A beautiful message!!
THIS IS HOW WE MISS OUT SOMETHING CALLED "LIFE"
A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter. The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just 5 words.
QUESTIONS:
1. What were the five words?
2. What is the implication of this story?
ANSWER:
The husband just said "I am with you Darling"
The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened. No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child.
What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.
If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.
MORAL OF THE STORY:
This story is really worth reading. .... Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know.
By this way we miss out something called L.I.F.E.
From India, Coimbatore
733THIS IS HOW WE MISS OUT SOMETHING CALLED "LIFE"
A boy was born to a couple after eleven years of marriage. They were a loving couple and the boy was the gem of their eyes. When the boy was around two years old, one morning the husband saw a medicine bottle open. He was late for office so he asked his wife to cap the bottle and keep it in the cupboard. His wife, preoccupied in the kitchen totally forgot the matter. The boy saw the bottle and playfully went to the bottle fascinated by its color and drank it all. It happened to be a poisonous medicine meant for adults in small dosages. When the child collapsed the mother hurried him to the hospital, where he died. The mother was stunned. She was terrified how to face her husband. When the distraught father came to the hospital and saw the dead child, he looked at his wife and uttered just 5 words.
QUESTIONS:
1. What were the five words?
2. What is the implication of this story?
ANSWER:
The husband just said "I am with you Darling"
The husband's totally unexpected reaction is a proactive behavior. The child is dead. He can never be brought back to life. There is no point in finding fault with the mother. Besides, if only he had taken time to keep the bottle away, this would not have happened. No one is to be blamed. She had also lost her only child.
What she needed at that moment was consolation and sympathy from the husband. That is what he gave her.
If everyone can look at life with this kind of perspective, there would be much fewer problems in the world. "A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Take off all your envies, jealousies, unforgiveness, selfishness, and fears. And you will find things are actually not as difficult as you think.
MORAL OF THE STORY:
This story is really worth reading. .... Sometimes we spend time in asking who is responsible or whom to blame, whether in a relationship, in a job or with the people we know.
By this way we miss out something called L.I.F.E.
From India, Coimbatore
Great inspirational story.I wish we in our life realize it ,practice it,indeed then the world wld be a better place to live.Thank you for sharing such wonderful lesson on life!
From India, Calcutta
From India, Calcutta
A very good reminder of how we should behave with eachother as life partners......and a very good lesson for those who wanna bulid good relations.... Ayaz
From Pakistan, Lahore
From Pakistan, Lahore
Dear Mr. Sardhar, As usual you are posting a very thoughtful story. Keep posting such nice things. Good Luck to you. With best wishes, Y. K. Kalia, Advocate
From India, Delhi
From India, Delhi
thanks for posting this. it is really very enlightening. eventhough not everybody will agree on this, i still think this is the right thing to do faced with this kind of situation.
Hi Peer
The story teaches me two things:
1. To take ownership of things.
2. Not to be too dependent on others and if you have delegated the task, then ensure a follow up on same.
Also, I liked the footnote in your posting: "If you don't like the RULE, Follow it & Reach the Top, then Change it". :)
Do keep on sharing such stories.
Thanks
Ruchi
From India, Chandigarh
The story teaches me two things:
1. To take ownership of things.
2. Not to be too dependent on others and if you have delegated the task, then ensure a follow up on same.
Also, I liked the footnote in your posting: "If you don't like the RULE, Follow it & Reach the Top, then Change it". :)
Do keep on sharing such stories.
Thanks
Ruchi
From India, Chandigarh
it was nice reading the story.Wish people could learn and implement simple things in Life as it is too beautiful to miss out on small issues. Regards, Reena
From India, Hyderabad
From India, Hyderabad
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