Dear ALL,
I am MBA-HR in 2007 batch. I am working in an organistaion where working conditions are not so good and the Management is not Professional one.
I have join this org. bcoz I thought that time i will learn more here but whatever i have learnt only bcoz of my efforts only.
I want a change from here but the problem is this i am not able to select in any organisation.
I am just passing 2-3 rounds but in the last i am not selecting coz they say i am a fresher and i have less experience.
I got fed up from this environmenet. I just want a change, Previously i got selecte din 2-3 org. But i had not joined there.
My personal life is so disturb that even i cannot tell to anybdy, My professional life also not so well.
Now, I do not beleive on the god bcoz i am facing lot of problems daily in my life.
I am alone, Plz suggest what i will do.
Regards
Ranjeet
From India, New Delhi
11I am MBA-HR in 2007 batch. I am working in an organistaion where working conditions are not so good and the Management is not Professional one.
I have join this org. bcoz I thought that time i will learn more here but whatever i have learnt only bcoz of my efforts only.
I want a change from here but the problem is this i am not able to select in any organisation.
I am just passing 2-3 rounds but in the last i am not selecting coz they say i am a fresher and i have less experience.
I got fed up from this environmenet. I just want a change, Previously i got selecte din 2-3 org. But i had not joined there.
My personal life is so disturb that even i cannot tell to anybdy, My professional life also not so well.
Now, I do not beleive on the god bcoz i am facing lot of problems daily in my life.
I am alone, Plz suggest what i will do.
Regards
Ranjeet
From India, New Delhi
dear friend start searching another organisation and try to get out of this company change your present environment and that is the only solution. better be late than never.
From India, Coimbatore
From India, Coimbatore
Hi Ranjeet,
seems you are going through a rough patch.
Dont loose your heart and keep trying for improvements. After all, life is like that. If we dont have problems in ife, it wont be life.
Dont be anxious and have some patience. Sometimes, you realize that things are not moving. But it may be possible that something beter is waiting for you.
All the best to you. You said that you were selected in 2- 3 organizations. That means, you are competent enough to crack interviews. Keep working sincerely, best is yet to come.
Regards
From India, Hyderabad
seems you are going through a rough patch.
Dont loose your heart and keep trying for improvements. After all, life is like that. If we dont have problems in ife, it wont be life.
Dont be anxious and have some patience. Sometimes, you realize that things are not moving. But it may be possible that something beter is waiting for you.
All the best to you. You said that you were selected in 2- 3 organizations. That means, you are competent enough to crack interviews. Keep working sincerely, best is yet to come.
Regards
From India, Hyderabad
Dear Ranjeet,
One thing you should remember whatever happens, happens for good.
There is no perfect environment and perfect life, good time and bad time
are the ingredients of the journey of life. So don't get disheartened and
disappointed. Have faith in yourself, do the karma and be optimistic.
With all my best wishes for you :icon1:
Regards
From India, Bangalore
One thing you should remember whatever happens, happens for good.
There is no perfect environment and perfect life, good time and bad time
are the ingredients of the journey of life. So don't get disheartened and
disappointed. Have faith in yourself, do the karma and be optimistic.
With all my best wishes for you :icon1:
Regards
From India, Bangalore
hey buddy
Your getting too worked up...When we have problems in life we feel everything's coming in our way and its completely natural to feel that way...think of all the good things that God has given to you...
See i feel that you maybe able to change your job but its also important to change our attitude..like someone said that happiness and satisfaction is not there or somewhere else it is within me...you may feel that I, being ignorant of what your real problem, am just giving gyan but each one of us faces challenges sometime in our lives...
For some they are not so tough for the others they can be mind racking but the solution to all of them is to stay above such issues...you will be able to resolve a problem only if you are not a part of it...
Nobody can really tell you whats best for you...just sit back and think "is this job just as difficult as im thinking it is?" if your answer is yes then move on....it is possible that you are feeling this way about your job because your personal life is disturbed as well...think objectively...
