders of the bossess it does'nt matter they fell good or bad.
But also want to add that to create a happy family , one should have the power of sacrifice and positive thinking about anything.
Please dont call the kitchen work as servent , because i fell my mother is not a servent , she has lots of love for us as a cairing mother for ever.
Dear Sandeep,
Whatever you have said is true to some extent but then every coin has two sides......there may be people who acts foolishly in the manner as you said but you cannot brand everybody in the same category. There are people who toils from morning to evening without complaining and it is applicable to both men and women. Whatever one does should be done with full devotion.
A word of appreciation really matters and that applies to both men and women. Ma and Pa are both equally important and we cannot distinguish between the two as in the case of our two eyes
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: Sindhu
From India, Delhi
Whatever you have said is true to some extent but then every coin has two sides......there may be people who acts foolishly in the manner as you said but you cannot brand everybody in the same category. There are people who toils from morning to evening without complaining and it is applicable to both men and women. Whatever one does should be done with full devotion.
A word of appreciation really matters and that applies to both men and women. Ma and Pa are both equally important and we cannot distinguish between the two as in the case of our two eyes
:lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: Sindhu
From India, Delhi
good :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
From India, Mumbai
From India, Mumbai
Dear Sandeep/Sindhu,
I didnt posted these article to differentiate between men and women for me both are equal we should understand and accept the reality that both are human beings just see good things in the article.
One day i will post about men also...... :D
:D :D :D :D
Regards,
Gururaj
From India
I didnt posted these article to differentiate between men and women for me both are equal we should understand and accept the reality that both are human beings just see good things in the article.
One day i will post about men also...... :D
:D :D :D :D
Regards,
Gururaj
From India
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