733Strengthen your Strengths
Close your eyes and imagine yourself walking into a room. Here you meet the ‘you’ of ten years from now. How does this person look? What is he wearing? Where does he live? What kind of lifestyle does he lead? What car does he drive? What does he do? Is he an entrepreneur or a business executive? How successful is he? What is his net worth? Go ahead, ask him these questions and let your inner-self answer you.
If you were given only three choices about the ‘you of the future’, which one would you choose?
a) Someone worse than what you are now. Not doing well in life, depressed, and broke.
b) Exactly how you are now. Absolutely no change in your position and finances.
c) A far more successful, happier, wealthier version of the present you.
Anyone with an iota of confidence will choose the third option. Of course you can’t be worse off than you are today, nor can you remain static; so the only option left is to move forward. Now how much forward you move, depends entirely on how well you use your unique strengths.
The other day I was reading a forwarded mail, which contained Mr. Azim Premji’s famous speech on what he has learnt during the course of his stupendously successful life. I love this speech and never tire of quoting from it. According to Mr. Premji, we must always begin with our strengths. To illustrate his point he tells this story of an imaginary rabbit. This rabbit was enrolled in a rabbit school. Like all rabbits, it could hop very well but could not swim. At the end of the year, the rabbit got high marks in hopping but failed in swimming. The parents were concerned. They said, "Forget about hopping. You are anyway good at it. Concentrate on swimming." They sent the rabbit for tuitions in swimming. And guess what happened? The rabbit forgot how to hop! As for swimming, have you ever seen a rabbit swim?
This story sums up the thrust of our focus not only in preparing for MBA entrance exams, or while writing the exams, but also at every step in our lives. Because as Mr. Premji says, “While it is important for us to know what we are not good at, we must also cherish what is good in us. That is because it is only our strengths that can give us the energy to correct our weaknesses.”
So with this beautiful lesson in mind, ask yourself some more questions now:
- What are my strengths?
- How can I build them up further?
- How can I use my strengths to correct my weaknesses?
- Am I using my strengths on a daily basis?
- If not, then how can I use my strengths for test preparation, at work, and in life for a bigger purpose?
- What is my bigger purpose?
When do you feel most energized and happiest? These must be the times when you are doing what you love to do. Think of those times. What are the strengths that you bank upon or exhibit during these times? Be proud of those, and think of new ways to incorporate these abilities into other areas of your life. Using your strengths strengthen them. As they say, “Use it or lose it”. This applies to everything in our lives.
I believe that all of us carry strengths inside us that are waiting to be identified, revealed, and expressed. Your strengths have been given to you to contribute in your progress, to make an impact in your life. You are meant to use your strengths in a constructive way, in order to build your future. Once you realize this truth and take action you will not only energize your own self, but your entire environment.
You need to dream big, but just dreams are not enough; you need to develop the habits of a winner. By a ‘winner’ I mean someone who, by his own definition of winning and losing, is pulling ahead of the game and achieving what he set out to achieve. Wining is not about just working hard, it is about maintaining or losing motivation.
So, psyche yourself about achieving your goal. Know that you just have to do it this time. Get ready, follow your plan of working on your strengths, and stay determined. You already have a picture of where you want to be in about ten years time, so just take off! Don’t get distracted by life, make your life an ally. Don’t lose focus. Review your goal each day, several times a day. Concentrate on ‘what’ you need to be doing and ‘when’ you need to be doing it.
You deserve to achieve your goals, and once you optimize your strengths, your goals are as good as achieved!
As always, EXPECT success!!
Courtesy
Chitra Jha
Life Skills Coach
Past Life Regression Therapist
http://mylife-mysuccess.blogspot.com
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From India, Coimbatore
Now, thats an amazing post....KUDOS....!!
Well, yes there are somethings which need to be highlighted here...Your strengths and weaknesses are within you. You have to be true to yourself to identify it. Its not what you want to become that will help you identify your strengths and weaknesses. Its about what you are now, why you are the way you are now, what do you need to do to become what you want to become....its an interesting thought. Take your time.....identify a place where you really find peace. Sit with yourself, be yourself and talk to yourself. Don't feel bad about what has happened to you in past....good and bad experiences are part of life....and they actually give meaning to life...
It will take a lot of time for some of us to understand ourselves better...for sometimes, in an attempt to project ourselves the way we should be, fool ourselves as well on what we actually are....
Yes, its about believing in yourself...but to believe in yourself, you should also be true to yourself, understand your limitations, understand your strengths.....
Will continue the post as the thoughts flow....
Regards,
Arun
From India, Bangalore
Well, yes there are somethings which need to be highlighted here...Your strengths and weaknesses are within you. You have to be true to yourself to identify it. Its not what you want to become that will help you identify your strengths and weaknesses. Its about what you are now, why you are the way you are now, what do you need to do to become what you want to become....its an interesting thought. Take your time.....identify a place where you really find peace. Sit with yourself, be yourself and talk to yourself. Don't feel bad about what has happened to you in past....good and bad experiences are part of life....and they actually give meaning to life...
It will take a lot of time for some of us to understand ourselves better...for sometimes, in an attempt to project ourselves the way we should be, fool ourselves as well on what we actually are....
Yes, its about believing in yourself...but to believe in yourself, you should also be true to yourself, understand your limitations, understand your strengths.....
Will continue the post as the thoughts flow....
Regards,
Arun
From India, Bangalore
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