And no matter what don't ever lose faith in God...i don't know if you've heard this but i found this good
"Don't lose faith if God drops you from the edge of a cliff, there are only two things that can happen - he will either catch you when you fall, or he will teach you to fly..."
Im sure theres a learning for you in this...just do the learning and move on...
And get back to me if your still in doubt
From India, Delhi
Your getting too worked up...When we have problems in life we feel everything's coming in our way and its completely natural to feel that way...think of all the good things that God has given to you...
See i feel that you maybe able to change your job but its also important to change our attitude..like someone said that happiness and satisfaction is not there or somewhere else it is within me...you may feel that I, being ignorant of what your real problem, am just giving gyan but each one of us faces challenges sometime in our lives...
For some they are not so tough for the others they can be mind racking but the solution to all of them is to stay above such issues...you will be able to resolve a problem only if you are not a part of it...
Nobody can really tell you whats best for you...just sit back and think "is this job just as difficult as im thinking it is?" if your answer is yes then move on....it is possible that you are feeling this way about your job because your personal life is disturbed as well...think objectively...
And no matter what don't ever lose faith in God...i don't know if you've heard this but i found this good
"Don't lose faith if God drops you from the edge of a cliff, there are only two things that can happen - he will either catch you when you fall, or he will teach you to fly..."
Im sure theres a learning for you in this...just do the learning and move on...
And get back to me if your still in doubt
From India, Delhi
Dear All,
Thanks for the reply.
I always believe like this.
Previously I always think positive in my Life. I Will fight till the end this is my attitude.
But, I want to share one incident with all of you that will affect my life so much.
I want to marry my classmate who is with me in my tough time. She is very good and doing job.
She also want to marry me but by the grace of god her marriage is fixed somewhere else.
We belong to the small cities and we cannot go against our families and do intercaste marriage.
The problem is that we are not finding any solution and by the 9th of this month her marriage was fixed.
We cannot do anything. The problem is that she loves me a lot yaar but due toour families and socitiey in small city we cannot go gagainst as we know that we understand each other so much that by looking on face we can judge what had happened to each other.
I do not want to loose haer from my life.
Till that time i always believe in god but now when condition are so bad when i have seen problems from my childhood at each and every step i am on other way.
My professional life is also not so good, I do not able to think i can do.
Pray to your god May be something happened, But i dont think so.
Regards
Ranjeet
From India, New Delhi
Thanks for the reply.
I always believe like this.
Previously I always think positive in my Life. I Will fight till the end this is my attitude.
But, I want to share one incident with all of you that will affect my life so much.
I want to marry my classmate who is with me in my tough time. She is very good and doing job.
She also want to marry me but by the grace of god her marriage is fixed somewhere else.
We belong to the small cities and we cannot go against our families and do intercaste marriage.
The problem is that we are not finding any solution and by the 9th of this month her marriage was fixed.
We cannot do anything. The problem is that she loves me a lot yaar but due toour families and socitiey in small city we cannot go gagainst as we know that we understand each other so much that by looking on face we can judge what had happened to each other.
I do not want to loose haer from my life.
Till that time i always believe in god but now when condition are so bad when i have seen problems from my childhood at each and every step i am on other way.
My professional life is also not so good, I do not able to think i can do.
Pray to your god May be something happened, But i dont think so.
Regards
Ranjeet
From India, New Delhi
Dear Jeni
Greetings!
As of now stay in ur present company and gain some knowledge(by self or through exp). Meanwhile search for job. If u quit and search for a job, no will call for the interview itself.
KMG infotech, Delhi is looking for HR Executive and more over they are looking for 6months experience only.
Jubiliant Chemsys Ltd & Advent Infosoft Pvt Ltd aslo looking for fresher.
All the very best.
From India, Madras
Greetings!
As of now stay in ur present company and gain some knowledge(by self or through exp). Meanwhile search for job. If u quit and search for a job, no will call for the interview itself.
KMG infotech, Delhi is looking for HR Executive and more over they are looking for 6months experience only.
Jubiliant Chemsys Ltd & Advent Infosoft Pvt Ltd aslo looking for fresher.
