Dear all,
I m here to share and get some fruitful suggestion from all of you.I m facing very serious problem regarding my occasional stammering while talking to our clients. it also happens while introducing my self and my company to new clients. I cant make good sale or attract others toward our products. I cant prolong my talk thats why i need to rep-up my discussion without getting desirable outcomes. my tongue get stuck and feel so hopeless n helpless then.then it take hours n days to get back to work but result-less caz it happens again n again.
CAN IT BE TREATED CAZ IT THROWS ME TOWARD FAILURE N I DNT WANNA BE A LOOSER.
regards,
Muhammad tahir

From Pakistan, Lahore
ACT
490

Hi

I can understand your anxiety and frustration when you end up stammering. More importantly very rarely do those whom you speak to have an appreciation of your own turmoil and wavering confidence when you get those stammering spells. You are lucky that you only start stammering occasionally and that it is not an acute condition.

Since I am not an expert on the subject and I can offer you only some amateur suggestions based more on my observations and partly based on logical thinking.

- if you have been suffering from stammering for a long time and you have a family history of stammering then it is best that you consult an expert

- if your stammering has come about suddenly then perhaps you also need to see an expert but at the same time you can also try to find out if there were any incidents or shocks that you may have experienced prior to your stammering problem emerging.

- since you indicated that you only have occasional stammering can you find a pattern in the situations or circumstances in which you end up stammering

I am sharing a link with you sourced from this site where the last person to reply has given his email contact and has offered to give suggestions for those suffering from the said problem

https://www.citehr.com/111943-you-st...velopment.html

The final thoughts for you are

- don't lose hope ( I have a classmate who had a terrible stammering problem while at school but when I met him 25 years later, the first question he asked me after the initial pleasantries was if I noticed some drastic change in him. It took me a while to figure out his stammer had gone. He attributed it to his professional success and confidence gained )

- you must focus on ways and means to highlight your strengths in other areas that would overshadow your stammering limitation. The quality of your research or presentation or the way you anticipate and prepare answers to their possible questions (objection handling ) etc.

- never let your stammering problem become an excuse for any setbacks or obstacles you face in your personal and professional life.

I hope you get to find an adequate solution to your problem.

Best Wishes

From India, Mumbai
Hi Muhammad Tahir,
Occasional stammering can be worked upon as it is purely psychological in nature. Please consult a Speech Therapist. The Speech Therapist shall help you with various exercises that shall help you remain calm in various situations. He/she will also work with you on various speech exercises that shall help you develop flow and continuity. Seek professional help and things will improve in some time. Keep up the faith and think positive. All the best!

From India, Delhi
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