A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage.
They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When
the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine
bottle open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the
bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.
The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried
him to the hospital. He died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how she was going to face her husband.
When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.
QUESTIONS :
1. What were the five words ?
2. What is the implication of this story?
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ANSWER :
The husband just said "I am with you Darling".
The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.
No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her. If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.
MORAL OF THE STORY
This story is really worth reading. Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.
From India, Coimbatore
733They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When
the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine
bottle open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the
bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter.
The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried
him to the hospital. He died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how she was going to face her husband.
When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just five words.
QUESTIONS :
1. What were the five words ?
2. What is the implication of this story?
Scroll down to read....
ANSWER :
The husband just said "I am with you Darling".
The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened.
No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child. What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her. If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step." Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.
MORAL OF THE STORY
This story is really worth reading. Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know. By this way we miss out some warmth in human relationship.
From India, Coimbatore
Wonderful story. Apart from good relationships, I feel the story also gives a lesson about living from moment to moment as the great intellectual J. Krishnamurthy would say or some of the wonderful things written in the book "The power of now".
Though playing the blame game is undesirable as is brought out by the story, our shastras have said that to solve a problem you have to get at the root and to do that some blame has to be apportioned. Therefore, it all depends on with what motive you blame. As the saying goes "God punishes the intention, not the action." In my view, only blaming with dubious motives and vested interest is undesirable.
From India, New Delhi
Though playing the blame game is undesirable as is brought out by the story, our shastras have said that to solve a problem you have to get at the root and to do that some blame has to be apportioned. Therefore, it all depends on with what motive you blame. As the saying goes "God punishes the intention, not the action." In my view, only blaming with dubious motives and vested interest is undesirable.
From India, New Delhi
Dear Friends,
This is a true story and it happended about 11 years ago. the husband is an Indian Naval Officer - still serving and currently a Captain. they were posted in Kochi when this incident happened. Truly a great couple - they have another child now.
Girish
This is a true story and it happended about 11 years ago. the husband is an Indian Naval Officer - still serving and currently a Captain. they were posted in Kochi when this incident happened. Truly a great couple - they have another child now.
Girish
Hello , Hey this is really good great story you always we think that why this happened ,why that happened .so thats all part of life . Its really very nice story. Regards Shanti
From India, Delhi
From India, Delhi
hi
this is really very nice story everyone should be react in a positive way because in this world no one is right, but people try to ignore their faults and try to blame others and feeling self satisfaction this is one type of phobia especially in humans inorder to cover their mistakes they try to raise fault in other person and try to divert from their fault not to point out them but if people follow these story really we will have peaceful life
thank you
anu
this is really very nice story everyone should be react in a positive way because in this world no one is right, but people try to ignore their faults and try to blame others and feeling self satisfaction this is one type of phobia especially in humans inorder to cover their mistakes they try to raise fault in other person and try to divert from their fault not to point out them but if people follow these story really we will have peaceful life
thank you
anu
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