All the very best.
From India, Madras
Dear Jeeni,
Please take this as a request but you really have to do it. "Believe in yourself"
All will be fine. Make contacts in your company and through your friends.
Marriage is something I suggest you keep away from discussing with professional friends which includes this forum also but yes once you'll believe in yourself then you can handle your life. Say openly to your parents what you desire in a partner and discuss. I know convincin parents is a tough job but you are HR. Do it man try it.
Regards,
Dr Swati
From India, Bangalore
Please take this as a request but you really have to do it. "Believe in yourself"
All will be fine. Make contacts in your company and through your friends.
Marriage is something I suggest you keep away from discussing with professional friends which includes this forum also but yes once you'll believe in yourself then you can handle your life. Say openly to your parents what you desire in a partner and discuss. I know convincin parents is a tough job but you are HR. Do it man try it.
Regards,
Dr Swati
From India, Bangalore
Dear Swati,
First of all, Thanks for a reply.
I am a tough guy and fighting with a spirit. Besides only having only 11 months experience i had learnt much more in H.R. When mostly peoply start their career from a consultancy , I had started from a companywhere i had learnt from recruitment to time- Office but in terms of stability and devotion towards a company, I am not positive bcoz they are paying me much lesser. I have seen that my classmates are not in coys but they are getting much more than me. They know no nothing besides searching resumes on Naukri.com.
You know first we have to fullfill our basic needs. Regarding the marriage i am not going to marry even that girl also for 2 years bxcoz i have to see my career.
Today i.e Wednesday, July 9, 2008 her marriage got fixed and she replied to me she cannot tell to her parents, thats ok. May be she has her own responsibilities and problems.
But i am fighting with full spirit. Pray to god that everything became normal.
Regardding friends i have not a single friend in HR. Kuch hai bhi toh Marketing me aur sirf kehne k liye.
If there is any vacancy plz do a favour, intmate to me.
Thanks for showing concern.
With Warm Regards
Ranjeet
(Jeeni)
From India, New Delhi
First of all, Thanks for a reply.
I am a tough guy and fighting with a spirit. Besides only having only 11 months experience i had learnt much more in H.R. When mostly peoply start their career from a consultancy , I had started from a companywhere i had learnt from recruitment to time- Office but in terms of stability and devotion towards a company, I am not positive bcoz they are paying me much lesser. I have seen that my classmates are not in coys but they are getting much more than me. They know no nothing besides searching resumes on Naukri.com.
You know first we have to fullfill our basic needs. Regarding the marriage i am not going to marry even that girl also for 2 years bxcoz i have to see my career.
Today i.e Wednesday, July 9, 2008 her marriage got fixed and she replied to me she cannot tell to her parents, thats ok. May be she has her own responsibilities and problems.
But i am fighting with full spirit. Pray to god that everything became normal.
Regardding friends i have not a single friend in HR. Kuch hai bhi toh Marketing me aur sirf kehne k liye.
If there is any vacancy plz do a favour, intmate to me.
Thanks for showing concern.
With Warm Regards
Ranjeet
(Jeeni)
From India, New Delhi
To be happy in your present job " surrender to the moment without trying to control it. Do not get bugged by what others are doing or not. Let go of fixed preconceptions about what you must do, and to liberate your self-conscious sense of self and
selfprotective thoughts, which color the way you experience life and the WORK ENVIRONMNT. When you can do this, you are in the here and now of your job at hand, and can bring your maximum potential to bear on the tasks before you and bring about the desired change.
FOR YOUR LOVE LIFE
" When you cannot make up your mind which of two evenly balanced courses of action you should take - choose the bolder."
From India, Pune
selfprotective thoughts, which color the way you experience life and the WORK ENVIRONMNT. When you can do this, you are in the here and now of your job at hand, and can bring your maximum potential to bear on the tasks before you and bring about the desired change.
FOR YOUR LOVE LIFE
" When you cannot make up your mind which of two evenly balanced courses of action you should take - choose the bolder."
From India, Pune
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